As far back as i can remember, I've always wanted to be a gangster...
Well I'm latina, Guatemalan yo! Anyways, I like to surprise people. Which is quite easy for me, I'm very odd and awkward most of the time.
Randomness is do to my ADHD, I tend to ramble on alot sorry. >.< Well as my name clearly states I love anime, yay! I have an rp account in myspace, do you rp?:O
Add me my name is Shizu and yes I edited my df piccy that's my character you see in the graffiti, if you already know me somehow and have me added well wow... .__.
Weird...but anyways, I've been through much in the past years of my some what short life.
I've learned a few things,no matter how shitty everything happens for a reason.
So yeah feel free to ask me anything you need help with, I'll try to help and will answer to the best of my ability~
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i was sitting on a park bench the other day and my legs were dangling down so the back of my knees hugged the bench. it started to burn but i ignroed it. now i have a huge rash thing behind my knee that burns. the crease from behind my knee is so red and bolded. behind my knee is also very swollen.
does anyone know what this is? (link)
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Your best bet would be to go a doctor and have it checked out, it could be a fungus that was on the wood of the bench a which came in contact with your skin and now stuck on to you...
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(Female/14)
In grade six A,D,T, and me we're best buds but unfort. A moved away so it was just me D and T.
In grade seven, T started hanging out with L and Z and it wasn't until the end of the year that i joined her and well we drifted away from D so it was then me T and L and Z.
Grade eight it was us all the way but we had so many fights that in june last week of school L and Z went there way and well me and T were once together again.(At this point we wished we hadn't left D )
Now in grade nine i missed first two weeks of school and once I come bacl, T is friends with D and M( m was friends with d after gr.6) L and Z arent friends anymore so i started hanging out with L and her shadow whos so fking annoying and I dont really feel like i belong anywhere :"(
I don't feel like they are my real friends and everythings jst so strange idk what to do :"(
And please dont tell me do find new friends because this is the group of circle of friends(ltters lol) i know best and well everyone else is jst like...mehhhh
Plz help me out I dont want to end my last yr in middle school without good friends (link)
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Alright look, the most obvious answer is "make new friends," sad but true, however this doesn't mean you have to stop talking to ADTZL, MNOP!!! Haha, ummm anyways. If this is going on in middle school high school will be no different that's where most people split/leave/change an so on~
I'm a sophmore, most of the people i talk to and are friends with now, are basically all new people, most of my midddle school possey split, there where fights/rummers/and just too much stupid drama! >:b
I still talk to old people and I hang with a few bestfriends too, that stuck with me. Your best options are to either ignore the fact that some of your friends are no longer friends with each other and still talk to everyone of them. Or slowly start branching out to new people, it's not as difficult as you think.
Also good friends are those that will stick with you no matter what, so yeah.
Good luck and Hope I helped.
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hi my photoshop layer drop down menu is not functioning right. when i start ps it is there but then after a while of fiddling with pictures the menu turns gray and inactive! what can possibly be wrong? (link)
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Who knows why photoshop goes on the frits at times :b Don't sweat it, I have Cs3. What I do is close photoshop and re-open it, sucks if you haven't saved any of your process, but here.
The next time you go to open photoshop go to:
Window>Workspace>DefaultWorkspace
This should help so that won't happen, you may have accidently or unknowingly changed something in your settings that could have caused it to be unusable. Doing this will set everything back to normal. :)
Hope it helped, and happy editing!
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I was wondering, me and my boyfriend had sex the 21st day after my last period. He didn't pre cum or cum and we had a condom with room left on the top. He even checked, it didn't break. I just wanted to be sure and have others reassure me that I can't be pregnant. Yes, i know there is always a chance, but with my situation, is it likely? I always get paranoid :/ (link)
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Doubt, it, like the other advisor said, stress = late period. Unless you're actually late you should take a test if you want to reassure yourself. And if you always get paranoid, well then, maybe you should go on the pill too. I used to get paranoid too, but the pill is amazing. Plus two forms of protection is better than one! :)
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So I have decided to have sex with my boy friend for the very first time. I haven't been pressured into this decision infact when I told him he asked me to think it through and make sure for a fact this is what I want. I know this is what I want, because I love him with all my heart and soul. He is my everything and I want to give him everything I can and he already contains my heart and mind because I love him with all my heart and I think about him all the time. The only thing left for me to give him is my virginity and this is because I want him to have it. So I know I am ready for sex and I was just wondering if like I could get some pointers as to how to make this the easiest on me, my body, and my beloved, cause he doesn't want to hurt me and I know it is going to. Basically is there anything I or he can do to make it hurt less?? (link)
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I'd say the best way to lose it, is if you're on top. You can control the speed, the thrusts motion and all, it should also hurt less.
Like the other advisor said, stop if needed. It took me 2 failing atempts because of the pain, but on our third, it was a winner, haha.
As for bleeding it differs, I bled very little the 1st time, the second time was A WHOLE HECK LOT (keep in mind these were our failing times -.-) The third was barely any, and now there's none, so it's different for everyone. try to get as aroused as you can, the wetter the better! ;D
Easier for it to go in and more pleasurable for you too.
Minor tips? Hmmm, I'd say make sure he rubs your clitoris, this will also make it easier for you to take him in and will make you feel great.
It will be awkward and embarrassing the first couple of times, or maybe not at all, it's different for everyone, I know mine was awkward...anyways just relaxe and most importantly USE A CONDOM!!! Or be sure to be on the pill already for atleast a month. Trust me, it's for your own good, if you don't want any unexpected surprises later. :b
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So starting September I began College, I was so stressed I forgot to go to a show I paid 200 dolalrs for. Than my bf parent was drunk and kicked him out so he stayed with me for 2 weeks than he went back as if nothing happened and they didint apologize or talk about or anything. i have lost like all respect for the parent! I still put on a happy face becasue I dont want it interfearing with our 5yr relationship. I am so tight for cash and all I do is wake up go to school come home eat read shower sleep than it all starts all over again. I got very emotional that my bf wasnt calling me back and starting BAWLING! I have not cried like that in Years...and I don't know why I was crying so hard, its so depressing. My bf didnt understand said i was being a baby and he was gonna leave if i didnt stop crying. I started breathing and calmed down. nigh time comes and I can't hold it in anymore I get up from bed go to the kitchen and cry. it's all i know how to do and it isnt making my problems better. How do I stop crying and get a hold of my emotional state. I don't feel anything, im never happy or angry Im just here....I don't know what to do! I'm so stressed. PLZ HELP! (link)
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First off BREATH woman BREEEEATH! Calm down will you, College is stressing indeed, I'm a sophmore in High School, but my bf is in College as a Sophmore and he's always telling me how stressful it is for him. Anyways, if your bf is being an ass about your crying then maybe he's not right for you, a bf should be caring and nurturing to his girl especially if she's under some stress. Take some time when you're home to do more things, what's making you depressed and stressed is probably your same daily routine, you've become bored and annoyed. So relaxe when you get home, instead of taking a quick shower why don't you fill your tub with bubblebath and just relaxe, or take a nice warm shower. Watch some t.v. a good movie, go out for a walk, make plans with friends, do something to distract yourself for awhile. PLAY VIDEO GAMES!!!! If you're into that, this is a good stress reliever. Hehe, it's ok to cry so don't worry about what your bf said, you're not being a baby, you just have alot on your mind and crying is a form of relief. Shout sometime if you're alone just give a good scream, or put on some music you like and sing along, try to be happy even if it's just for those 3 minutes when the song is going on. Hope you feel better and much love, AnimeLove! =)
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well my best friendis my best friend but she is always goin on at m because i am alot more quite that her an she always says '' oh its always me making the conversation '' an well its kinda annoying tbh so i was wondering what are some good things to say that will make her from saying this again. thanks :) (link)
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If she's really your bestfriend than she shouldn't mind your quietness, just saying...but anyways I'd say you should try to spark up a convo every now and then, to keep her from getting aggetated at you when she starts every single conversation. Talk about anything, doesn't matter since bestfriends should be able to talk about absoloutly nothing and still have fun. Like ex: "Have you ever wandered what it'd be like if we had one giant finger instead of hands?" D:
Haha, my bestie and I had this conversation, heh.
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Recently, my friend has been talking about how "hot" he thinks his teacher his. He keeps saying he fantasizes about her and he worships her. He said he likes walking past her room having excuses just to walk by her, he said he wants to buy the yearbook and school newsaper just to oogle and "jerk off" at any pictures of her in them. Worst of all, he said he wishes she was a pedophile and if she wanted to molest him he'd be all for it. This sounds extremely creepy and unhealthy to me? I always thought a teacher is someone you respect, not look at in that way. Is this normal? Should I do something about it. (link)
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Hahaha, wow! Well ummmm...I'd say it's normal, it's not uncommon for a student to crush or lust after one of their teachers. True they're someone you're supposed to respect, but looking at someone in that way doesn't mean you don't respect them. Teachers are funny, smart, and so one~ These things are charming and if they're physically attractive well then it's unavoidable. ;) I crushed on my History teacher on my freshman year of high school, he was 46 in pretty good shape but most importantly he was very funny, it just made him soooo sexy! D:
I gottah say he's pretty obsessed, but he's a boy and a teen so his hormones get the best to him. Just tell him not to talk about it around you, simple as that.
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ok so i know that a guy pre cums before he actually cums. ok, so im trying to get my boyfriend to last longer by masturbating before we have sex. if he masturbates and then cums before sex, and then he gets hard a second time and we actually have sex, will he pre cum the second time too? (link)
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The penis secretes pre ejaculation fluid, or precum, while it is stimulated. Men typically can't even feel when it is happening, and it happens several times before his actual ejaculation. So yes, it actually can happen more than just twice. :b
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I have been peeing a little blood today and I know it's not my period or anything like that. I was wondering if it was a sign of chlamydia because the guy I slept with two weeks ago just told me like yesterday that he has chlamydia and hasn't been treated for it yet. He was serious. Should I go to the doctor or just let it go away on it's own? It's not a lot of blood or anything and I don't have any signs of a STD so I don't think it can be chlamydia, right? (link)
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In women, the bacteria initially infect the cervix and the urethra (urine canal). Women who have symptoms might have an abnormal vaginal discharge or a burning sensation when urinating. When the infection spreads from the cervix to the fallopian tubes (tubes that carry fertilized eggs from the ovaries to the uterus), some women still have no signs or symptoms; others have lower abdominal pain, low back pain, nausea, fever, pain during intercourse, or bleeding between menstrual periods. Chlamydial infection of the cervix can spread to the rectum.
So yes, blood is a sign, you should go get tested as soon as possible for treatment.
Another reason why you may have blood in your urine is high amounts of calcium, that causes al little blood. But since you're saying the guy you had sex with was tested positive for it, then I suggest you go have it checked out.
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I need a really cheap or free photo editing software program to help me alter my photos to look really good. I know Photoshop is suppose to be the best but I can't afford Photoshop so I'm looking for like a Photoshop ripoff, I guess. This girl at my school uses one program (I don't know which one) to amke her skin flawless and perfect. I want to do this too for my senior photos and stuff. Which program is the best and where can I find it? (link)
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Paintnet is probably your best bet.
http://www.getpaint.net/
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Simple question, I guess. My friend says it's 70 but I heard it was like 75 or 80. Does anyone know what the average life expectancy is right now? We're in the United States so that might be a factor, right? (link)
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The average life span for a man is 75 years. The average life span for a woman is 80 years. Men's average has increased in the past 5 years, before they did new studies in 2004, the average life span for a man was 8 years less than a woman, instead of just 5 like it is today.
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My little nephew is the cutest thing ever. He's really adorable. His mom has been buying him baby dolls to play with though and I don't know if that is right. I don't want to say anything if it's okay for boys to play with dolls but I keep thinking that the dolls are more of a little girl toy, you know? Aren't boys suppose to play with cars and stuff? I just don't want him to grow up and be teased and stuff for having dolls, you know? What do you think? (link)
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Don't listen to that idiot under me and the other advicer. >.>;
Ignorance these days, sheesh!
You said they're baby dolls? Like those cabagepatch kids and such, right?
Well I think it's perfectly ok, yeah it's typical for male children to play with cars, dragons and crap, but those also make the child much more hyper and sometimes violent. As to a doll, it will teach them to be more calm and nurturing. I think aslong as he has other toys to play with such as a football or a car, and has a wide mix of variaty then he should be fine. Teasing is likely to accure some times, but if so you should be reasuring him that there's nothing wrong with him. My cousin played with barbies when he was little and he's the most manlyest man I know! O__O;
So yeah, hope I helped.
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my menstral cramps are absolutely terrible, like the first day they hurt so bad i'm like screaming. midol doesn't do much and neither does tylonol or anything really. i've heard that birth control helps it? but my mom won't let me get on bc because she says it causes breast cancer. (i was also thinking about birth control because i want to start having sex with my boyfriend of 2 years and i want to be safe) but yeah do you think birth control would be a good idea for me? what are some of the side effects and how can i convince my mom to let me on it? thanks (link)
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There have been a few cases where Birth Control has caused breast cancer, but they're slim, in the low percentile. Some researches think it's because some of the pills now in days contain a lower amount of hormones then when they first came out with the stuff, they lowered it so we'd have fewer periods. Every heard of that one Birth Control that lets you have only 4 periods a year?
Yeah don't EVER get that one...bad idea. Well anyways, this would most certainly make you regular, and ease the pain of cramps. It's also good form of protection if you want to become active, aslong as you take them at the right times and never skip or forget. :b
For now, to ease the pain of cramping, I found taking a nice hot or really warm shower/bath helps the ouchies go away, along with putting a heating pad on your lower abdomen, tea would also help. I like mint! =) Hope I helped!
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My mom recently stopped buying our usual bread and has picked up some wheat breads to try out. I think they taste totally different but not bad. I asked her why we are changing to this new bread and she told me that wheat bread is healthier than white bread. I, of course, asked her how it is healthier and she didn't really know but told me that I should find out. I looked around but I think the explanations might be a little too confusing because I can't really grasp WHY the bread is considered a healthier choice. Could someone PLEASE explain this to me? (link)
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White bread and wheat bread are sortah the same, when you look at their ingridients. HOWEVER, wheat bread is much more healthyer for the reason that it contains many more vitamines then white, it's also hiegher in fiber which is good for you. So you can make stinkys often (lol), how is it that it has more then white you ask? Well although both breads are made from wheat berries, white only uses one of three parts of the wheat berries. The endosperm. As to wheat that uses all three parts, The bran, The germ and The endosperm. White doesn't use this since they use white flour. So eventhough white is enriched it still loses fatty acids, fiber and all that good stuff when the flour is refined. So yeah, point is Wheat totaly PWNS White when you're speaking of healthy choices. ;D
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So When I"m doing anything with guys my vagina gets soo wet (ew) is there anyways i can not get that wet and do guys find that grosss ?
HEEELP PLEASE (: ? (link)
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The wetter the better, guys like it ALOT!
It means you're very turned on by what ever they are doing, so it's a big ego feeder and confidence boost for them. Yeah it's embarrassing at times and may feel weird or uncomfortable, but trust me it's a good thing. There really isn't away to stop this, you get wet when your body gets excited and it's just preparing your body for sex. It's normal don't worry about it. =)
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hi! im a 19/f and i just have something im curious about. im 5'6" (which is pretty tall for an asian girl haha) and i really love wearing heels! (most of my heels are 3-4 inches high). but i always feel so self conscious because im so tall in them when i go out (5'10" pretty much). whats your opinion? am i just being stupid? or should i just wear flats for the rest of my life? :/ thanks!~ (link)
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PFFFT!!!
I'm 5'8" and I wear those same inch high heels, leaving me about 6ft tall. :b My bf is 5'9" and he doesn't mind, alot of guys don't care, besides heels are so sexy to wear, the female foot looks so beautiful and graceful in it. Heels lengthen your legs so if you wear a dress a little above the knee it should look very nice. I think it's nice so don't worry about other people judging you, chances are they're jealous! ;)
The taller the woman the longer the legs, the longer the legs the more men you get. Haha, hope I helped. =)
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Where is a really good place to get good halloween costumes for teens? I want to be something really cool like an Angel or something, I don't know. Where can I get really good costumes at that will fit me right and won't look stupid? I have a halloween party that I will be going to and I want to look good! (link)
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Look for a nearby store called "Spirit of Halloween." Were I live we have 2 and they're very big and have buttloads of costumes, some are expensive and some are fairly well priced.
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my boyfriend and i had unprotected sex on september 7th 12th and 15th. i ovulated september 10th through the 15th. my period was supposed to come on the 27th but it didnt so i took a pregnancy test and it was negative. i also took one last night (the 29th) and it was negative. i have been having super bad cramps like im about to start my period for about a week but just a few hours ago i went to the bathroom and i had some brownish red discharge but it wasnt alot. could i still be pregnant even though those test were negative? (link)
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You could, but I don't thinkso. Brown spotting is common with your period, or your body could just be cleaning itself. Discharge is away of the female body cleansing itself, if you're still not convinced about not being pregnant, make a appointment with your doctor. They should be able to tell accurately.
Hope I helped =)
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well it started a couple of weeks ago, i think i was skatboarding and i tryed a handplant and for a little while after my rib was in a dull ache. it didnt bother me much because i was skating and iv done much wors to myself through it but today i was making breakfast when i coughed and it cracked. as it did so all the muscels tense'd up for a good minute or more...
im still in pain now while writing this and im deffinatly going to make an appointment at the doc's. but have you ever heard of this before?
was a rib muscle out of place and just needed a good crack back in to place?
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It could be a muscle spasm, when doing a trick like that your body tends to tense up and it could of tooken in some air between your muscles as they moved. This would result a few minutes later in aches, a sharp poking stabbing feeling or pain. Or think, did you hurt yourself? If you did you may have bruiced something inside, or broken something. (Lets hope not...)
If it is a muscle spasm then will go away on it own but may take awhile, see your doctor as soon as possible. In the mean time, to reduce pain I;d sugest you take Advil, or Moltren or Tylenole, you can also heat up a towel in your microwave and set it over the spot that hurts, this should feel nice and realse any air that you have caught if it is a spasm. Try to rest and don't make any sudden movements or heavy lifting. I'm not a doctor, so I'd suggest you go see one. But anyways hope I helped in the least bit, hope you feel better and be CAREFUL! >:T
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