Does he still have feelings? Did he ever have feelings?
Question Posted Sunday February 1 2009, 1:15 am
Female/ 17
So last year I met this guy. He was in 2 of my classes and we got to be really close. We had a lot of fun together and flirted alot. He'd always work with me in class and we always talked and laughed together. I started to like him. But he had a girlfriend. He found ways to text me and talk to me. but he never knew how I felt.
Then When I hooked up with my ex. At the same time he broke up with his girlfriend. He was always interested in how my boyfriend was. and he would always ask questions about my really close guy friend. he was always wondering why we were so close. and he'd get weird when I would talk about other guys,
Then when this year rolled around and he's in my math class...we never talk , and he's gotten all weird. He just looks at me all the time, but he acts like we were never close.
I still have feelings for him. But I want to know why he's so weird now? and does he still have feelings?
My opinion on the matter is that he's shy because HE thinks you don't like HIM. As you said, you never said how you felt.
By the way you described it, it seems like he really liked you. If he didn't, he wouldn't be getting jealous when you talked to other guys.
You should gradually start talking to him again, as FRIENDS. Start over.
Then, as your friendship starts gradually being restored, maybe tell him that you like him as more than a friend.
Feel free to ask further questions or update me on how it goes :D
tinydancer answered Sunday February 1 2009, 1:58 pm: hes acting weird cause he prolly likes you and doesnt knw how to act around you anymore
and he prolly liked you when you were goin out with your boyfriend
so what i recomend is you go over and talk to him and sugest you hang out
say that you havent seen him in awhile and you need to caach up
trust me if he likes you he will be so happy that your makeing the first move
:)good luck [ tinydancer's advice column | Ask tinydancer A Question ]
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