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why is she better than me..
19female. never had a boyfriend before. fell in love with my best friend. he had a girlfriend for 3 years. shes one of the prettiest girls i know. recently broke up but are still very close and i know they still have feelings for each other. my cousin was on facebook and saw that she had gotten one and clicked on her page and it was private but we could see her picture and it was of her and my best friend. i was SOOOO down after like, like really depressed. i dont even know why. his facebook has no pictures of them two on there. it just bothers me that they're so close and i know shes still in love with him, shes a bit obsessed he has said. but she still has the thing i want and thats him. and i get down on myself because i look at how pretty she is and how everyone loves her and i look at myself and compare myself to her which i know i shouldnt be doing but i cant help not to. i feel like she has a better life than me. more friends, she has the looks, she is absolutely amazing at sports, shes smart... what could be wrong with her? how can i get over this:(
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First of all she isn't better than you. Your friend needs to open up his eyes and relize that your an amazing person, and if he can't see that, then maybe he doesn't deserve you. Remeber nobody is perfect, so trust me when I say she has secrets, too. She probably wishes that she can be as close as you are with him (cuz you two are best friends right?). Also there is this study that usually boy and girl best friends end up together, and if it doesn't work out with you two, just thing of all the other guys out there (honey there is lots waiting in line for you so if the guy your crushing on doesn't like you, i bet someone is crushing on you too but your to busy trying to get your crush, so stop and look around for other guys). Try to see other guys and try to forget him as more then just a friend. If that doesn't work then maybe try to tell him how you feel about him. Don't be scared cuz love is dangerous and scary just talking about it.
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