In the long run, confidence is the most important aspect in a girl. A girl that projects her importance will get noticed. I have a friend that's like that, and every guy in every bar we go into hits on her. Be confident in yourself but not cocky or condescending and you will attract people. I'm not lying about this I promise.
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