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What to do when I've lost most of my friends :"(
(Female/14)
In grade six A,D,T, and me we're best buds but unfort. A moved away so it was just me D and T.
In grade seven, T started hanging out with L and Z and it wasn't until the end of the year that i joined her and well we drifted away from D so it was then me T and L and Z.
Grade eight it was us all the way but we had so many fights that in june last week of school L and Z went there way and well me and T were once together again.(At this point we wished we hadn't left D )
Now in grade nine i missed first two weeks of school and once I come bacl, T is friends with D and M( m was friends with d after gr.6) L and Z arent friends anymore so i started hanging out with L and her shadow whos so fking annoying and I dont really feel like i belong anywhere :"(
I don't feel like they are my real friends and everythings jst so strange idk what to do :"(
And please dont tell me do find new friends because this is the group of circle of friends(ltters lol) i know best and well everyone else is jst like...mehhhh
Plz help me out I dont want to end my last yr in middle school without good friends
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you shouldnt let the fact that u missed 2 weeks of school stop you from having firneds the res tof the year. D and T wereboth your friends before, you should try and reunite with them. to make it easier, try and invite the 2 of them to a concer tor sometihng with you, it wil lbring you togeether. and let them have a really good nickname for you, its the fastest way to make people your friend.
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Holy shit that's way too many letters dude.
But yeah, middle school sucks. Girls just ditch each other & they're so shallow to each other. It gets a bit better as highschool goes on, despite what everyone'll try & tell you about how horrible it is. Most cliques & lame stuff like that just disappear.
I know the feeling though, believe me. Do you have any classes with any of em? Lunch? Lockers by each other? Just start talking to them & catch up. Try telling them how you feel, but don't sound clingly.
T sounds like she's been the one you've been friends with the longest, so start with her first. Ask her to hang out or spend the night this weekend.
And I hate to say it, but finding new friends is really the best thing for you to do if you don't feel like they're your real friends. Just start up random conversations with whoever you sit by in classes. Just be nice & cheerful & stuff; It'll make people wanna talk to you or be around you. It's really easy to make friends once you get the hang of it. :D
Good luck girlll!
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Alright look, the most obvious answer is "make new friends," sad but true, however this doesn't mean you have to stop talking to ADTZL, MNOP!!! Haha, ummm anyways. If this is going on in middle school high school will be no different that's where most people split/leave/change an so on~
I'm a sophmore, most of the people i talk to and are friends with now, are basically all new people, most of my midddle school possey split, there where fights/rummers/and just too much stupid drama! >:b
I still talk to old people and I hang with a few bestfriends too, that stuck with me. Your best options are to either ignore the fact that some of your friends are no longer friends with each other and still talk to everyone of them. Or slowly start branching out to new people, it's not as difficult as you think.
Also good friends are those that will stick with you no matter what, so yeah.
Good luck and Hope I helped.
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