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Upset at night
14/f
Its been really weird for me. Last year in 8th grade I was always upset because of different things going on. I did cut myself like 3 different times during that year. My friends were always there for me and everything. I have done way better a little after the beginning of 9th grade. I feel horrible now. I feel so upset and I'm always crying at night. But the thing is that I am only crying at night. I don't ever feel so upset during the daytime. Is something wrong with me? I feel like I'm so horrible at everything I do. Mostly because of school, I'm not doing good in two of the subjects and I'm just not getting it and I just break down. I mean besides that though, everything is so great but I don't feel any better. I have a good family, we fight but not as much as before, parents still together but almost got divorced a few months ago, the greatest friends in the world, and my boyfriend who treats me like I'm the best thing in the world. How come I'm not happy with this? At night I try to talk to my friends on the phone because then I start feeling better. They can't talk at night alot though because of how late it gets. I don't know why but I'm only happy during the daytime or with my friends. I feel so upset during one of my classes at school though, only because its not my best class. I don't think I'm really ugly except at times when I'm thinking, "why would my boyfriend like me, I'm not even that pretty" and then I start comparing to other girls. Last year I was worse I guess, I would be upset all day and with my friends but right now I don't know whats really going on. I'm only 14 and I don't get it. Sorry it was long and thanks for any help.
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i was like that too.. so don't think your crazy because your not.
in the day.. there is stuff to keep you busy and you don't really think about all the stuff thats going on.. at night though its when you can reflect back on all the stuff thats happened and happening.. it all just unloads on you..
i know how it feels..
and as for the classes if you have older siblings parents and even teachers (even though teachers don't really help when they think it does) can help you out and explain it a little better... you can even call a cousin or aunt or something.. maybe tutoring?
and don't be so hard on yourself okay? it doesn't help much..
think about all the good things in your life.. i know its hard.. but deal with the bad stuff one at a time.. no matter how long it takes.. time heals everything. trust me. i know asking you to trust me is really hard.. well because you don't know me. but yeah. try =]
and even if you don't think your pretty.. well your boyfriend may be able to find a prettier girl.. but maybe he doesn't want to. maybe he just likes you for you.
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Hello,first off I am so sorry that you are feeling this way, it is bad enough to have deal with lives daily pressures but to feel sad for unknown reasond makes it even worse. I know you dont know why get sad at night but I am telling you there is a reason,emotions can be very confusing but with the right imformation they can be jusr as aesily explained.You have to ask yourself whatr is on my mind when I am at home alone by myself,there is something that triggers this sadness,it is most likely your thoughts maybe your unconcious thoughts,What do you talk to or want to talk to your friends on the phone about exactly regarding why you are sad,i fyou can answer these qestions I can possibly give an answer to the reason you may be getting upset also whatever reason you cut yourself in the past may be a cause if this sadness,there are so many reasons you could be feeling this way,it could be that you dont like being alone and the fact that you know your friends are there for you gives you comfort.When you are alone at night this is probably the only time you are alone and have time to really think about you and your life this can be causing this oriblem, If you dont mind dont mind do you think you can answer 6those questions I stated before to your self or even to me in aprivate message,they will help you greatly to figure out what is going on. A more optimistic outlook on things is also, if you think about it you have so much to ber happy for and I am sure you know this,I mean you hav great friends,a caring boyfriend(which is hard to find)and a family that loves you dearly,school may not be going that well currntly but all you have to do is take the right steps to improving your grades. The first step is figuring out the problem you have then taking the right steps to fix them. Do not ever think that about your self,I am sure no I know you are a beautiful girl inside and out and that is why your boyfriend likes you.He likes you for you and all that you have to offer,he sees something special in you that attracts him to you and I am sure you guys will last for a long time to come because he seems very sweet andkind hearted,you are bery lucky to have a guy that treats like you deserve to be treated because you only deserve the best,comparing your self to other girls is pointless becaue everyone is unique in their own way,you are beautiful,amazing and unique there is no one in the world like you and you dont need anyone to tell you that because you have to beleive it,it wont be hard to believe because it is true. You can also try to do more things that make you happy,because you have to focus on yourself before you can give yourself to anyone else,you have to make sure you are happy and satisfied,read a book or watch a movie you always wanted to,just do somethin you know intersts you and that makes you smile if you have no clue what these things are just write them downs,write down your likes and dislikes and you will know exactly what makes you happy!I hope this helped and I wish you the best of luck,if you have any further questions on this topic or any other topic I would be happy to help you just send another private message. Hope everything goes well.NEVER FORGET HOW SPECIAL YOU ARE IN EVERYWAY!!:) :) SINCERLY,DIAMOND:) ;) ;) ;) :0 :) :0 :) :) :) ;)
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