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What did i do?!
well there is this guy who is a year younger than me who is friends with my friends brother and i met him at her house back in december. weve been talking here and there on facebook and i saw him again at their house in january. after i saw him there we would talk and he told me how he really wants me badly and how he wanted to do all of these sexual things with me [i think he was just going to use me] also something else that is weird is that he likes this girl who lives an hour away who he only sees once a year and im pretty sure they are going out. but anyways i didnt think he cared if he had a gf so far away and talked to me like that too. one night we were talking and he pressured me into sending a picture, he said hed be mad if i didnt.. but it wasnt a bad one i had clothes on..but after i sent them i looked at his fb wall and that girl had wrote, I LOVE YOU TOO!!!! so i think they are going out. and it bugged me because he was talking to me like that WHILE he was saying "i love you" to that other girl? i dont understand. but anyways, about two weeks ago I IMed him because he hadnt IMed me since i sent those pics and i was confused. and basically our whole conversation was him begging me to give him a bj. i kept on saying no i dont think so sorry but he kept asking and making me feel bad..at the end of the conversation he just said i want a deep throat from u sexy ;] and then he said for me to text him. so i did. but his phone was off and he didnt get it until two days later but then never responded..
so JUST NOW i decided to IM him..only because we havent talked in two weeks and i dont understand why..i thought maybe its because he hadnt seen i was online at the same time or something. so i IM him and all i get from him is, hi
then i go, whatsup
and he never answered. what the hell did i do. i mean i know that he has friends that go to my school and i feel like MAYBE his friends said something about me to him or something? i dont think so..i think im just paranoid. but i mean he didnt treat me nice at all or anything but i just dont see why he doesnt want me anymore, why so sudden. what did i do to make him not wanna talk to me anymore, i mean, two weeks ago he was like drooling over me and now its like he wants nothing to do with me. im so confused and i feel so bad about myself and ugly. please tell me what it was that i did.
well, the last time we actually talked was
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Wow. Obviously, since his girlfriend isn't here, he's going to try to get you to do the things he wants so he can get pleasure. Like, that's so immature and not cool, considering that he is also a year younger than you too. He sounds like a little perv., to be quite honest. Why get yourself involved in that ? Unless he changes his ways, don't try to pursue anything with him. I mean, he pressured you into taking a picture ... although, I think you wanted to send him a picture so he'd keep talking to you because lets be real here, you didn't have to do anything you didn't want to. But seriously, you didn't do anything. This guy is obviously a bag of douche.
And your confused because he is toying with your emotions and how you feel towards him. And if he's so desperate for you to give him a bj, then he's probably asking other girls the same thing he is asking you. [I know that sucks, and I know it hurts, but that's the cold hard truth, hun]
And he's not talking to you anymore because you didn't give him what he wanted, so he's moving on to some girl who will. It's good that you stuck to your morals and didn't give in.
But if you REALLY want to know what's going on, then you COULD ask him bluntly about it. Just be like, "hey, I don't really know why you're ignoring me, but did I do something wrong?" and if he makes you feel guilty about the bj thing, make him feel guilty about his gf who lives an hour away thing.
Don't worry, you'll get through this :] if you have any other questions, or just want to talk, feel free to inbox me ! xxo good luck, hope I helped.
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Well honestly, I think that he is not talking to you because you did not give in to his pressure. I think that he is a jerk and sometimes jerky people tend to want to take advantage of nice people.
I think the fact that you were smart enough to not want to do everything he says must have got him upset. Maybe he found some one who was not as smart as you to do whatever he wanted.
Don't let anyone, especially some jerk make you feel like you are less than what you are!! I am sure that you are beautiful and sweet, that is why he came on to you. But unfortunately for him you are NOT dumb and saw right through him. Always believe that you are GOD's perfect package and that you don't need him to feel beautiful.
Now, be the star that you are and shed your light on someone worth it. Leave that clown in the dark!!!! Hope that this helps, GOD Bless!!!!
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wellthis kid seems like a real douchbag and if he treats a girl like that than he is not worth your time at all!
so you should just ignore him and when he wants to talk to you ignore him and if he keeps buggin you tell his to go screw himself because he seems like all he cares about is sex and if thats all he wants and doesnt care about anything else than he is SO not worth it
:) you deserve better than that
good luck
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