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okay, so im a sophomore and i haven't had done french kissing yet, i have a feeling this is going to happen soon with this new boy im starting to fall for. excatly how does it happen? people say its instinct. Like i get the fact when a guy shoves his tung in yours what are you suppose to do with yourss? its embarrsing to say to him that i've never done it before with him thinking i've already had the experience.
thanks. (link)
it is insteinct its just natural
when your in the moment it just happans
so dont stress about it
you will be fine :)


I'm an 18 year old male.
I am overweight, but I would really like to lose weight. What are some way I could do this without using pills? (link)
the gym is always a good place but start out slow cause if you start out to fast than you might get hurt
so just workout and eat right abd you will e fine :)


Hello,
I am 18 years old and about 4 months ago i found out i was pregnant, my questions are
1) how could i hide my growing belly?
2)what should i do about my swelling breast?
3) is sex okay during pregnancy and how how often and how hard?
thanks! (link)
well if you wanna hide your belly wear baggy sweatshirts and shirts and avoid tight fitting clothes
your breast normally swell during pregnacy so i dnt see how thats a problem but if you have a problem ask your docter and sex is perfically fine
so have fun :)
good luck


im 16, and never had my first kiss yet. even though im pretty sad that i still never had one, i love to hear stories about other peoples' first kisses! it makes me excited for mine :) so whoever reading this, hopefully youll share your story! thank youuu:) (link)
the first kiss is always the scariest no matter who you are you just gotta be relaxed
mine was i was at my friends halloween party (the day after halloween) and the night before i met this realy cute guy my sisters friend brought over we talked and cuddled by the fire and it was realy cute but than my dad came we hugged goodbye and i thought that was the last i was ever gnnaa see him but at my friends party the next day he came just to see me :)we were cuddling on a chair and talkin bein all cute and he asked me to go on a walk with him so he took me outside we held hands and walked not even 3 feet from the girls house when he asked me if i liked him i said yes he said he liked me than he said he wanted to do somethin that he wanted to do all yesterday but chickend out on than he kissed me
it was amazing:)
i never thought that i would ever get my first kiss but all you gotta do is wait for the right person and it will be worth it in the end :)


well there is this guy who is a year younger than me who is friends with my friends brother and i met him at her house back in december. weve been talking here and there on facebook and i saw him again at their house in january. after i saw him there we would talk and he told me how he really wants me badly and how he wanted to do all of these sexual things with me [i think he was just going to use me] also something else that is weird is that he likes this girl who lives an hour away who he only sees once a year and im pretty sure they are going out. but anyways i didnt think he cared if he had a gf so far away and talked to me like that too. one night we were talking and he pressured me into sending a picture, he said hed be mad if i didnt.. but it wasnt a bad one i had clothes on..but after i sent them i looked at his fb wall and that girl had wrote, I LOVE YOU TOO!!!! so i think they are going out. and it bugged me because he was talking to me like that WHILE he was saying "i love you" to that other girl? i dont understand. but anyways, about two weeks ago I IMed him because he hadnt IMed me since i sent those pics and i was confused. and basically our whole conversation was him begging me to give him a bj. i kept on saying no i dont think so sorry but he kept asking and making me feel bad..at the end of the conversation he just said i want a deep throat from u sexy ;] and then he said for me to text him. so i did. but his phone was off and he didnt get it until two days later but then never responded..

so JUST NOW i decided to IM him..only because we havent talked in two weeks and i dont understand why..i thought maybe its because he hadnt seen i was online at the same time or something. so i IM him and all i get from him is, hi
then i go, whatsup
and he never answered. what the hell did i do. i mean i know that he has friends that go to my school and i feel like MAYBE his friends said something about me to him or something? i dont think so..i think im just paranoid. but i mean he didnt treat me nice at all or anything but i just dont see why he doesnt want me anymore, why so sudden. what did i do to make him not wanna talk to me anymore, i mean, two weeks ago he was like drooling over me and now its like he wants nothing to do with me. im so confused and i feel so bad about myself and ugly. please tell me what it was that i did.

well, the last time we actually talked was (link)
wellthis kid seems like a real douchbag and if he treats a girl like that than he is not worth your time at all!
so you should just ignore him and when he wants to talk to you ignore him and if he keeps buggin you tell his to go screw himself because he seems like all he cares about is sex and if thats all he wants and doesnt care about anything else than he is SO not worth it
:) you deserve better than that
good luck


15/f
so I like this kid and he's the same age as me, he altar serves just like me. we have been talking for about 4 weeks and he is a really cool guy and stuff but he has a gf and I knew it from the start because when we first started to talk he said I would be a cool girl to hangout with. so things have been going great and be is like perfect. just like two weeks ago he told me that he liked me and that he really wanted to hang out. so we've been talking since then and I don't have a cell so I talk on aim and through my friends phone. I really don't know like how to talk to him other than that becz sooner or later my friends aren't gonna let me use there phones. and I don't think it would be a good idea if we talked on the phone becz he has a gf. and I just would like to know if like idk I guess a guys opinion would be nice on this or whatever.
I don't get what he's trying to do with me. he's dating some1 bbut he likes me too and I just don't think he's ever been in this sittuation so he doesn't know what he's doing but like why hasn't he broken up
with her. when he told me he liked me he also said when we hang out Im going to kiss you. I just font know if I should wait because I'm really not that girl to wait around.
so I know that's all confusing but I don't know what to do so any info and advice with help. I need lots of help please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
well this kid seems to be a slight jerk
cause if he treats his girlfriend that way than he must not have to much respect for women.
also you dnt want to put yourself in a situation where people can end up getting hurt cause think about it if his gf ever finds out than she will get hurt and than she might take it out n you and spread rumors about you and that wont be good
so just wait til he brakes up with his gf
also if he says he likes you than he will have no problem brakein up with her for oou
so just be careful cause hearts are very easy to brake
good luck :)


Female/ 17

So last year I met this guy. He was in 2 of my classes and we got to be really close. We had a lot of fun together and flirted alot. He'd always work with me in class and we always talked and laughed together. I started to like him. But he had a girlfriend. He found ways to text me and talk to me. but he never knew how I felt.

Then When I hooked up with my ex. At the same time he broke up with his girlfriend. He was always interested in how my boyfriend was. and he would always ask questions about my really close guy friend. he was always wondering why we were so close. and he'd get weird when I would talk about other guys,

Then when this year rolled around and he's in my math class...we never talk , and he's gotten all weird. He just looks at me all the time, but he acts like we were never close.

I still have feelings for him. But I want to know why he's so weird now? and does he still have feelings?

HELP! (link)
hes acting weird cause he prolly likes you and doesnt knw how to act around you anymore
and he prolly liked you when you were goin out with your boyfriend

so what i recomend is you go over and talk to him and sugest you hang out
say that you havent seen him in awhile and you need to caach up
trust me if he likes you he will be so happy that your makeing the first move
:)good luck


ok so me and my friends were walking up to p.e 1 day and we wrere hanging with the crew when this guy let's call him zach walks up and like playfully hits me in the stomach I playfully punch him in the arm back. Then my friend goes around and tells secrets and I'm like what? And she's like well you and zach look good toghther And I'm like ya I knew you were going to say that. The next few days he's been kinda flirty and then stopped for like a day and now he's back. I'm getting mixed signals. I have never had a bf. Also me and my friends were taking pic and he hopped in one. If that helps. I have no idea how to flirt or do anything. Please I'm begging you I need helpppp I'm only 13 (link)
well boys are very very confuseing sending mixed signals is what they do best lol
what i reccomend is that you just be nice to him joke around with him and make sure your sending positive signls to im and see what happans
and dont wrry boys arent as scary as they may seem but just dnt think to much about it and everything will be ok
:)


me and my friend got to know eachother in myspace and known eachother for 3 weeks we've been talking to eachother on online a lot and she said"it feels like we've known longer even though we met 3 weeks ago" but in person its kind of different cause theres some awkwardness when we talk in class what does she mean? and have you ever felt that way?
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i have actully had this happan to me
this kid in one of my classes starts talkin to me on myspace and we got to know eachpther realy well and had amazing conversations but in person we never talked and it would be ackward but now we are realy close and hes one of my bestfriends i can tell him anything and we have no problem talkin in person now
so my advice is that the conversation is only as ackward as you make it
if you laugh and are calm and you justlet go
it will get alot better and you soon will be the best of friends
good luck
:)


basicly im a 17 year old male. and for the past i dont know, 6 months or so, me and this girl have been i guess you could call it dating. i really don't know.lol but anyways, i fell extremely hard for her, i mean with in about 2 months i was in love with this girl. and i still am. but during the first part of jan. we ran into some trouble, and she accussed me of somethings that i flat out didnt do. so we stopped talkin for awhile. she then goes on a cruise w/ her family and from what i understand, meets this dude that shes liked, and yeah, need less to say they start goin out. and i mean she literally i feel, threw me to the curb. didnt call me, didnt say nothin to me, just left me. and I've been pretty friggin well depressed since then. i mean i cant help but think about what all that happened, how it all went down, and how happy she is with this dude. i mean man this sucks. so basicly i just need some guidance, i have really know idea what im goin do. i just want her back. i aint even goin lie. but i also dont wanna get hurt again either. so please help me out here (link)
well obviously this girl has no respect for you and doesnt deserve a great guy like you so i say you forget about her
she didnt have the gut to go to you and talk about it so to me thats a sign of a loser who doesnt desever your love so go find a girl eho will appricate you more and who is prolly alot hotter
:)


I've had this bestfriend for about a year now, and a few months ago i started feeling stronger for him. I think its beginning to feel like i want him more than just a friend. Like i said, we're best friends so i'm scared telling him would ruin it. Also, he has a girlfriend and i dont want to ruin that either.. i would feel so bad. i dont know if this helps the situation, but he used to like me when we first became friends last year- but i had no such feelings then.
so confusing.
please help
it hurts (link)
well i think you shoould just stay good friends with him for now and when him and his girlfriend brake up give him like 2 weeks than tell him how you feel
who knows he might feel the same way
:)


so yeah i know everyone has one boob bigger than the other
but for me, one keeps growing, and one isnt at all
and im afraid soon that one will be a different cup size
will it even out!?!?

in 14 and i got my period a year ago (link)
i think that if you are realy worried about this ask your docter
but every womans body is diffrent
:)




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