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could this change?
ok i went on a date with this girl i met on myspace and she thinks i'm cute and stuff and she very pretty herself she said she wants to go to know me but anyway the date was awesome i like to take things slow so all i did was just hold her hand and put my arm around her and the whole night she couldn't stop smiling but she said she didn't feel anything and she sees me as a friend i kinda wish i did more what i'm asking is if we go out again could this change?
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It's possible.
But if I were you, I'd just be friends with her first. Find out what she likes. Get to know her a bit more. If you hang out with her and be yourself, then she might start to like you. But just remember, you can't force anyone to like you. It has to be her decision. If she doesn't like you after everything, then there are probably better girls out there for you.
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Okay, I am in the same situation, except the same situation as the girl.
I met a guy on a trip on New Year's, talked to him for almost a month on myspace, he took me on a date, which was super fun, I had a good time. He was also very minimal on the physical contact.
Even the guy was super sweet, and I had fun on the date, I just didn't feel anything. Even though I did really like him when we talked on myspace (or I thought I did.)
When you talk over the internet, or through text, you kind of forget what the person looks like, also you don't see body language. So when you're talking to them, you kind of imagine it in your head, and when you go and talk to them in person, or over the phone, usually its not what you expected.
So, me and the guy are really great friends right now, we still talk every day, but he understands that I don't see him that way.
I suggest you do the same, keep talking, but don't suggest going anywhere for a while, and if you do, then in a group, like you'll bring some of your friends and she'll bring some of her friends. Who knows, once she gets to know you better (in real life) her feelings may change.
~Maria, 17
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Wow, you are like the perfect guy haha, no joke. And it's her loss that she's just not into you. Going out with her is unfortunatley not going to change anything, because if she didnt feel a connection, it's just not going to be there next time. But it takes a really cool and mature guy to not make a move and to WANT to take things slow. No joke. If she sees you just as a friend, then that's okay. Keep talking to her and maybe one day her feelings will change, but don't waste all of your time on her to try to figure her out, there are plenty of other girls out there who would be less of a challenge and totally into you.
Hope I helped ! xxo good luck !
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It has nothing to do with the fact that you didn't make a move. In fact I'm proud that you didn't because that takes a lot. Most girls like guys that wait. She probablly just wasn't all that into you - she didn't see sparks or feel any connection. It doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you. It just means that she's not the one for you and that's a good thing because there's someone out there that is better and even prettier than her in your eyes. She'll make you very happy some day. Good Luck!
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