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I've had this bestfriend for about a year now, and a few months ago i started feeling stronger for him. I think its beginning to feel like i want him more than just a friend. Like i said, we're best friends so i'm scared telling him would ruin it. Also, he has a girlfriend and i dont want to ruin that either.. i would feel so bad. i dont know if this helps the situation, but he used to like me when we first became friends last year- but i had no such feelings then.
so confusing.
please help
it hurts

i would wait until he and his gf split and then start to change the way you and him talk. like start to flirt and then gradually he'll like you again, and you him. then when you get the right moment. confess. lol

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i would like a boyfriend, to get over my ex. not just that, but i also would like a boyfriend fore many reasons....
i would look around school, but i'm home schooled.
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i don't want a x that i could simply hook back up with. i want somebody NEW.
but i'm not sure how to meet them.
i don't do online dating services.
please don't suggest them.
help??

homeschooling does limit you, greatly! and from my experience from it im sorry you have to be homeschooled. before i went back to school i met guys from other friends, or from my moms friends kids, or church. try Joining clubs in your community to meet people.

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Okay, so I really like this guy Chris. He doesnt know that I like him but on the otherhand I don't know if he likes me. His girlfriend just recently broke up with him,but Im actually kind of happy.
i dont just wanna go up to him and be like "i like you", that would be kinda weird.Also, a lot of girls like him too. what should i do???

flirt with him like theres no tomarrow.
win his heart over before the other girls.
and when it comes time to confessing say something like
"so... so and so told me that you like me?"
or "so hows the love life..."
lol silly phrases of things that give you away without being totally blunt about it.

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14/f

Ok this is kinda a weird question but I'm just curious. Do guys think like how girls would, like how girls dream about the guy like almost 24/7, well most girls, and marriage and all that stuff. Do guys? Cause my boyfriend was playing around and stuff and wrote down the day that we were gonna get married and stuff. Obviously I'm 14 but you know I thought that was cute and I was thinking about it like do guys seriously think about that? I know guys think sick, perverted stuff too but I mean like mushy stuff lol like marriage or even just daydreaming about the girl. Sorry this was kind of a weird question but I was just wondering.

through my experience with guys
yeah there mostly all perverted.
lol but the guys that talk about marriage, or speciaclly to you how much they love you, how pretty you are ect. then they do love you and they are serious about you. now your 14 so marriage is prolly just a daydream. it was for me. and guys who were serious about it arent as preverted jerks as most of the rest of them.

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Ok, I'm having my fifteenth birthday party on either March 13th or March 20th and I am SO excited. Last year, I had a HUGE sleepover and we had so much fun, so I thought I'd do the same thing this year :) I know, from last year, that 'organized' activities do NOT work out haha, at least not with my group of friends. SO, to keep us busy, I've thought up a few activities, such as:
-Watching movies (that's a given haha)
-Haha my friends and I always joke around saying we're all "So white", so I thought we could have a "Yo' Momma!" competition xD
-truth or dare (again, that's pretty obvious)
-Most of my friends play volleyball, so I figured I'd set up my net in my front yard and we could just goof off
-Hot tub, just for fun :)

so, that's what I have so far, but I'd like this to be an AWESOME sleepover, better then last year. I don't want to have to go anywhere (mall, skating rink, etc.) to do anything, because my mom's not really excited about having a lot of hyper teen girls at her house in the first place, let alone having to drive us everywhere. So, any ideas would be GREAT :) Especially if you've actually tried certain ideas out at one of your own parties :D Thanks so much, ANY advice on the party and ideas are welcome and all answers rated :D Thanks!

Oh yes, and also, about the invites, I've met some new people this year, but I wouldn't say we're like "best friends". Should I invite them? I mean, they're friends of some friends I'm inviting... what's the limit on that sort of stuff? Thanks :) haha sorry for the extra question...

for your party:

watching a movie is always fun but muting the sound on it and adding in the voices is even better. Like on whose line is it anyway. Its like improv and is lots of fun.

you could do and i know it sounds childish but arts and crafts, like making jewlry and bracelts and little things, it sounds lame, but you could always donate them to younger siblings, neighbors, kids you baby sit ect, and they would proably appreciate that a lot.

playing "get to know you games" are always funny. even if you already know everything about your friends, youd be surprised at what you might learn.

and those "get to know you games" brings us to

inviting your friends friends.

i say YES.
you can never have too many friends right, and you never know, they could be really cool people. I mean why not invite them, what have you got to lose?

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