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im 16 & a female..ok so my last boyfriend we'd gone out for just about for 5 months then we broke up over something completely stupid in january. then i went out with someone else the next day [i know!] but, the thing is, i had and still have very strong feelings for him. but now he's going out with someone else but, he still tells me everyday that he loves me and wants to be with me and he'd break up with his new girlfriend for me. buuuut my current boyfriend has already told me he loves he and that he wants to be with me forever blah blah and its only been a MONTH!!! and i guess i just dont want to hurt him, and on the other hand, my ex's girlfriend told him she loves him and they've only been going out for TWO WEEKS!!! but i just dont know what to do, whether to leave my current bf for my old one or not. i mean....i have feelings for my current but they arent nearly as strong as the one for my ex... any suggestions? (link)
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It saddens me how loosely the word "love" is used. I mean come on my their is a such thing as "infatuation". But anyways I think your choice is obvisious you want to be with ex more than your current boyfriend. So be with who will make YOU happy not please everyone else. I think that person is your ex...hope I helped
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So I'm going on a trip with a team and it's pretty small, and one of my best friends and my crush is going and we're the only people he really knows. Anyway me and him usually sit next to each other on trips and we've held hands before, but I want other ways (things to say/gestures) to hint to him that I like him.
Any advice? (link)
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Compliments. Tell him how good he looks and, you know, flirt. Do little things like stare at him and smile or blow a kiss. Or you could just tell him that you like him ((that last one is full proof))...hope I helped
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K, soo I have like kind of olive skin and gray eyes. I want to redo my hair but I don't know what color to dye it (I konw the cut) I want to get kind of a punk skater look, if you catch my drift :) (and I've already tryed an unatural hair color[[pinkk]]and I deff did nott like it) haha. Thankss :D (link)
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You should go jet black or red. With your gray eyes, and olive skin, I think you could not only pull it off BUT rock it!!
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Soo long story shot me and my ex went out for three years and they were the best years of my life. She broke up with me christmas eve saying she does not love me anymore and just wants to be friends. It is the worst pain i have ever felt and its not really going away. I am pretty sure i know the reason we broke up and it was me not being myself and a good boyfriend. Basically we stopped trying to be a couple. I stopped talking to her and checking her face book a week ago and it is slowley helping me get over her. But today i went on her face book and of course there is a bunch of guys writing on her wall and pictures of her and college guys. Should i block her on facebook. I want to make it appear that i have moved on. I want her back more then anything i just don't know if it is worth it to hope. I mean i was completley dependent on her for three years for everything and its just so hard changing like that. What should i do???? (link)
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Well that's the problem. It seems as if you made her your everything and when she left you had nothing. Has she even tried to reach out to you? Personally I think you should really move on, not pretend. Or at least try dating again, it will get your mind off her. Block her until you know you're over her and then maybe you two can be friends. I mean how on earth can she just expect to break up with you after 3 yrs and expect you to be okay with it by being just friends. Try moving on...hope I helped
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Okay well me and my bf have not kisses but i think its because we have not been that comforatble...So im wondering what can i do to help make him more comfortable with himm ? (link)
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Time. Maybe you need to spend more time with him to feel comfortable or maybe you just need more time period, you know, to gradually warm up to him. Try you're best to shake the nervousness you may feel. I use to be so uncomforatble with my ex but as time progressed I didn't anymore..hope I helpeð
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im 16 & im a size 32A bra. im not by no means flat, but im not exactly a B. im pretty self conscious about it .. but do the majority of guys not like small boobs? (link)
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I have small breasts too.I barely made it to a B cup. What's important is that you work what yo do have. Be confident. I mean the majority of guys probably do like big breasts, but not all. It depends on the guy. As a matter of fact my guy is into the "thick" girls and I am by no means think but I am comfortable and confident in my girls lol and myself...hope I helped
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My name is Sarah, I'm seventeen and female. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost four months now and have only gone to second. It isn't that I want to go further because I feel obligated to but because I'm ready to. But when I try to go down and give him a hand job I can't help but chicken out. I do want to use lub, but I cant figure out how to factor that in without being awkward. And what do I do when he finishes? Should I put down a towel? I'm sorry and I know these may be stupid questions but it is the first time I'm doing it and I don't want to make a mess. (link)
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Maybe you should work your way up to a full blown hand job. You know, outside his pants, then outside his boxers ((or briefs)), and then a hand job. Get comfortable with his penis. If you just want to go straight to the hand job...yes keep a towel handy, for you and him when he cums. As for the lube I say you just nonchalantly pull it out, put some in your hand, and proceed. It's not a big deal really...hope I helped
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im 16, and never had my first kiss yet. even though im pretty sad that i still never had one, i love to hear stories about other peoples' first kisses! it makes me excited for mine :) so whoever reading this, hopefully youll share your story! thank youuu:) (link)
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Ohhh geez my first kiss was in elementary school. It was completely accidental and with my best friend's boyfriend. Everybody in the class saw it was a mess. Memories...what can I say?? lol
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17/F
Long Post. I'm sorry I write a bit detailed.
Alright so last year I moved to a new school. There was a boy I didn't like at first but as I got to know him I got really sprung off of him. He showed that he liked me back, and we would flirt when we saw eachother. We only did a small peck on the lips once.
But this year I've gotten close to him as a friend and I told him that I liked him and he told me that he liked me back and was attracted to me, but he wasn't interested in having a girlfriend right now...that it wasn't what was on his mind. We talk about it sometimes and really I'm the one who brings it up and still he says pretty much the same thing. Haha,you could say that I’m good with the family as well…He told me that his mom was talking to him about girls once and she asked, "Well what about that [my name] girl?" For a mom to ask her son about a girl....Shouldn't I be the perfect one for him? And why can’t he see it?!
Then Saturday on Valentine's Day he pretty much brought up the idea of me coming over and when I did I then discovered his family wasn't home and I've been over his house alone with him. So anyways, we were just talking and then he went to go shower, playin around telling me he wanted me to join him. He isn't very forward it seems, like he gave a few signals that he wanted to kiss me but I was thinking too much about what it would mean. So we were laying down on his bed just watching a movie, kinda cuddling. Then I started talking about us again and asked him, if we were ever going to talk or be anything more than friends. Not now, just maybe in the future." He said that he didn't know. He’s not talking to anyone right now either. I also asked if there was any other girls that he would think about going out with before me, and he said that he hadn't really thought about it. By this time I was thinking, "How can you be a boy and really not be thinking about this kinda stuff?!?! “ I asked if it was akward and he said not really. It was probably more akward for me than it was him. So then I told him, “well I feel like I’m waiting for you, like I always have this feeling something will happen in the future between us. But you keep saying you don’t know….Should I just stop liking you?” He looked at me as if he had never heard a question like this before, “Well…I don’t know…If something comes up and it happens then I guess…. “ I then told him that I didn’t want do do anything with him that would make me like him more, because I didn’t want to be taken advantage of. he laughed and was like, “what would you want to do?” and I said, “everything but not if I’m not going out.” Either way, I left on good terms with him, a big hug but we didn’t kiss or anything. Still, I feel as if I was just too easy for him and I’m kinda giving up on him as much as I don’t want to. My mom says maybe if I stop chasing him, and he sees me started to fall away from him, he'll be like, "Wait come back!" I wonder if that's true..
What should I do? And [Guys] do you think I was too easy for him?
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Personally I applaud you. You are letting him know exactly how you feel, your keeping it 100% and shouldn't always be that way. I mean sure I do see where your mom is coming from because some guys do like the chase, and do not realize what they had or could have had until its gone or fading away. BUT not all guys are like that, some like to keep it 100% just like you are. No one is the same. I for one do not think you are being too easy but then again I'm not a guy. Although you should let up a bit...hope I helped---when I said let up a bit I meant don't come so hard you with your advances. But yea you are so welcome!!!
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Im 13 and female ,I have been dating this romantic,sweet guy and i like him alot.
I want to kiss him and i did but, the problem is hard to explain.
I want to kiss him and i think about how good it will be but when it come to actually doing it i chicken out, and when he asked me to hang out i did and i was soo nervouse i didnt talk at all. I feel soo weird inside when i think about him and i always think about kissing him but , in reallity i cant.
I need advice! (link)
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I think you should tell him you want him to kiss you. If you're kind of nervous to tell him, hint at it. Just say "I wonder what our first kiss will be like, I can't wait". This way he'll know you want to and he may initiate it...hope I helped
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have you ever been so completely fooled by a guy? so entirely PLAYED? the feelings of disappointment and anger are fired up inside me. i dont know weather i should cry or punch my pillow and scream. i feel so stupid. how could i have fallen for his bullshit?
encouraging words might be helpful? (link)
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Feeling the effects of being played hurts. We go through it sometimes but what's important is that we do not dwell on it. We keep it moving. He didn't deserve you anyways sweetie. If you don't mind me asking, what happened?
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theres this guy at school. and i have to admit ive gone out with im twice. once last year once this year. and this year i thought that he was trying to get rid of me because he was always doing things he knows i hate like patting me on the head or touching my face(not in a sweet way) and treating me like a little sister instead of a gf and i broke rule number one in a relationship and i broke up with him instead of communicating. then about a week after i broke up with him, we talked about it because he was like my bff before we went out and i asked him y he treated me like that and he sed he was just being protective and didnt know how to show it and then that was january 7th then last weekend he asked out this girl at school and he likes her and ...im jealous because i really really like him. i really did this whole time. hes the only guy ive gone out with that actually completes me, and here it is a day after the day of love and they're still going out but i cant deal with it. i would go out with another guy at school by now but there is no one else i want to be with. it kills me how he wants someone else and i dont know how to control it inside of me. can you help me with what i should do and how to deal with the anger/sadness/jealousy/hurt i feel ?? thanks... (link)
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You deal with it one day at a time. You deal with the pain, anger, jealousy, and hurt by moving on. OR you actually do something to get him back! Tell him how you feel, and that you made a msitake by breaking up with him. If he doesn't feel the same anymore, at least you tried. I mean if you do not want to break up their relationship, option A is best for you...hope I helped
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fourteen/female.
(if that means anythinq.lol)
okay. i know this sounds like REALLY gay , butt when a guys gives you a hickey ; what do you do?
like while hes doing it do you just sit there and let him? or do you give him one too?
i dunno. i was just wondering. haha. (link)
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Umm I don't think you should try and give him a hickey while he is giving you one. Well at least I don't. Just sit back, relax and enjoy the feeling. Kind of caress his face, run your hands through his hair, you stuff like that...hope I helped
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Me and my bf have been together for 8 months so far,but then we broke up because he had major emotional problems and needed to go through that alone.I was understanding and I forgave him,and he asked me to come back to him,and I said I would.Of course,I tell my mom everything,and that's the problem-when I told her we'll be back together,she went insane!She said we don't belong together,that he's bad,and who knows how many other gross things,which are so untrue.Despite all things,I love him,and he loves me too,but my mom is this huge obstacle which won't let us get close to each other!How do I convince her to let me be with him?I want him so bad...Any advice is welcome! (link)
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You obvisiously want your mom's approval but I do not think you will get it. She doesn't think you two should be together because he's "bad" huh? Well just let your mom know that you respect her opinion in all BUT also let her know how you feel about him...hope I helped
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i like this guy and we're from two different words. Im more of a rocker chick and he's a jock. We are both 15 yrs old and go to the same school and somebody found out i liked him and it wound up all over the school and know he knows. The guy hasn't came up to me or anything and its been weeks. so do you think i should talk to him and if so what should i say. I just really don't want to get hurt so i don't know if it would be best to leave things alone. If you have any advice PLEASE help. THANKS! (link)
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Well I think you should go say SOMETHING to him. Maybe just something like "heyy what's up how's it going" start by making small talk. I do not think you should just blurt I like you. If there is no communication between you two yet...hope I helped
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i wear lipgloss everyday, loreal. and i mean i always seem to 'eat' it when i have a meal obviously because its gone aftwerwards lol. is it like bad for your health or something? just wondering (link)
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I don't thin there is anything wrong with eating lipgloss ((maybe if you eat large amounts at a time)) I eat lipgloss all the time loreal, smackers, marykate and ashley lol you name it...
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Okay well me and my boyfriend just got together yesterday.But it seems like he doesn't know how to hug or anything like i have to hug him because he gets embaressed or nervous,like i went to go hug him and just put his arm around my waist.But nothing more.And i don't want to take it to fast even tho we are going extremley slow.Like its still in the "awkward stage" but i don't know what to do because i don't think he has ever had a girlfriend before so its wierd.I really want to kiss him but i don't know how without it being awkward? (link)
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I think you should try making him comfortable, you know. Give him time to really warm up to you especially if he has never had a girlfriend before. Be patient yet gentle and sutle with what you do with him...hope I helped
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I have only kissed a guy. I haven't made out yet and i am 15. I have a boyfriend and i think the time is right. How do i make out? I know everyone does it differently but i want to know some kind of way so i'm not completely lost!! Some people do it with toungue and some only suck on the lips. I don't know what to do! Help! (link)
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You should probably just do it with no tongue until your comfortable with taking it a step further. ¶It's kind of like a regular kiss except you kiss the guys top lip and bottom lip slowly and suck on their lips lightly. Not too hard though...hope I helped a bit
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So I have known this guy for about 2 years we arent dating he says hes single but is with a different girl I guess to use her for her car and stuff well the other night me and him slept together and I questioned him about this girl the next day hes like we are kinda sorta talkin now hes goin around saying I didn't sleep with that bitch all she did was suck my dick. I am hurt by him deny this but what can I do to get even because I am seriously done with him. (link)
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You know what he is a complete jerk and I think you are too good to stoop down to his level. If it makes you feel any better I say you tell everyone he has the littlest penis you have ever seen lol.
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