Ny name is Kerry Jeanne. I'm 19 in my second year of College. I'm about to transfer to another college in Southern California where the weather is beautiful and the city is alive! I love to give people advice and help them through sturggles in life. I happily live with my amazing boyfriend and roommate. I have a bulldog and a shih tzu. I'm very crazy, happy, outgoing, optimistic, funny, sweet, caring, and a total introvert. I'm spunky and always have a smile on my face. If I could have it my way, I'd be goofy all the time but when the time is needed, I know when to get serious. Life is great:)
If you need quick advice you can message me on AIM.
Gender: Female
Location: California
Occupation: Coldwell Banker/Sophmore in College
Age: 19
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i smoked weed for the second time last night, and at first it kind of scared me and then i finally calmed down. it was apparently really really strong, and i took at least 5 big hits.
i kept me all weirded out for a while, but then i got sick and threw up all over the place.
could someone tell me what might have been wrong? i doubt im supposed to throw up on weed. -.-''
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It was too much for your body to handle, so you got nauseated and threw up. It doesn't mean you're sick or in critical condition. It just means your body can't tolerate that kind of drug. I would stay away from it if I were you. Good Luck!
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im 16, and never had my first kiss yet. even though im pretty sad that i still never had one, i love to hear stories about other peoples' first kisses! it makes me excited for mine :) so whoever reading this, hopefully youll share your story! thank youuu:) (link)
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The most romantic/memorable kiss of my life wasn't my first kiss but was with my first kiss from my current boyfriend. We had just gotten back from a romantic date and were laying (3ft away from each other) LOL; in his bed watching a movie. His roommates I guess were teasing him because it had been our fifth date and he still had yet to kiss me. At first I thought there was something wrong with me because this was the longest any guy has ever waited to kiss me. So anyway, we were watching a movie and all of a sudden we hear his roommates put speakers up to his door playing the song 'Kiss the girl' from the little mermaid. We both turned bright red and just tried to ignore them. The movie ended and it started to get late to he walked me to my car to say goodnight. He was hugging me and all of a sudden he said, "Kerry, would it be alright if I kissed you right now?", I said yes and after he gave me our first kiss, I went back for 3 more kisses:)
Turns out he wanted to kiss me the whole time but was so nervous because he had never met a girl like me before. It was a night to remember and something I will ever forget. Here we are 10 months later, still as happy as ever.
Your first kiss might not be the best first kiss (mine was with a guy I didn't even know playing spin the bottle) but you will have a special guy someday that will make such a memorable impact on your life. Don't look for love because HE'LL find you. And he will make you so happy. Good Luck!
:)
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Hey im 17/f i got my belly button pierced like two months ago.. its still a bit red at the top where the ball screws on. Then today i looked and on the bottom is like a blood blister that just showed up. What do i do? Is this normal? (link)
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It's still in the healing process. Make sure to clean it with 'Peppermint Soap' from Trader Joe's or any organic grocery store. Also it is very important to fill a cup up with distilled water and sea salt and hold it on your belly button for 5-10 minutes a day. That way it heals faster and you decrease the chance of infection for the future. Good Luck!
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hey i was wondering to send a text from computer to phone is the example (123-456-7899@at&t.com) or whatever but does anyone know what it is for sprint?
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You can do it from your email. For example; if you have yahoo, go to 'Compose Message' and there should be a button on the right hand corner that allows you to change it to an 'Email Text Message', and from there it will give you a box to type in the phone number. Most email programs do this. Good Luck!
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I just visited , http://www.best-pc-tv.com , and the site said that PC satellite tv is legal. But i have heard that its a form of cracking. But the site showed some software that looked real legit. How can I find out for sure? (link)
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I wouldn't download anything you're unsure of as it might come with a virus. If you want to watch free tv online I suggest www.hulu.com. You don't have to download anything, you can watch it straight from your computer. Also, websites like www.abcfamily.com and www.mtv.com have links where you can watch full episodes online. Good Luck!
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hey girl i noticed you answered some1's sex question so i thought i'd ask you.. please help me.. but okay.. so this morning my boyfriend and i were having sex. i'm not on birth control but we always use protection and as he's about to go he always pulls out. today after we had sex we checked the condom to make sure there were no holes by filling it up with water. And sure enough, there was a freaking hole! but it was on the side of the condom towards the base of his penis.. so it was not near the tip of the condom where the semen collects .. it was away from the tip of the condom about 3 and a half inches. he said the condom was really tight and that he pulled out before he finished. when we filled the condom up with water we only figured out that there was a hole by squeezing it from all sides and it was a very tiny pinhole. do you think i'm okay ? =( or do you think that precum or cum could have somehow made its way up 3 1/2 inches to that hole and got out while we were having sex ? =( i'm so scared (link)
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I'm sure you're fine. If you become paranoid of becoming pregnant (which us girls seem to do a lot) then you will develop the symptoms of actually being pregnant which will ultimately freak you out even more. Guys know if they 'pull out' in time, so I'd trust your mans instinct. I advise you get on the pill though, If it's the parents that are stopping you, there are a million ways of getting around it. For example; if you want to tell your mom your getting on the pill so she can help you pay for it - you don't have to tell her it's for sex. Here are many other reasons girls get on the pill besides sex: painful cramps, regulating periods, acne, back pains, and even depression. If you feel you can't tell your parents, research planned parenthood and I believe you can get it for free without your parents finding out. Anyway back on topic, for the most part I think you should be fine. Like I said, if you freak yourself out - your body will think you're pregnant. Not only that but there are only certain days out of the month where a girl can get pregnant and those are the days she is ovulating. Google 'ovulation calculator' to find out which days you are the most fertile, and you'll know that those are the days you need to be the most careful. However if you are late, I advise you to take a test about a week after your missed period. I'm sure you're fine. Good Luck!
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I'm 16f and my brother is 14. His room is next to mine. about two weeks ago I was looking for something ona a high up shelf in my room and I noticed a small hole in the wall. I looked through it but couldn't see anything. I didn't think anything about it and sorta forgot about it. Then like 5 days ago I was in my room getting ready for bed and right when I took off my bra and panties to take a shower I heard a noise right where the hole is. I was totaly wierded out and decide to check it out. The next day I went into his room and figured the hole is in his closet I went in there and saw his set up. He has a chair in there and a box of tissues (YUCK!!!!) From the hole, he can see most of my room including my bed. I was so scared since that means he's probably seen alot. I'm not a really bad girl, but I have snuck a few guys into my room when my parents were out and clothes have come off, and I do do things when I'm alone. I've had friends overnight and they've changed in my room. Now it's pretty clear I've had an audience. I'm totally pissed at my brother for doing this. Until now we get along great and I actually elt him hang out with me and friends becuase he's pretty cool. I really want to tell my parents on him but two things stop me. First my brother might turn the tables and tell my parents that I've had boys over, which they absolutely don't allow. Second, my dad has a really bad temper and is very strict. He'd probably whip my brother's ass off (I mean it, my dad still uses the belt on his bare ass if my brother doea something really wrong. 10 or fifteen stripes is pretty typical for a beating. It leaves my brother howling and he cant sit for days) and then who knows what he's do to me over the boys. I'm too embarassed to talk to my brother because he's seen so much. So I don't know what to do. I can't even cover the hole since my room was painted in this custom purple and we don't have any left. Any paint there would clash. Any advice? (link)
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Your brother's behavior is totally unacceptable. It's also not okay to be letting these kinds of things keep happening. I know your father sounds like he has a temper, but if this kind of behavior continues from your brother, things can get far worse. He is invading your privacy and turning into, well a monster. You need to talk to your parents. If he tells them about boys coming over, well the best you can do is deny it. It's your word against his, but for the most part I think your parents are going to believe you considering the hole in the wall with the chair and the tissues in his closet. Show them when he's not home so he can't say anything about it. That way you can show them full proof. You need to tell them, trust me it's not going to get any better. Good Luck!
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hey, okaye so my mom & i have agreed to let me go to get a tan at hollywood tans , so i have never taned before there so does anyone know like how much it cost daily to go there and sesions things of that sort what i need to tan . I would apreciate it thanks . Torii babeyy (link)
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Usually tanning salons have a monthly rate, or you can buy points that go towards your minutes. Every tanning salon is different. Most places though charge around 20$ a month for unlimited tan sessions. For more information, I would call the place to get correct prices. Good Luck!
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okay so my winter formal is in two weeks and i still dont have a dress ! my mom is letting me order one online since the dress stores around here dont have anything good. well im a bigger girl, not plus size, but like a large or extra large in regular sizes. and i need a dress that would flatter my figure, like one with an empire waist. so if anyone could give me some awesome sites or direct links to dresses like that, that would be amazing! my budget is under $100. thankyou!! (link)
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Finding a dress under $100 is not easy. If I were you, I'd try websites like:
www.forever21.com
www.charlotterusse.com
www.loveculture.com
www.macys.com
Where they aren't as formal but still very cute. Good Luck!
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17/f.. for valentines day i want to put together a bunch of little things for my boyfriend. i'm going to make him some of those valentines day cookies, probably frame a picture of us.. any other ideas for little things like that?
anything would be appreciated! thanks :) (link)
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I love the idea, it's very sweet and comes from the heart. If I were you, I'd get a box and just stuff it with candy and the framed picture. Decorate it with cute wrapping paper and tones of confetti and tissue paper inside. Then you can put the cookies on a paper plate and wrap it with pink ceran wrap and tape it to the top of the box:) Good Luck!
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I was on the pill when i had sex and then stopped for a week and had my period but i have been getting reli upset over the stupidist of things, crying all the time, not sleeping at all, trying to get out of school, feeling sick every now and again...Is there any chance i could be pregnant or even depressed from the pill? (link)
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Some girls get Premenstrual dysphoric disorder (PMDD) which can be caused from not taking the pill after being on it for so long which results in depression. If I were you I would get back on it immediately and your mood should go back to normal. If you think you're pregnant, I'd take a test to be sure. Good Luck!
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ive tried to put a tampon in and it just wont go in. what hole does it go in? i need help.im going on a vacation and im supposed to have my period during it and i will be going in the water and i cant use a pad how do i put tampons in?!!?
HELPPP! (link)
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There are three holes down there. The anal hole, the vaginal hole and the urinary hole. You can Google images of it to get a better understanding. Take the lips of your outer vagina and spread them so you can see your vaginal hole. You can even use a mirror if it helps you better. The vaginal hole is the one in the middle - that's the one the tampon goes in. Tampon boxes usually come with great instructions to follow as well. Good Luck!
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How do I clean my computer off? Its running really slow, last time it happened I had a virus. I don't want to get my parents involved. Any free computer cleaning products I can download? (link)
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There are programs out there to clean your computer, however they're not free. What I usually do is go through all of my files and delete what isn't important to me anymore, then rearrange and organize. After emptying the recycle bin it usually makes my computer a bit faster. Another thing you can do is go to your control panel and there should be a button called 'add/remove programs' go through that and delete what isn't familiar to you - some of the programs could be causing viruses which can ultimately make your computer a lot slower. Good Luck!
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Ok so i wanted to be a photographer, but everyone is telling me it has no money and i'll suffer. Well than i wanna be a cop or a person off of like law & order. but ppl said that has no money either.. idk what to do. i really wanna do photography but will it be a bad choice or not. please help me i'm begging please!! thank you ver much (link)
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Don't change what you love doing because of what other people say. We're in a recession so every career you think of, people are going to say there's no money in it. Photography - if you're successful in it can in fact make you a lot of money and make you very happy. Take some classes at school to see if it's what you really want to do. There's nothing wrong with exploring. Good Luck!
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ok i went on a date with this girl i met on myspace and she thinks i'm cute and stuff and she very pretty herself she said she wants to go to know me but anyway the date was awesome i like to take things slow so all i did was just hold her hand and put my arm around her and the whole night she couldn't stop smiling but she said she didn't feel anything and she sees me as a friend i kinda wish i did more what i'm asking is if we go out again could this change? (link)
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It has nothing to do with the fact that you didn't make a move. In fact I'm proud that you didn't because that takes a lot. Most girls like guys that wait. She probablly just wasn't all that into you - she didn't see sparks or feel any connection. It doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you. It just means that she's not the one for you and that's a good thing because there's someone out there that is better and even prettier than her in your eyes. She'll make you very happy some day. Good Luck!
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can i practice putting tampons in when i dont have my period? (link)
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I don't recommend it, because you'll be dry and it might hurt to take out - but it doesn't affect your health or anything. As long as you don't leave them in. Good Luck!
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Ok i am 16 years old and i am still in high school and i make about 25 dollars a week thats all the time i have to work and i have saved up 200 dollars so i want to get a tatoo for i long time i have wanted one i want to know opinions i want either the chinese symbol for passion behind my ear or angel wings on me some wear now i dont want big angel wings they will be small but i'm not sure if i should get them on the top of my back or on my lower back or if i should just get my nose pierced but i want one of these things done so whats everyones opinion on this is it a good idea or a bad idea (link)
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Well first of all, you have to be 18 to get any kind of piercing or tattoo without parental consent. If you do have parental consent, for now I'd go with the nose piercing because that is easily removeable. Honestly, when I was your age I desperately wanted a tattoo - I went through extremem measures to try and get one. Luckily, I was turned down by every tattoo shop around because now that I'm older and look back - I could never live with myself if I had gotten a tattoo. Eventually I gave up and waited until I was 18 to see if I still wanted a tattoo. Turns out I hated the idea and just got my belly button pierced instead. Most people regret it and you're only 16 - you have a lot of time to think, whats the rush? Good Luck!
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I'm going to prom this year and i want a unique but stylish prom hairstyle but i do not want it to be a complete updo i want some hair to be down so if you have any ideas please share and if u know wear i can find some nice hairdos please let me know
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This website gives a lot of examples:
http://www.2promhairstyles.com/
Also if you google 'prom hairstyles', and bring up images - it shows tons!
Good Luck!
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So i'm looking for a pair of knee high converse i saw someone have them at school and i really liked them and i tried looking on the converse website and could not find them so if you know wear i can get them please let me know
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Amazon has great deals, and I found them here.
http://www.amazon.com/s/?ie=UTF8&keywords=knee+high+converse&tag=googhydr-20&index=shoes&hvadid=1469527841&ref=pd_sl_538alrfkzo_e
Good Luck!
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Hey i'm a female and i'm 16 i have medium lengh hair and i have a square face and kind of wide shoulders i like the short hairstyle thats like shoulder lengh that Paris hilton had and rihanna kind of had it too but i'm not sure if that would look any good on me so i need some opinions and also if u know a hairstyle that would look good on me let me know
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Well, since none of us know what you look like - we wouldn't know weather or not it would look good on you. However if you're feeling the hairstyle and you like it - Go for it. Also, if you go to a professional salon they can give you their adivce and opinion. Good Luck!
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