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best friend or boyfriend?


Question Posted Monday January 26 2009, 10:34 pm

I've had this bestfriend for about a year now, and a few months ago i started feeling stronger for him. I think its beginning to feel like i want him more than just a friend. Like i said, we're best friends so i'm scared telling him would ruin it. Also, he has a girlfriend and i dont want to ruin that either.. i would feel so bad. i dont know if this helps the situation, but he used to like me when we first became friends last year- but i had no such feelings then.
so confusing.
please help
it hurts


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somethingofaprincess answered Tuesday January 27 2009, 10:51 pm:
i would wait until he and his gf split and then start to change the way you and him talk. like start to flirt and then gradually he'll like you again, and you him. then when you get the right moment. confess. lol

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kerry_jeanne answered Tuesday January 27 2009, 4:44 pm:
For now, I would stay his friend. It's the best thing you can do for him right now especially since he has a girlfriend. It would probablly ruin the friendship between you two because his girlfriend would most likely get jealous and tell him to stay away from you which you do not want. I would just wait it out and if and when the eventually break up - then go in for the move. Good Luck!

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tinydancer answered Tuesday January 27 2009, 11:11 am:
well i think you shoould just stay good friends with him for now and when him and his girlfriend brake up give him like 2 weeks than tell him how you feel
who knows he might feel the same way
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