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TOTALLY PLAYED


Question Posted Monday February 16 2009, 1:13 am

have you ever been so completely fooled by a guy? so entirely PLAYED? the feelings of disappointment and anger are fired up inside me. i dont know weather i should cry or punch my pillow and scream. i feel so stupid. how could i have fallen for his bullshit?

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dearash answered Wednesday March 11 2009, 8:19 pm:
yes, everyone has felt like that one time or another.Just look at the situation as an experience to learn from. Control the guy, don't let the guy control you.

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Shawn answered Thursday February 19 2009, 12:14 am:
You deserve much better than this. i think in
modern times, almost everyone has been played on.

Lord knows, I've had girls cheat on me many times.

The best thing you can do, is to remind yourself,
you deserve better. Keep repeating this and the
sting will cool off.

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iitsLoveActually answered Monday February 16 2009, 4:37 pm:
Feeling the effects of being played hurts. We go through it sometimes but what's important is that we do not dwell on it. We keep it moving. He didn't deserve you anyways sweetie. If you don't mind me asking, what happened?

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itdependsonyoux3 answered Monday February 16 2009, 3:39 pm:
This JUST happened to me. And I also didn't know what to do with myself. I wanted to punch him in the face. And i WOULD have if I didn't tell myslef that I'm better than him. He played you because he's an immature asshole who is so insecure that he has to hurt other people to help himself feel better. He doesn't deserve you, and he dosn't deserve the great person you are.
Write down how you feel. Listen to music. Find someone else to like and talk to. scream into your pillow or just scream outloud. Curse him out to your friends. Do ANYTHING to make yourself feel better because you shouldn't dwell on that bag of douche. One day he is going to end up with NOBODY and when that happens, maybe one day he'll relaize his douche-ness and change his ways. And maybe you'll be the one to teach him. Show him that he didn't hurt you. He wants you to be hurt. He wants your attention, but don't please him. yuh know?
and you didn't purposely fall for his bullshit, he TRICKED you into believeing his "beautiful" lies. [if that makes sense] this isn't your fault and you are SO much better off without him anyways. Trust me. You don't need him in your life, nobody needs him in any of their lives, and all you can do is laugh because players get PLAYED.
hope I helped and if you need to talk, or rant about this guy, you can inbox me, because I can totally relate right now girl. xxo good luck !
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