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Should i give up hope on the one i love?


Question Posted Monday February 16 2009, 2:15 pm

Soo long story shot me and my ex went out for three years and they were the best years of my life. She broke up with me christmas eve saying she does not love me anymore and just wants to be friends. It is the worst pain i have ever felt and its not really going away. I am pretty sure i know the reason we broke up and it was me not being myself and a good boyfriend. Basically we stopped trying to be a couple. I stopped talking to her and checking her face book a week ago and it is slowley helping me get over her. But today i went on her face book and of course there is a bunch of guys writing on her wall and pictures of her and college guys. Should i block her on facebook. I want to make it appear that i have moved on. I want her back more then anything i just don't know if it is worth it to hope. I mean i was completley dependent on her for three years for everything and its just so hard changing like that. What should i do????

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iitsLoveActually answered Tuesday February 17 2009, 9:42 am:
Well that's the problem. It seems as if you made her your everything and when she left you had nothing. Has she even tried to reach out to you? Personally I think you should really move on, not pretend. Or at least try dating again, it will get your mind off her. Block her until you know you're over her and then maybe you two can be friends. I mean how on earth can she just expect to break up with you after 3 yrs and expect you to be okay with it by being just friends. Try moving on...hope I helped

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