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E-mail: lauratejana_1@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Missouri
Age: 16
Yahoo: lauratejana_37@yahoo.com
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Member Since: January 27, 2009
Answers: 13
Last Update: September 25, 2010
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I want to commit suicide. I want someone to help me do this. Please let me do it. (link)
thats i how i feel sometimes. like right now. my ex is probably with another girl by now and here i am at home dying of boredom. do you wanna know the reason why i havent done it. not cuz im a crowd and im afraid of dying but because i begin to think of all the people who will miss me my friends and my family. just because times are bad right now doesnt mean it is always gonna be like this. your life is about to change. your gonna find happiness. your gonna find a new reason to live. trust me for every fall we have in our life there is something amazing that will left us up. if you every need to talk im here for you

remember you control the outcome of your life.

live laugh love
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I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.

I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?

Sorry if this is too long! (link)
i would dump him. seriously hun if he is hiding that from you imaging what else he is hiding. its one thing telling his friends what you two do together and another thing posting it online. besides you gave him a chance to be honest and he didnt take it.

remember if he hurts you once his the fool if he hurts you twice youre the fool.

-lg13


Hi, I am a 16 year old female who is looking to lose weight. I hope by next summer I can drop from a size 13 to a size 9 (the size I was 2 years ago). I am setting up a new diet and exercise plan, and I'm wondering if it is a good start.
Diet:
Breakfast: Crispix cereal. (About 150 calories)
Lunch: Dinner roll filled with turkey, lettuce, and mayo (Maybe around 300-400 cals?). Some type of fresh fruit (Usually an apple or orange; under 70 calories?). Water.
Snack: Wheat thins with babybel spreadable cheese. (165 calories)
Dinner: Usually whatever my family has. I will eat a small portion of what ever it is. (I don't see this over 500 calories).
Desert: Yogurt (100 calories).
All together: Around 1,400 calories.
I am limited to my lunch and dinner, because our school has barely any healthy options. There used to be a salad and sandwich bar, but now there is only one for a sandwich. For dinner, I either eat what my mom makes or don't eat at all. I have already cut out sweets and soda. I only drink water or juice.

For exercise, I will be going to my school's weight room from 3:45 to around 5:30 to do purely cardio activities. I have a choice between running/walking on a treadmill, elliptical, and the bike machine. I will break up my time to do all three. At home, before bad I will gradually do push ups, crunches, and those workouts you can find in magazines (like seventeen).

Does this seem like a good start? Is there anything I can change or add that can help my towards my goal? Thank you for your time. (: (link)
That's a very good start! I suggest just to drink water or green tea because that boosts your metabolism (high metabolism makes you lose weight faster than a low metabolism). Also fish has around 100-200 (depending on what type and how much you consume) cals and its great for protein. As for you exercise that sounds great but don't try to kill yourself take it slow.

Good Luck,

LG13


im 18 and jewish. not religeous but i went to a jewish school and i want a tattoo on my but (dont judge)

no one that i dont want wud see it- it wud be for me but im scared my mom will find out

like if she takes me to the doctor or something

shud i get it? (link)
Its your body and you should do what you want to with it! Your mom won't find out about it unless she is looking at your butt and a doctor can't say anything to her if you tell them not to. Also your 18 and your considered an adult now. Remember it's not easily removable (i would say permanent but since they have laser treatments and creams now).

-LG13


hi ok well i was dating a guy for a long while then got pregnant we had the baby and were together he never really helped out so i would nag at him to help well when my daughter turned 10 months old he broke up with me and wants her on weekends and I don't want to do any of that I love him so much we were together for 2 1/2 years and I believe he loved me well we have been broken up for a week and a half and he texted me last night and we texted for like 5 hours but only as friends what can i say or do to get him back I really do love him we are both 18 (link)
Wow! 18 and you already have a baby? People would say your too young to know what love is, but I'm not your average person. Try to work it out. If it doesn't work out, to bad, his lose. Your young, maybe it's time to move on. He says he wants the baby on the weekends then let him, go and party have some fun, met new people. Maybe the thing that keep you guys together for that long was the baby. Remember no use in trying to fit a square into a circle (aka don't beg him if he doesn't like you like that anymore, no use in wasting your time on a broke picture frame).
Life, Laugh, Love
LG13 Style


19female. never had a boyfriend before. fell in love with my best friend. he had a girlfriend for 3 years. shes one of the prettiest girls i know. recently broke up but are still very close and i know they still have feelings for each other. my cousin was on facebook and saw that she had gotten one and clicked on her page and it was private but we could see her picture and it was of her and my best friend. i was SOOOO down after like, like really depressed. i dont even know why. his facebook has no pictures of them two on there. it just bothers me that they're so close and i know shes still in love with him, shes a bit obsessed he has said. but she still has the thing i want and thats him. and i get down on myself because i look at how pretty she is and how everyone loves her and i look at myself and compare myself to her which i know i shouldnt be doing but i cant help not to. i feel like she has a better life than me. more friends, she has the looks, she is absolutely amazing at sports, shes smart... what could be wrong with her? how can i get over this:( (link)
First of all she isn't better than you. Your friend needs to open up his eyes and relize that your an amazing person, and if he can't see that, then maybe he doesn't deserve you. Remeber nobody is perfect, so trust me when I say she has secrets, too. She probably wishes that she can be as close as you are with him (cuz you two are best friends right?). Also there is this study that usually boy and girl best friends end up together, and if it doesn't work out with you two, just thing of all the other guys out there (honey there is lots waiting in line for you so if the guy your crushing on doesn't like you, i bet someone is crushing on you too but your to busy trying to get your crush, so stop and look around for other guys). Try to see other guys and try to forget him as more then just a friend. If that doesn't work then maybe try to tell him how you feel about him. Don't be scared cuz love is dangerous and scary just talking about it.

live, laugh, love, lg style


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Do you usually use pads or tampons? Do you know any brands that work good? (link)
I use both, i use tampax pearl and always.



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i was the same girl that asked this question [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
and he dumped me today april 20th and im really sad :(..OK so it was lunch time i was staring at him so he and my friends were together but i was with some other girls. nd then i look at him and there was like this heart cookie or sumthing and he broke it in half. my friends brought me to the bathroom and they told me he had broken up with me. i litterly bursted into tears. an my friend dared me to kiss some boy in the cheek i did it and he was there (the boy i was datting) nd he saw. but someone made him dump me cause they told him i was using him.. i dont knoe what to do he told me he still loved me but idk :(..but i wasnt using him and i knoe it was wrong for actually kissin david but it was on the cheek now i dont knoe what to do.. :[
advice plase
melly| female
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okay this might sound mean but you should ask him who told him that you were using him cuz that friend might of told him that so he can brake up with you and then told you to kiss another guy so she can prove her point yet again if you trust her then forget what i just said cuz you dont want to end a friendship and secondly he shouldnt of broken up with you instead he should of talked to you about it so thats what you should do talk to him about it tell him it was a dare and that he hurted you badly and for him not to be jealous(mostly every guy is) and if he really likes you then he should ask you back out and you should forgive him for not talking to you first
live laugh love
-lg style


My husbands son lives with us. He is 19 years old. He had a job but got fired because he didnt go to work. He has been out of a job and hasnt even been looking for over 2 months now. When he DID have a job, he paid for his own cell phone bill and his car insurance. Now that he hasnt been working, my husband says that we have to pay for it until he gets another job. I am tired of paying over 100 dollars a month extra when we have a hard time paying our own bills the way it is. My husband and I have fought and fought over this issue. His son sleeps until noon or even later, comes and goes as he pleases, showers, eats, does his laundry, lays around and watches tv all day and does NOTHING at all to help around the house. I am at my wits end!! I work full time as does my husband. I work very hard at the job I do, and dont feel like I should have to help out a lazy no good 19 year old. What should I do?? (link)
wow first of all u dont have to pay his bills now you dont want to be mean or anything so cut help wanted signs from the newpaper and talk to him and your husband he isnt your blood son so you dont have to give him your own money when he is being lazy not doing anything (even if he was your son hopefully you wouldnt do that either) the point is dont fight if your husband is making you give his son money open you husbands eyes up and show him that his son is lazy and needs to get a job your step son has hands and legs and hopefully a brain he is capable to WORK!!!!! dont fight with ur husband talk to him nicely and if he doesnt listen go straight to the problem and tell your step son he needs to get a job because you are having troubles paying your own bills. Remember there comes a time when the little birdy has to fly away from the nest and your step son is ready he just needs a push to get him to fly!!


Alright , so I usually blow dry my hair but one evening I decided to do my hair like straighten it and I liked it like that Alot . But the next day I did that for school and by the end of the day it was all wavy and stuff . I dont want to take a straightner to school and continue to straighten it through the whole day is there any products I can buy too keep it straight through the humidty and stuff ? thankkks. (link)
well it depends on what kinda of straightner you have i have three my red one leaves it straight for like an hour my grey one leaves it straight for about 5 hours and then my new one cost me more then 100 dollars (there are cheaper ones) and it leaves it straight all day!! i would say use hair spray but it makes your hair all hard there is this dove cream for hair it smells really good and it keeps it straight and its only like 5 or 6 bucks at walmart or k mart also there is this special straighting cream that helps so your hair doesnt get damaged they should sell them in salons and stuff!! hope i helped!!


There are two really cute guys that like me and i like them but I cant decide!!! There both friends and on the same team my friends say go for the cuter one and my other friends say who you like more, but i dont know who!!! And worst of all i'm a cheerleader so i see them after school and cheer for them both how can i know who to pick. (link)
The question is not who you should pick but who deserves you. Who do you get along with more and who do you think is more then just a guy friend. Looks dont always matter tell both guys to write to you in a letter and say why you should pick them. Remember all is fair in love and war!!


this is kind of a weird question and maybe it isnt even possible, i wouldnt know. but is there any natural ways to make my boobs bigger. i know thats a really awkward thing to ask but i feel like mine have gotten smaller or something..i dont even know. thanks for your help (link)
Well im not for sure if it works but you know that channel that has stuff on sell well i shop alot so i watch it alot and there was this thing(its like an excrise machine(in the form of a stick that you pull))and it helps your boobs get bigger and it lefts them up too. my friends mom has one and my friend says it works but i havent tried it so i cant tell you if it does but dont get surgery or take pills for it you can get sick or possibly die an excrise i know is stratch your arms out and just like clap with your hands straight and repeat your arms well hurt... when u clap ur boobs will move (you can tell)( just saying because you might feel dump doing this)making them bigger it will take time but maybe you will grow a cup size hope i helped. GOOD LUCK!!!


i can sense when someone is about to die, or 3 times a yr a would get dreams of a person's death a day or night before it happens. i am very afraid. and right now i am having a strong sense that somebody is about to die, i don't know what to do, what is this, that i am going through? (link)
wow! i think that is cool but sucks in a way! I would tell you to try to save that persons life, but here is the thing you cant cheat death! If ur uncomfortable with these dreams see a doctor they can give you medication or give you a hypontizing session to make you not dream this stuff. Dont let it get to you if someone has to die its cuz its their turn and you have the chance to spend the last day with them. Remember this you cant change the future!!




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