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Boy problems.
Alright, so I started falling for this guy in my second hour class pretty hard this year. We flirt all of the time, and sometimes I get the impression that he wants to ask me out, but the one thing holding up the relationship is that he has a girlfriend. Only I'm so confused because when he talks to me, he acts as if he doesn't have a girlfriend at all. & I know he wants me to flirt back with him. & I can tell that he likes me. & I think he knows that I like him too. We're not in the same grade; he's three years older than me, but I really don't see age as an issue. This situation has been driving me insane for months, and all I really need right now is some good advice on what I should do.
Should I flirt back? Just go for it, and not care? Or back off and be respectful towards their relationship?
I know I probably should be the better person and not flirt back, but you're only a teenager once and I'd rather be naughty now then naughty later.
Thanks. xx3
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1: Go for it. don't let some little bitch get in your way. Find your man and take him. If it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out but you only have a semester to test it out. GO!
2: Ok no? dont do that ^. if you think its wrong then it probably is. unless you dont know her. then it doesnt really matter.
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Wow...that is just like a typical guy.I don't think you should pursue him anymore, if he indeed does have a girlfriend.If he has a gf and he's flirting with you, not to be so blunt, but i'm sure he flirts with other...or I could be wrong and he could be into you whether he has a gf or not but some guys would like to have a gf and someone else...and maybe to him, you're that someone else.Also, though age is just a number, he could think you're a naive girl and try to take advantage of you. You have to be strong and make the right decisions. I can't tell you what to do because if he does have a gf, you have to have self integrity.I mean yes you're in high school, so am I, but do you just want to be that other someone or do you want him to yourself and not have to share him with his girlfriend.If he does with you, what makes you think that he won't do the same thing he's doing with his gf to you.
If you get one thing from this..remember to have self-integrity and respect...don't settle for that someone on the side b/c everyone deserves better than that.
if you ever need to talk, just send me a message.
--good luck--
I hope you make the right decision ;)
--Jordan--
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aright, dont give up on this guy. hes obviously into you the same way your into him. next time he flirts with u, ask him a question in a nice way...be like "does ur gf know ur sucha big flirt?" but say it with a smile so he doesnt think you want to get rid of him
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Okay listen to this...
"if he does it for you, he'll do it to you"
It sounds to me like he is one of those types of boyfriends that likes to keep his girlfriend around for the security but likes to have his fun with others as well.
If he flirts with you despite his girlfriends feelings, he'll flirt with other girls if you were ever to become his girlfriend as well. And you never know - you may not be the only girl he's flirting with. He sounds like a disrespectful uncaring guy. I would back off in spite of his girlfriend who already has to deal with her man whore boyfriend. I would stay away from this one, he sounds like a total jerk. He's probablly trying to charm you with flirtations to get 'some'. don't let him take advantage of you. Find someone else to be 'naughty' with;)
Good Luck!
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In my opinion I'd back off. I mean you could still flirt with him but don't expect much coming from this guy if he has a girlfriend unless you are expecting him to break up with her or cheat on her with you. I wouldn't want to ruin a relationship. Because just think about being the other person. It would hurt to know that. You can flirt and all but don't try and break them up. I would also look for other guys. There are plenty out there! Good luck!
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You're exactly right. You are only a teeager once! Be naughty nao! lol
If this guy is flirting flirt back. Who knows maybe he'll realize you're way better then the woman he has.
Flirting is completly innocent. So go for it. All men will act like they're single if they can. Do not get emotionally attached though, because he may not want to date you and just flirt, and that could hurt.
So flirt, be free, be a teenager!!
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