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I have a crush but should I move on??!?!!


Question Posted Monday January 26 2009, 7:13 pm

ok well I've had a crush on this kid and then it turned into me liking him. but from the first time we talked he told me he had a girlfriend and I was ok with that because just being friends with him would be ok for now. but then I one day he told I'd he liked me and then I just thought that he would break up with her for me. he said that he liked me but he likes her alot too. I mean I know were just sophomores in highschool but I don't know. I'm really confused because he's like the nicest guy ever and he doesn't play with girls but I just feel like giving up on this. she's a freshman but he talks to me all the time and tells me I'm cute and that he really wants to hang with me and when I asked him if this was all a joke he said I do like u, let me put it this way if I wasn't dating my gf right now I would be dating you. and I think that means he wants to date me in the near future. but I just don t want to get my hopes up and then he never breaks up with her. I need big time advice on what to do!!!!!!!!! HELP PLEASE!!!!!!

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lizzielovesyou answered Tuesday January 27 2009, 10:19 pm:
well i would still hang out with him and everything like you have been but you cant just wait around for him. just because he said those things dosnt mean he is planning on breaking up with her girlfriend for you . if there is anyone else who caught your eye i would date them maybe they could end up being mr.perfect you never know. but as for your friend if he breaks up with her then i say go for it , just dont wait around for something that could possibly never happen

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Uniq_The_Geek answered Tuesday January 27 2009, 10:06 am:
Hey there :)

Well my advice to this is just let it go... Don't let him think he can keep you around with just pretty words, stay strong and let him know he can't be complimenting and flirting while having a girlfriend that's pretty unfair. I mean, if they broke up, I guess it's fine to accept his compliments and flirtatious invites, but think about how this will make her feel if she finds out. Also, don't you think he'd do the same to you if you guys went out and he found another girl? =/ Good luck hun

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ediemarie answered Tuesday January 27 2009, 10:02 am:
Hi,
I don't think you should waste too much time on thinking about him. If he wasn't dating his girlfriend he would be dating you? Give me a break. The fact is that he is dating his girlfriend. What does he want you to do, sit around and wait for him to figure it out? That's ridiculous.
Be with someone who can totally be into you without any of the baggage. If he wanted to be with you, he would break up with her, but don't sit around and wait for it to happen. Sound like he just wants to keep you hangin' around. Don't do it. Enjoy your life.
Good luck,
Ediemarie

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