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first kisses
im 16, and never had my first kiss yet. even though im pretty sad that i still never had one, i love to hear stories about other peoples' first kisses! it makes me excited for mine :) so whoever reading this, hopefully youll share your story! thank youuu:)
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Ohhh geez my first kiss was in elementary school. It was completely accidental and with my best friend's boyfriend. Everybody in the class saw it was a mess. Memories...what can I say?? lol
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my first kiss was actually the day after my 16th birthday..
we were at a party and we left to go for a walk just the two of us and he was telling me about how i was so much better than his ex and how incredible i was and all that cutesy stuff then he hugged me for what seemed like forever and then we kissed...alot of people's first kiss wasn't that great, or they messed up and were embarrased or whatever and thats what i thought mine was going to be like but i didn't think about anything and just let it happen and it was amazing =]
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Dear First Kisses,
Really not being kissed at 16 isn't that big of a deal. If you rush it making it so important that you have that kiss you will go out with any random guy just to get it. This will mean he won't really care about you, your feelings, or your dreams. If a guy decides to just like that go out then he probably isn't wanting to get to know you, he just wants to USE you. This will mean that you are trusting him with your first kiss. A kiss that he either will accept, blow off and won't appreaciate OR he will abuse it and take you farther than you want because he thinks your that kind of a girl. Many girls also form an emotional bond with their first love and if he doesn't love you hi will treat your heart like it is a trophy. Not as a treasure. My best advise is to WAIT. There will come along the right guy for YOU! When that perfect guy comes along and you know he is THE ONE you will feel terrible that you didn't save your first kiss. A first kiss in my opinion is alot like one's virginity; once taken it can never be given back.
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Don't make a huge deal about it. Your first kiss will happen eventually. My first kiss was with my first boyfriend. We had dated for about two weeks and I had wondered, will he ever kiss me? We were at the mall hanging out and we were walking and talking. He then just grabbed my hand and kissed me on the cheek. It was pretty much amazing. I'm no longer dating the guy, but we are friends. I didn't get my first kiss until I was 15 so it's not really that huge of a deal. You want your first kiss to be special. It's something that you will remember the rest of your life. Don't be in a hurry to lose it just so you can say you've kissed a guy. In the end you will not regret it.
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the first kiss is always the scariest no matter who you are you just gotta be relaxed
mine was i was at my friends halloween party (the day after halloween) and the night before i met this realy cute guy my sisters friend brought over we talked and cuddled by the fire and it was realy cute but than my dad came we hugged goodbye and i thought that was the last i was ever gnnaa see him but at my friends party the next day he came just to see me :)we were cuddling on a chair and talkin bein all cute and he asked me to go on a walk with him so he took me outside we held hands and walked not even 3 feet from the girls house when he asked me if i liked him i said yes he said he liked me than he said he wanted to do somethin that he wanted to do all yesterday but chickend out on than he kissed me
it was amazing:)
i never thought that i would ever get my first kiss but all you gotta do is wait for the right person and it will be worth it in the end :)
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The most romantic/memorable kiss of my life wasn't my first kiss but was with my first kiss from my current boyfriend. We had just gotten back from a romantic date and were laying (3ft away from each other) LOL; in his bed watching a movie. His roommates I guess were teasing him because it had been our fifth date and he still had yet to kiss me. At first I thought there was something wrong with me because this was the longest any guy has ever waited to kiss me. So anyway, we were watching a movie and all of a sudden we hear his roommates put speakers up to his door playing the song 'Kiss the girl' from the little mermaid. We both turned bright red and just tried to ignore them. The movie ended and it started to get late to he walked me to my car to say goodnight. He was hugging me and all of a sudden he said, "Kerry, would it be alright if I kissed you right now?", I said yes and after he gave me our first kiss, I went back for 3 more kisses:)
Turns out he wanted to kiss me the whole time but was so nervous because he had never met a girl like me before. It was a night to remember and something I will ever forget. Here we are 10 months later, still as happy as ever.
Your first kiss might not be the best first kiss (mine was with a guy I didn't even know playing spin the bottle) but you will have a special guy someday that will make such a memorable impact on your life. Don't look for love because HE'LL find you. And he will make you so happy. Good Luck!
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I waited a desperately long time for mine, mainly because I was waiting for someone who deserved it.
We were both upstairs in my room (with the door open and parents home, ofcourse!) and his mom was outside to pick him up. We were both watching TV on my bed and I leaned over him to get up, and before I knew it, he'd kissed me. I'd taken it by surprise, but no less, I was extremely happy because I knew I waited for the right moment and most importantly, the right person.
You're time will come, there's no rush. You can't hurry important instances like the first kiss :]
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Mine was in a half-built building with my first girlfriend(not that magical). I don't consider it an important moment in my life. I was chewing gum and I asked her if she wanted a piece, but then I implied that she would have to take the piece in my mouth without using her hands (I'm a master of implication).
If you're wondering if yours will ever come. It will. Just be honest with yourself and pursue what you want relentlessly. If it doesn't happen soon, you're best chance is college.
Good luck
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