I've had this bestfriend for about a year now, and a few months ago i started feeling stronger for him. I think its beginning to feel like i want him more than just a friend. Like i said, we're best friends so i'm scared telling him would ruin it. Also, he has a girlfriend and i dont want to ruin that either.. i would feel so bad. i dont know if this helps the situation, but he used to like me when we first became friends last year- but i had no such feelings then.
so confusing.
please help
it hurts
kerry_jeanne answered Tuesday January 27 2009, 4:44 pm: For now, I would stay his friend. It's the best thing you can do for him right now especially since he has a girlfriend. It would probablly ruin the friendship between you two because his girlfriend would most likely get jealous and tell him to stay away from you which you do not want. I would just wait it out and if and when the eventually break up - then go in for the move. Good Luck! [ kerry_jeanne's advice column | Ask kerry_jeanne A Question ]
tinydancer answered Tuesday January 27 2009, 11:11 am: well i think you shoould just stay good friends with him for now and when him and his girlfriend brake up give him like 2 weeks than tell him how you feel
who knows he might feel the same way
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