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How to go down...
My name is Sarah, I'm seventeen and female. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost four months now and have only gone to second. It isn't that I want to go further because I feel obligated to but because I'm ready to. But when I try to go down and give him a hand job I can't help but chicken out. I do want to use lub, but I cant figure out how to factor that in without being awkward. And what do I do when he finishes? Should I put down a towel? I'm sorry and I know these may be stupid questions but it is the first time I'm doing it and I don't want to make a mess.
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I have to agree. Start off slow, just a little rubbing through the pants or boxers, then when you feel more comfortable, move on to actual hand jobs. Don't rush it, though. If you're not 100% comfortable or ready, you shouldn't do it. Trust me on this one, I'm speaking from experience. There's nothing worse than doing something you're not ready for in a relationship. You'll probably regret it later.
As for the lube thing, I really doubt it will be awkward. It'll probably feel a lot better for him, anyway.
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Maybe you should work your way up to a full blown hand job. You know, outside his pants, then outside his boxers ((or briefs)), and then a hand job. Get comfortable with his penis. If you just want to go straight to the hand job...yes keep a towel handy, for you and him when he cums. As for the lube I say you just nonchalantly pull it out, put some in your hand, and proceed. It's not a big deal really...hope I helped
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