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boyfriend fighting
Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a couple of months and it is our second time going out now i love him and he loves me but we fight everyday and it happens a lot that he says or i say idk if we should go out anymore because we fight everyday but we always end up going out and when we are together we have a great time and i dont want to break up with him but we got into a fight yesterday and i said some things i didnt mean but he said he will never forget what i said because it hurt him so much and now i do not know what to do because he said that he doesnt know if we should go out and that he will tell me tomorrow what he thinks and that he is leaning towards still going out but that what i said really hurt him but i still really wanna go out with him what do i do to save our relationship!?!?!
thanks in advance!!
-maeve =]
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Tell him that you understand why he'll never forget what you said to him, and that you know he's hurt, but that you didn't mean anything you said and that you love him and don't want to lose him over a few meanigless words you said out of anger. You should also tell him and make sure that it doesn't happen again, so he knows that you mean it. maybe you should make him a mix cd of his fave songs and songs that explain how you feel, and give it to him. that would be a cute thing to do to show you care :] that's sure to make him believe you and save yur relationship.
hope i helped ! xxo good luck
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dear maeve,
i know having a boyfriend can be hard especially if it feels like all you ever do is fight. Trust me i know from expierence that it just tears your heart out when things like this happen. When fights occure more times then not the two of you will say things you do not mean out of anger but those words hurt!! Here would be my advice to you, have him come over and just talk about how much he means to you. Tell him you love him and you realize what you said really hurt him and that you are sorry. Between the two of you try to figure out a way to talk out your problems without yelling or mean words. Once you can get through this, the two of you will be stronger then you would have ever imagined!! :) good luck!
Meagan
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