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Is it going to work out?
OK so im dating this guy well kinda i think i am and we met online its a long distance thing im 14 and he is 16 but i cant talk on the phone with guys yet and we used to talk on the phone all the time till my mom said i can't.he said we can talk on aim till she cools down and we talk once on aim ever since he hates typing for some reason but i dont know if its ganna work between me and him but i really like him we were talking for about 2 months and he told me he loves me what should i do?please help me.
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I'm speaking from experience on this one. I once had a long-distance relationship with a guy from California (pretty much on the other side of the US from me). I had genuine feelings for him, but it's so hard to be faithful to each other when you never get to be together in person. I was faithful to him, but he wasn't to me. Naturally, I was heartbroken & regret ever trying a long-distance relationship.
Stay friends, but don't tie yourself down with him, especially at your age. You'll miss out on a lot of fun times if you do.
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Alright,
Lets go over the basics,
1. How far away does he live?
2. Have you ever met him face to face?
Most long distance relationships do not work out, Here is why, When you have a long distant relationship it is much harder to take time and see each other yet alone you never know just how commited they really are. Honestly, If he said he loved you and you "didn't" meet him face to face then I really wouldn't take his word for it. "Love" is a really strong word he might just be exsperiencing a crush on you and he may like you. I would say I think you are much better off meeting a guy that is close to you and that you've met face to face before only because I think it would benifit your happiness and you know that he would be more committed rather than if you met someone offline who lives a good miles away. Not only that but I think you'd find yourself alot happier.
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