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Emotional/Depressed/Stressed
So starting September I began College, I was so stressed I forgot to go to a show I paid 200 dolalrs for. Than my bf parent was drunk and kicked him out so he stayed with me for 2 weeks than he went back as if nothing happened and they didint apologize or talk about or anything. i have lost like all respect for the parent! I still put on a happy face becasue I dont want it interfearing with our 5yr relationship. I am so tight for cash and all I do is wake up go to school come home eat read shower sleep than it all starts all over again. I got very emotional that my bf wasnt calling me back and starting BAWLING! I have not cried like that in Years...and I don't know why I was crying so hard, its so depressing. My bf didnt understand said i was being a baby and he was gonna leave if i didnt stop crying. I started breathing and calmed down. nigh time comes and I can't hold it in anymore I get up from bed go to the kitchen and cry. it's all i know how to do and it isnt making my problems better. How do I stop crying and get a hold of my emotional state. I don't feel anything, im never happy or angry Im just here....I don't know what to do! I'm so stressed. PLZ HELP!
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If you are stressed letting it all out certainly helps to get it off your chest nothing wrong with airng your dirty laundry in the privacy of your own home. Your Boyfriend is a bit Cold around the heart to your emotional pain. Where's his sensitive side? You sound very responsible to me keep up the good work This is your life one day you are going to be a grandmother so the bricks you lay down from now on is what kind of a life you want for yourself. if something dosen't work for you... TURF it. You don't need all this extra baggage. Lay down your bricks the way you want to walk the path in your life You sound on track to me so far. If your boyfriend threatens to leave leave you again suggest "That's a good idea". You need comfort if that too much to ask for then have fun at your Mothers. He will not want to do that but you have let him know you are open to his suggestion to leave therefore it's a lame threat. You need a boyfriend who is going to take away your insecurities not add to them A cuddle takes away everything horrible. All you need sometimes is a comforting cuddle when your at breaking point. Take long deep breaths hold for 10 seconds this will bring your blood pressure down if you find yourself getting upset angry or whatever negative vibes. Ask for a reasurring cuddle everything will work out. I hope this helps sweetie Good luck.
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First off BREATH woman BREEEEATH! Calm down will you, College is stressing indeed, I'm a sophmore in High School, but my bf is in College as a Sophmore and he's always telling me how stressful it is for him. Anyways, if your bf is being an ass about your crying then maybe he's not right for you, a bf should be caring and nurturing to his girl especially if she's under some stress. Take some time when you're home to do more things, what's making you depressed and stressed is probably your same daily routine, you've become bored and annoyed. So relaxe when you get home, instead of taking a quick shower why don't you fill your tub with bubblebath and just relaxe, or take a nice warm shower. Watch some t.v. a good movie, go out for a walk, make plans with friends, do something to distract yourself for awhile. PLAY VIDEO GAMES!!!! If you're into that, this is a good stress reliever. Hehe, it's ok to cry so don't worry about what your bf said, you're not being a baby, you just have alot on your mind and crying is a form of relief. Shout sometime if you're alone just give a good scream, or put on some music you like and sing along, try to be happy even if it's just for those 3 minutes when the song is going on. Hope you feel better and much love, AnimeLove! =)
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