Okay well me and my boyfriend just got together yesterday.But it seems like he doesn't know how to hug or anything like i have to hug him because he gets embaressed or nervous,like i went to go hug him and just put his arm around my waist.But nothing more.And i don't want to take it to fast even tho we are going extremley slow.Like its still in the "awkward stage" but i don't know what to do because i don't think he has ever had a girlfriend before so its wierd.I really want to kiss him but i don't know how without it being awkward?
he's just nervous. Give him some time. i know when you get a boyfriend you are so excited and just want to kiss him! But, i would wait, and let him do it. It will mean more and he will feel like more of a "man" i guess you could say. lol guys are wierd that way
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hey i was wondering if i could im you on aim and explain the question more (the one with the subject "i really messed up) thanks
sure! LDSboizrokmysox5
just let me know when
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well i have freckles on my face and im kind of pale but my cheeks are like RED. i dont know why? it looks like a constant sunburn. HOW DO I GET RID OF THIS? & also i have these lines under my eye from loss of sleep & they're super ugly, how do you get rid of those to? PLEASE HELP
i don't know what to do about your cheeks but your eyes, i can help with! I have way bad dark circles under my eyes and it's so annoying. If you go to your local drug store and pick up some concealer and just pat some under your eyes every day it will make your eyes look much brighter! I like covergirl or l'oreal the best! Make sure to buy the shade that matches your skin tone!
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hey i really need help. i made a big mistake and i cant fix it now.im sorry that this is so long but please i dont know what else to try.
I was with this girl for a little over a year. we were friends for a long time before we started dating.but i made a stupid mistake..i always fought with her and called her some mean things. things she never deserved to be called. and i made our relationship horrible. but i never meant the things with her..i had something else bad going on in my life and it kinda got to me and i fliped at her every chance i got. i didnt mean it. i called her pretty much eveyrthing you can think of and i left her at a dance not long ago and she gave me alot of chances and this time shes sick of it and wants us to be done..i only left her that day because the problem i had stuck me like 2 mintues before i left to go with her and i got mad at everything she was doing there..i just really dont want to lose her over something as stupid as this..she really wants to be with me but shes afraid that im going to be like that again and she cant trust me and she just cant let herself be with me again..she cant talk to/hang out with me because she still has strong feelings for me and shes afraid she'll wanna be back with me and we hung out the other day and she kissed me twice..she said it was for closure and then she did it again and then pretty much made out with me..(idt u make out with someone for closure) but please i just need some advice on how to get her to trust me again and give me another chance (like girls put urself in her shoes and what would u want right now) please im begging at this point..this is the girl i want to be with for the rest of my life and its killig me..i messed up alot and she gave me many chances and now that the problem is out of my life she wont give me another one. how do i get her to trust me..how do i get her to hang out with me and let me show her i changed..i messed up and i really need help please. only answer if you think you can really help.
thanks so much
well, it might help me help you more if i knew what the hard things you were going through were. But, i'll try anyway. You obviously really like this girl. But ask yourself, is it really going to get better just because this issue is out of my life? I'm not trying to judge you, just think about it. Also, put yourself in her shoes. She must be sooo frustrated. She likes you a lot and she keeps getting hurt. Can you blame her for not wanting to do it anymore? Have you talked to her and explained maybe why you treated her so badly? Does she know everything? If not, tell her! It will help her make a decision if she knows exactly where your coming from. I hope this helps. Good Luck!
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So i through big parties for holidays all the time i am 16 years old and i usually never through me a big birthday party i didn't do a sweet sixteen or anything like that i usually do halloween, anti-valentines day and sometimes 4th of July but this time i'm wanting to do one for my 17th birthday now i do not want it to be like a sweet sixteen. I want it to be a fun party for older teens like 17 through 20 thats the age of people i hang out with i'm pretty much the youngest of all my friends so my birthday is in the very hot month of August so i need theme ideas and ideas to use for the party and please do not say like pool party because thats not what i'm looking for unless it goes with a cool theme please let me know what ya thank
thank you
It could ne a luau? With tiki torches and a bon fire. Or you could do a "under the sea" party. that could be fun! Sorry if this isn't what your looking for!
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I heard that people take a concoction of drink and drugs to commit suicide, any ideas as to best 'mix'?
Don't waste yout time and mine saying stuff like 'think about people who care' knowone does! from the day my brother used to spit at me accross the bedroom when we were growing up, to todays vain, bitching two faced slags. And if you give me any religious crap, maybe i'll take you with me.
look, i've been where you are. Please, just get help. Tell your parents how you are feeling. They do love you, i promise! I am so much happier now and it's been almost 10 years since i have had these kinds of thoughts!!
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I got my hair cut to my chin, months ago. Now, it barely hits my neck. I don't understand why it's not growing fast anymore! My hair used to grow about an inch a month and now it's taking forever. Is there ANY product that can speed up this process? Any suggestions would be appreciated.
Take vitamins daily!! They make your hair grow really fast!
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okay so i broke up with my boyfriend the other day and my frineds tell him everything about y i did it and that i told them what we had done. how do start to trust them after they do that i mean they told alot of ppl about what happend and now i feel like everyone looks at me weird. how do i get over it when all my friends did this to me?
it sounds to me like you need some new friends. that was totally inconsiderate of them to say all that. There isn't really a way that you cn trust them again. They betrayed your trust and they probably won't get it back. Explain to them how you feel and then make your decision
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So, I'm in such a wierd place right now, any advice would be great.
18/m
My (first) girlfriend broke up with me a few months back, and she wanted to stay friends(so did I), but she hasn't made a single effort to stay in any part of my life. Not one call, anytime we've talked, it's because I texted her. I haven't even seen her since a couple weeks before we broke up.
I miss talking to her and I miss having a girl, but I don't want her back. Even before she dumped me she was never around, she basically dumped me in her mind and let me know over the phone later.
Part of me wants to still talk, she was my only friend outside of my family, but the other part says 'screw you, I'm worth more than that, if you wanted to be friends maybe try to make an effort'
Am I being an ass because I kinda gave up on trying? I know I deserve better than that, I'm an amazing guy (not conciet,judging from most guys, I'm the nicest guy I've met :p )
Thanks!
Your not being a jerk. Who knows why we girls do what we do. I don't even know, and i am a girl!! She has her own reasons and the best way to understand her is to ask. It is hard i know, i have been in situations like this and it isn't easy. But, if you care about her friendship as much as you say you are than you should definitely talk to her. Explain to her that you really value her friendship and that just because you have a dating history or that you broke up doesn't mean that you want to lose her forever. If this girl doewsn't want that, then it is her loss and she isn't worth it anyway. Maybe she is still hurting or doesn't know how to talk to you now that your not a couple. Communication is the key to any relationship.
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I'm 22 and my boyfriend and I have been together for a few months now. I love him very much, but it was a love which took me 2 years to finally accept. We have a lot of mutual friends, but there is one who I've always had an attraction to. I'm very successful in my career, and my boyfriend still has no clue what he'd like to pursue in life. Mind you he's 5 years older than me. Our mutual friend is 8 years older than me, and has 2 children which love me, and I them. He too has a career which he is successful in. We both have this attraction for each other, and always have since the day we met. We never pursued anything, I believe because of my age... Now that i'm seeing someone, he seems to be obviously interested. I still feel attracted to him, probably more so than my boyfriend. What should I do? Do I break up with my boyfriend? I wouldn't start seeing/dating the mutual friend right away. It wouldn't seem right. But I feel like i'm lying or cheating on my boyfriend.
Continuing to stay with your current boyfriend just because your scared of hurting ou or him. is not fair to you or him. It does sound like you want to be with this other guy more and he has two kids that adore you and that you adore. You are both attracted to eachother so why has it taken so long for anything to really happen? 8 years is not that bad. My parents are 8 years apart and just had their 25th anniversary in September. I also know a couple who is 12 years apart and have been married for longer than that. I say, listen to your heart, not your head! :o)
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Hey guys.
So, I get chronic urinary tract (bladder) infections. Almost once a month like clockwork. Anyways, I find them to be relatively manageable. I've been to doctors and been on the antibiotics but I got tired of renewing my prescription so much, and it's just easier and cheaper to clear it up myself with tons of water and cranberry juice.
So anyways, recenty I got one, and for the last 4 days it was pretty bad. Then, I woke up this morning and it finally felt cleared up. But somehow still weird down there, like a bit tingly. Throughout the day the tingling progressed to full-out itching, and now it's really bad. It's around my urethra but scratching seems to only exaserbate the problem.
I plan on going to the doctor because this has never happened to me before, but the clinic isn't open until Monday. If anyone has experienced this before, could you offer some insight into what this might be, and if there are any home remedies? This is very important because I have to work tommorow, and it's in a very public environment. I can't be constantly itching myself. I'm very concerned right now, because I can't really blow off work. Help!!!
It sounds like a yeast infection! It tends to happen when you go on a round of antibiotics. Go to your local grocery store and pick up some monistat. Follow the instructions and you should be good to go! Just make sure you a wear a pad for the next few days!
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16/f
Okay So Ive been in this relationship for about 5 months, I Love Him so much, and I Know he Loves me too. But Before we started going out I liked him for a litle while and he liked me too, well he smokes weed and he doesnt do it often but he still does it, I really dont care too much that he does it because he doesnt do it around me. Well he was under the impression that I also smoked weed because I kinda wanted to, so one day I looked high but I wasnt, he said are you high? and I said Yes, I thought it would impress him, but I never thought Ide actually end up going out with him. Well about a month later he asked me out, and asked if I still smoked, I said no I quit. So Now he thinks I used to smoke and brings it up alot. Ive told him everything except that I never smoked. I feel major guilt all the time about this. Will I eventually get over this or should I tell him and risk our relationship? I really dont want to lose him!
You have to tell him! He might be mad at first, but if you tell him all this then he will probably just laugh. It's funny the things girls do to impress boys. Just make sure he knows you did it because you were trying to impress him. I seriously think he will just find it humorous. If he blows it out of proportion, than the guy is an idiot and your better off without him. The retard shouldn't be smoking weed himself
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I'm 19 and a female.
This guy I like got out of a 2 year relationship about 5 months ago. When I told him that I like him he told me that he isn't looking for a relationship right now and that I'm a very nice girl. His ex treated him badly and used him so I can understand why he doesn't want a relationship now. I backed off after that, but he texts me daily and usaully initiates the conversations. I would love to hang out with him but I haven't said anything because I already did enough by revealing my feelings. I figure if he wants to hang out he would ask me, especially now that he knows how I feel. What should I do? Does it seem like he is interested?
It seems that he already values you as a friend an you already have an "in." He seems interested but probably is not wanting a relationship. It is understandable. Try inviting him to hang out with you and a group of friends. This way, he won't feel nervous to come because it is just you two. It will look more casual and he won't feel like you are trying to push things along
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what is your opinion on girls sending guys dirty pics. not completely nude, but just provacative. 15f
honestly? well, i don't mean to be rude but i think it is kind of..well degrading. Don't lower yourself to that level. If the guy wants that or you feel you need to do that to capture his attention it is so not worth it! You are worth so much more than that. You should not have to sell your body for attention
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well there is this boy...as all girl stories start... that im falling hard for, a few days ago at church practice for a play the youth was putting on i saw his phone and i put my cell number in it and he didnt delete it. however a boy in his band, alex, saw in a text that i liked their *lead singer* and he has been following me around since. also everytime i look at him playing songs with his band he is looking at me, i usually look away first and i turn back and he is still looking. one last thing is, he has been really nice to my mom lately(idk if that will help but i think its cute) so my big question for this long story is~~does he like me? all i want is honesty. dont lie and tell me he likes me just to answer!
Boys are hard to read. But, the signs he is giving you show that maybe he is interested. Of course, there is always a possibility he is playing with you head. But, usually if a guy is not interested he would ignore you. Maybe you ask him, or casually bring it up in conversation. Say somehting like "geez man, stop staring, i know i'm good looking but man" Just be funny and sarcastic. If you are too shy then just wait things out. Something will happen if it is supposed to! Meanwhile, just be friends and hang out.
oh, and it is always a good thing when he is nice to your mom!!! major plus right there!
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So i'm looking for a pair of knee high converse i saw someone have them at school and i really liked them and i tried looking on the converse website and could not find them so if you know wear i can get them please let me know
thanks
I love those shoes so much! They have them at journeys
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when do people usually start babysitting.. and how much do they usually get in an hour??
i started babysitting when i wss ten, but a lot of people start aroung 11 through 13. it also helps to take a class on it at the library or something because it makes yourself look more exsperienced and it makes the parents more comfortable to leave u with there kids. Usually, about 5 bucks an hour is a good pay.But when there are more than 2 kids its better if it is aroung 7 or 8 bucks an hour. have fun and i hope i helped!!
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ok, where can i get the codes for the music i want to put on my xanga? ill rate a 5 for everyone who answers unless they give me no useful information!
ok you go to the search button at the top of your webpage and type in XANGA_music then a thing should come up and you pick which song u want. right click on that song and click properties. then copy(ctrl+c) the long address and go to look and feel on your site and paste(ctrl+v) the address in the music slot. then put it on loop your music so it will play over and over again. hope i helped!
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My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year and we are very much in love. We do not attend the same highschool so not seeing him everyday does make it hard, but other than that, we have a very good relationship. He has a myspace and there is this girl that comments all the time saying how he's "An awesome kid" and she wishes they could hang out more. I checked out her myspace and in a few of her pictures, HIS pictures are in there with her. Not just him by himself, but him with her and another one of their friends. He's been spending wayy too much time with her and I don't know what to think. I've been cheated on by every boyfriend I had and I thought this one would be different. I don't know what to do. Can anyone help me out?
you have got to talk to him! i have a friend hoo has a boyfriend and about everyone in school knows he is cheating on her but her! i have told her to talk to him but she says she trusts him and she doesnt want to get hurt! it will hurt you more if you wait and find out later.
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ok.. ive liked this guy for a while now and now he knows and i can tell he likes me too but i think that were both afraid to talk to eachother :(.. i really really like him and i wanna be able to talk to him but im really really shy. and plus ive never had to go and talk to someone, theyve always came to me. but anyways.. its been a few weeks and i jus wanna get it over with and talk to him...but the thing is.. i dont kno wut to say, and when or w/e so can u pleasssee help me?? im starting to get frustrated with myself cause i cant do it.
I rate high!
*depressed and sad
ok you just need to go for it! you can always start out slow. first you can write notes back and forth, then you can find out his screename if he has one.then you can gradually start talking at school! easy as that! it always helps to no if he likes you too before you go and tell him if you like him.
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