My friend has developed this weird obsession with his teache...
Question Posted Friday October 2 2009, 2:36 am
Recently, my friend has been talking about how "hot" he thinks his teacher his. He keeps saying he fantasizes about her and he worships her. He said he likes walking past her room having excuses just to walk by her, he said he wants to buy the yearbook and school newsaper just to oogle and "jerk off" at any pictures of her in them. Worst of all, he said he wishes she was a pedophile and if she wanted to molest him he'd be all for it. This sounds extremely creepy and unhealthy to me? I always thought a teacher is someone you respect, not look at in that way. Is this normal? Should I do something about it.
I myself have a big crush on my english teacher, I never attend classes but english to a point that my principal talked to me about it haha he is a male and most teenagers like teachers, plus like they are more mature and have more mature stuff ;) so that's why.
christina answered Sunday October 4 2009, 1:42 pm: He's either really attracted to her to the point of a crush, or he's just saying all of this for shock value. It's normal to be attracted to someone, especially older people.
I sometimes say the same thing about Ryan Reynolds, but I'm normal. I think he's okay. He's just attracted to her. If it keeps up, just discuss your concern. [ christina's advice column | Ask christina A Question ]
Matt answered Sunday October 4 2009, 4:02 am: Don't ask me why, but us males have a thing for our teachers. To the point where I'm not attracted to a teacher before I've had her or after I've had her, only while I had her.
Part of me thinks he's exaggerating to get a reaction out of you. If you went and told someone about it, what would you say? My friend is attracted to his teacher and wants to fuck her? There's quite a difference between wanting to fuck someone and forcing them to fuck. Unless he does something excessively over the top, I don't think there's anything to worry about. [ Matt's advice column | Ask Matt A Question ]
Daintree answered Friday October 2 2009, 10:21 pm: It is far from normal it is very creepy indeed. Yes you should tell the principle if your friend is a budding deviate this poor teacher is in trouble and she won't even know about it unless he is expose for the devo he's acting like and she can be aware of it and be prepared anyway. [ Daintree's advice column | Ask Daintree A Question ]
animelove answered Friday October 2 2009, 5:14 pm: Hahaha, wow! Well ummmm...I'd say it's normal, it's not uncommon for a student to crush or lust after one of their teachers. True they're someone you're supposed to respect, but looking at someone in that way doesn't mean you don't respect them. Teachers are funny, smart, and so one~ These things are charming and if they're physically attractive well then it's unavoidable. ;) I crushed on my History teacher on my freshman year of high school, he was 46 in pretty good shape but most importantly he was very funny, it just made him soooo sexy! D:
I gottah say he's pretty obsessed, but he's a boy and a teen so his hormones get the best to him. Just tell him not to talk about it around you, simple as that. [ animelove's advice column | Ask animelove A Question ]
littlemee answered Friday October 2 2009, 2:49 pm: it is a bit extreme, but nearly everone has a wee thing for at least one teacher. my friend has a thing for our chemistry teacher, i actually had a sex dream about my english teacher - seriously!- and i know someone else with a thing for his biology teacher. so, i can safely say it's normal. but if its freaking you out just tell him to shut it. xxx [ littlemee's advice column | Ask littlemee A Question ]
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