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Me & this boy, Jake * have been hooking up & having sex for a few weeks. I really like him, most of the time he is very cute/polite. But, today we were talking like we do everyday and I said, what are you doing? and he said popping a pimple and like said stuff about it and I was really grossed out but I tried to just be nice...It really turned me off. Were not in a relationship so do you think hes trying to show me he just wants to be friends? or do you think hes just being an immature 18 year old boy? help!
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Hello, he is absolutley not trying to be immature, in my opinion he was simply telling the truth about what he is doing, he was being honest with you which means he is comfortable with even telling you things that are gross. It is hard to say if he actually wants to be in a relationship you would have to ask him what he fels about that,he may not know thats what you want. Its good to put everything on the table in the beginning,like are you guys just hooking up for fun or that you want to get to know eachother more so no ones feelings get hurt,comunication is key in any relationship! Its ok that you feel turned off but he wqas just being himself. If he starts to hint that he wansts to be more than friends than go for it but if not then you can continue this or stop,as you well know guys can have sex on an off with girls with no emotions attached so just see where it goes.. I hope this helped,the best of luck to you and if you have any further qestions I would be happy to help you on this topic or any other topic,just send me a private message!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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hmm i think hes just being himself in front of you, and thats a good thing! though it may have turned you off, its still good to know tjat he can be himself
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