Member Since: January 11, 2009
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Last Update: January 11, 2009
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I'm 14,i jus turned 14 actually and at school im basically the biggest slut ever,but ive been trying to change that,well ever since i found out im pregnant.i used protection.i was on the pill,but i guess somehow i got pregnant but the worst part is i dont know who the father is and honestly it could be like 10 guys.no joke.im tryin to determine if i should just get an abortion and not tell my parents or tell them then get an abortion or tell them and have it or just have and dont tell them till its ready to come out!its such a difficult decision and lately my mom has been getting mad at me cause ive been eating so much food.please someone help me! (link)
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The last thing you ever want to do is have an abortion. I think the best idea would be to tell your parents or just your mom for right now. She is not going to be happy and probably a little angry, but you can not do this by yourself. You need her by your side. After all she has been through it all alreasy ;) It will all work out however it is supposed to, but the first thing you have to do is tell her!!! Good luck with everything :)
Meagan xoxo
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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a couple of months and it is our second time going out now i love him and he loves me but we fight everyday and it happens a lot that he says or i say idk if we should go out anymore because we fight everyday but we always end up going out and when we are together we have a great time and i dont want to break up with him but we got into a fight yesterday and i said some things i didnt mean but he said he will never forget what i said because it hurt him so much and now i do not know what to do because he said that he doesnt know if we should go out and that he will tell me tomorrow what he thinks and that he is leaning towards still going out but that what i said really hurt him but i still really wanna go out with him what do i do to save our relationship!?!?!
thanks in advance!!
-maeve =] (link)
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dear maeve,
i know having a boyfriend can be hard especially if it feels like all you ever do is fight. Trust me i know from expierence that it just tears your heart out when things like this happen. When fights occure more times then not the two of you will say things you do not mean out of anger but those words hurt!! Here would be my advice to you, have him come over and just talk about how much he means to you. Tell him you love him and you realize what you said really hurt him and that you are sorry. Between the two of you try to figure out a way to talk out your problems without yelling or mean words. Once you can get through this, the two of you will be stronger then you would have ever imagined!! :) good luck!
Meagan
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