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my friend/ the guy i liked and he liked me back expelled and said he was gnna kill himself so i told the principal when we were getting questioned and he neede dproof so i showed him an mns convo where my friend lets call him bob said he was gunna kill himself and the guy who got him expelled and the principal got the police involved and now as far as i know i got him arrested. now i feel really bad and i think he hates me but i haven'/t been in contact wiht him but he has been on mns in the past couple of days what should i do? (link)
well dont feel too guilt because imagine how guilty u wold feel if u didnt do anyhting about it and he killed himself and someone else. you did a good thing. hes probably really pissed cause he got arrested and stuff. maybe try apoligizing to him, though that prob. wont be enough. if its not enough let him cool down. give him space and time, and that shhouldnt be hard consiering hes in jail or whatever. i hope i culd help :)


Ok so me and my boyfiend have been dating about 2 months. We are going out to eat saturday for valentines day its nowhere fancy(i'm not a big fancy restaurant or fancy anything kinda girl)but i don't know what i should get him or do for him. I told him not to get me anything when he asked what i wanted but he said he was still gonna get me something. What do I do? (link)
hmm. if u feel uncomfortable buying him something...why dont you make him a photo album of you guys if you any pictures...or a cd of the songs that remind you of him


Me & this boy, Jake * have been hooking up & having sex for a few weeks. I really like him, most of the time he is very cute/polite. But, today we were talking like we do everyday and I said, what are you doing? and he said popping a pimple and like said stuff about it and I was really grossed out but I tried to just be nice...It really turned me off. Were not in a relationship so do you think hes trying to show me he just wants to be friends? or do you think hes just being an immature 18 year old boy? help! (link)
hmm i think hes just being himself in front of you, and thats a good thing! though it may have turned you off, its still good to know tjat he can be himself


Alright, so I started falling for this guy in my second hour class pretty hard this year. We flirt all of the time, and sometimes I get the impression that he wants to ask me out, but the one thing holding up the relationship is that he has a girlfriend. Only I'm so confused because when he talks to me, he acts as if he doesn't have a girlfriend at all. & I know he wants me to flirt back with him. & I can tell that he likes me. & I think he knows that I like him too. We're not in the same grade; he's three years older than me, but I really don't see age as an issue. This situation has been driving me insane for months, and all I really need right now is some good advice on what I should do.

Should I flirt back? Just go for it, and not care? Or back off and be respectful towards their relationship?

I know I probably should be the better person and not flirt back, but you're only a teenager once and I'd rather be naughty now then naughty later.

Thanks. xx3 (link)
aright, dont give up on this guy. hes obviously into you the same way your into him. next time he flirts with u, ask him a question in a nice way...be like "does ur gf know ur sucha big flirt?" but say it with a smile so he doesnt think you want to get rid of him


i like this boy and he the first boy like seen me and my boyfriend broke up and he stop talking to me but he told me that we could talk and chill if i have sex with him (link)
um ok this guys a fuckin jerk, belvie me it may not seem like it now...but in the longrun your gonna be happy u left him. you'll find someone better,trust me


so my younger sister never spends any time (out of school) with her friends. she is in 8th grade, and i would think that at least some girls her age are hanging out on weekends, i mean i remember having sleepovers with my friends when i was that age. anyways, i was wondering if this was normal? the last time she did anything with her friends was when she went to the movies one time in the summer...

she's not in fights with any of them either... (link)
everyone has a period of time in theyre life where you feel too intimidated or insecure to really start letting others know the real you...this phase happened to me once before and your sister will probably get over it. im in 9th grade btw. your sister may need to spend some time with you..a teenager to really get the feel of it first...let her feel confident in herself..something may be bugging her, and she could use the help of her older wiser sibling


hello. im 16 years old, turning 17 after 1 month and couple of days and a female.

well if you wonder what i look like, you would notice my piercings, um black hair , dark brown eyes, almost pale skin, tall enough.

well i hate something called depression, i\'m always happy but not really from inside, i want people to help me out and tell me i\'m fine and i\'m not going to go insane well i know that part i mean i\'ll never think of suicide or something that\'s stupid no! i need to solve my problems

well first of all i tried liking my sister, i tried convincing myself that i just don\'t like her now because she is being a bitch but i lover her because she is my sister , but the truth is i can\'t just lie to myself so for the first time i\'m going to admit, i thought of murder before , i\'m not some psycho person who is gonna murder someone no i just thought of murder before and i thought of murdering my sister and that i would feel so good about it.

i have two insane parents who made me to choice between them and if i choice one of them i cant speak to the other , i choice my mom because i can drink and smoke at home, i actually love them both but i hate them also the same level both, so i dont like my mom more than my dad or something no! but my mom gives me freedom more than dad

well common factors between them is

both alcoholics , i dont care i have drinking problems myself which i\'m gonna discuss

both got caught with rolled cigs in there cig packs i wasnt shocked at all honestly just pretended to be

i live in a house, ughh i cnt even know where to start, i bet if you come over you might go deaf , you know i wish one day would pass peaceful, the o nly days that would pass p eaceful is the days i would sleep all morning of a sleeping pill

i love my brother well i loved my brother until i got to know him and i found out he is a total asshole , he is my half brother btw (mom got married three times and dad two times) active people haa??


ookay next to m y feelings and problems enough with my parents problems thats getting to me

on christmas i went to a party , i had too many drinks like all the time , i made out with a very close friend of mine and we dont speak anymore

on new years after midnight i was one year single cuz my boyfriend dumped me after midnight exactly , i was drunk and he called me, we made out in his car and i gave him a blow job (first time ever to give a blow job or see a real dick before)

on jan 8 my friend\'s birthday, whom i made out with in his bathroom , and gave him three lovebites o n his stomach but

before that (you know when u get drunk and you happen to tell someone , something that is bothering you well, it happened with me but with the wrong bitch) i told this gurl what i did with ma ex because i felt guilty and she told everyone , when i was making out with the guy in the bathroom, he asked me to give him a blowjob , well me being stupid thought he was just asking but then i got it, after i found out everyone is been talking (didnt give him the blowjob because he is an asshole )

after the party , my bestfrined wasnt speak to me from new years event , and i totally broke in tears infront of him, (drunkkkkk btw i never cry infront of people or i never cry ever) and i punched the wall that made my little finger bone go above the other one , and the operation is gonna cost my mom 3000$

i lost my ipod, 50$, make up bag and my friend\'s phone (the make up bag and 50 $ dont matter but i lost them ) i dont remember how and when?

i always say i\'ll stop but next day i drink
im drinking everyday, i got a d- on my math exam because i had a hang over and for sure the night before i didnt study

on nov 21 i said \"i\'ll stop weed\" i did but on new years and jan 8 and 2 , i smoked up

i cant get professional help because my mom thinks its totally fine, its a teenage time and laughs about it , she thinks its normal

please anyone tell me something useful, ive been helping alot of people on this website but i cant help my own (link)
wow, im 14 and i know i may look stupid trying to help you cause im younger...i have blonde hair, blue eyes and im very pale..i sometimes do weed too but im not hooked and i rarley drink...if you feel alone in any way..YOU ARENT..i know plenty of people throughout my town that are hooked on drinking and drugs. im a little too young to really understand what your feeling and i know your on this website for advice...but you arent alone and the most i can do is pray for you


Is it wrong to want someone to sleep next to you, cuddle with you, laugh, hug, kiss, and play with you, when you don't want to date anyone? (link)
honestly, no..just because you want to feel loved and important doesnt make you a slut or anything like that. if you feel that you are leading the boy on, make it clear to him that hes just somebody to have some fun with...everyone feels that way at some point...it is totally normal




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