Member Since: February 13, 2009 Answers: 3 Last Update: February 13, 2009 Visitors: 632
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i have a friend whos like a hardcore christian but she tells me that she masturbates to porn...i know its pretty normal for teens but she says its really hard to stop...shes still a virgin and plans to stay one and is really a nice girl and im the only one who knows about this...she feels so bad everytime she does it though...what should i do to help her stop or to make her feel better about herself?
shes 16/f (link)
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Masturbation is simply a natural, hormonal part of every person's life. The fact she confided in you shows you are a great friend. Tell her that it is ok as long as she doesn't depend on pornography all the time to arouse her. She needs to focus on other topics and subjects in her life because it can lead into an addiction. She needs to simply switch her mind to another thought as soon as she recognizes that urge to watch porn. It's definitely a sensitive subject, but it is not shameful in the least. Did you know over 40% of people use pornography to get aroused and do so beginning while they're virgins and 16+? She's normal and it is not immoral because she is not jumping every guy she comes into contact with. If she feels it is immoral to gratify her body herself, then suggest the technique I've proposed. If you need any further help, please don't hesitate to contact me. I hope this helps!
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Hello im 18/f
I got my belly button pierced about a month ago and it still hasnt healed.
I went to a good place and they said i cant use neosporen (idk how to spell it right) or any other antibiotic ointments
is that true? because this lady from hair salon told me i could but i dont want to risk it because when i asked if i can use neosporin the piercing guy said no unless i want my belly button to fall off...
so i ended up buying this purified sea water spray for 10 bucks...
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Oooh I had this excact same problem! I'll tell you what my doctor told me to do and it's simple: buy liquid Dial soap, the original yellow formula and pH, gentle cleansing soap. Within a week you will see results. I constantly had to rotate my piercing and it seemed like turning it all the time caused more infection than good. But really you need to keep doing so. Take a q-tip and lightly swab it with the dial soap first, then clean the top and bottom open while rinsing thouroughly. Then take the pH balanced soap and rinse do the same thing. Bacteria grows and infections occur when the balance is upsetted, such as a piercing, when a foreign object is placed. I hope this helps! Also, if the cleansing process proves to be overdone, you can also just wash it in the morning, then swab it with peroxide in the afternoon, then cleanse it at night time.
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What's a good way to get ride of them?
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Buy pure Vitamin E Oil and Cocoa Butter. Vitamin E oil has been proven to smooth the skin of stretch marks and cellulite. I did this after I lost weight and it really worked. It is the key ingredient in every wrinkle/line smoother supplement. Also, you can go to a dermatologist and have an injection which depletes blood in the veins that enhance the appearance of stretch marks or get a more potent version of vitamin E. Either way, it will take severe persistance to get rid of them. It took me 4 months of a daily regimen of oils and lotions, but it really paid off and I am so happy with the results. Hope this helps!
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