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she threw me to the curb.........and i dont know why
basicly im a 17 year old male. and for the past i dont know, 6 months or so, me and this girl have been i guess you could call it dating. i really don't know.lol but anyways, i fell extremely hard for her, i mean with in about 2 months i was in love with this girl. and i still am. but during the first part of jan. we ran into some trouble, and she accussed me of somethings that i flat out didnt do. so we stopped talkin for awhile. she then goes on a cruise w/ her family and from what i understand, meets this dude that shes liked, and yeah, need less to say they start goin out. and i mean she literally i feel, threw me to the curb. didnt call me, didnt say nothin to me, just left me. and I've been pretty friggin well depressed since then. i mean i cant help but think about what all that happened, how it all went down, and how happy she is with this dude. i mean man this sucks. so basicly i just need some guidance, i have really know idea what im goin do. i just want her back. i aint even goin lie. but i also dont wanna get hurt again either. so please help me out here
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well obviously this girl has no respect for you and doesnt deserve a great guy like you so i say you forget about her
she didnt have the gut to go to you and talk about it so to me thats a sign of a loser who doesnt desever your love so go find a girl eho will appricate you more and who is prolly alot hotter
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I can admit, that is a pretty low thing to do. I can understand how you would feel. But you said you were lun love with her right? Dosen't that mean you would want her to be happy? I know of course you would like to have her back, but the way she's treated you sounds like i wouldn't want her back if i were you. I would move on to another person, no matter how hard it would be to get over her. Try to think of different things throughout the day and don't worry about her. She dosen't deserve you anyways. Just let her do her own thing so you both can get on with your lives. Hope this helps!
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Hi,
my first question is why do you want her back? She's already shown you how she's going to treat you. I could be wrong but, I think she falsely accused you just to start an argument so she would feel comfortable doing what she did.
Obviously she's moved on and she's happy with this other guy. I day good riddance. She wasn't good enough for you and isn't worth your time.
I know you still have feelings for her and this may be hard to hear, unfortunately it's true.
There's someone else out there for you. Give yourself time to get over her and get back out there and find the girl for you.
Good luck,
Ediemarie
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I;m sorry to hear this. I understand, it's pretty unfair that you did nothing to deserve what you got. But to be honest, look at it this way. If she dropped this relationship quickly enough to get involved with another guy, she didn't love you as much as she said or as much as you loved her. She didn't care for your feelings, it's wrong on her behalf. I say, you deserve waaaaaay better than this kind of treatment. Let time heal you.. TRUST me it will, it might take a while, might take a little. But just keep your head up. Do something that validates you. Something that makes you happy. Keep yourself busy, good luck!
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