Question Posted Saturday February 14 2009, 1:46 pm
Okay well me and my boyfriend just got together yesterday.But it seems like he doesn't know how to hug or anything like i have to hug him because he gets embaressed or nervous,like i went to go hug him and just put his arm around my waist.But nothing more.And i don't want to take it to fast even tho we are going extremley slow.Like its still in the "awkward stage" but i don't know what to do because i don't think he has ever had a girlfriend before so its wierd.I really want to kiss him but i don't know how without it being awkward?
iitsLoveActually answered Sunday February 15 2009, 12:01 am: I think you should try making him comfortable, you know. Give him time to really warm up to you especially if he has never had a girlfriend before. Be patient yet gentle and sutle with what you do with him...hope I helped [ iitsLoveActually's advice column | Ask iitsLoveActually A Question ]
coconutcatastrophe answered Saturday February 14 2009, 11:50 pm: if you guys just got together yesterday i don't think you're moving too slow. i would say stick more with hugging without it being awkward and when he acheives that you can make the first move if you want, because he'll be more comfortable with you then...when you decide to though just lean in to him and see his reaction..if he leans in you know, if he doesn't then just pretend you were gonna tell him a secret or something ;] honestly, it would be better if you waited a bit like a couple weeks before the first kiss...'ve heard from a guy that it means more than if you rush it =] [ coconutcatastrophe's advice column | Ask coconutcatastrophe A Question ]
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