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i need your opinion please!! i don't know what to do =(
hey girl i noticed you answered some1's sex question so i thought i'd ask you.. please help me.. but okay.. so this morning my boyfriend and i were having sex. i'm not on birth control but we always use protection and as he's about to go he always pulls out. today after we had sex we checked the condom to make sure there were no holes by filling it up with water. And sure enough, there was a freaking hole! but it was on the side of the condom towards the base of his penis.. so it was not near the tip of the condom where the semen collects .. it was away from the tip of the condom about 3 and a half inches. he said the condom was really tight and that he pulled out before he finished. when we filled the condom up with water we only figured out that there was a hole by squeezing it from all sides and it was a very tiny pinhole. do you think i'm okay ? =( or do you think that precum or cum could have somehow made its way up 3 1/2 inches to that hole and got out while we were having sex ? =( i'm so scared
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I'm sure you're fine. If you become paranoid of becoming pregnant (which us girls seem to do a lot) then you will develop the symptoms of actually being pregnant which will ultimately freak you out even more. Guys know if they 'pull out' in time, so I'd trust your mans instinct. I advise you get on the pill though, If it's the parents that are stopping you, there are a million ways of getting around it. For example; if you want to tell your mom your getting on the pill so she can help you pay for it - you don't have to tell her it's for sex. Here are many other reasons girls get on the pill besides sex: painful cramps, regulating periods, acne, back pains, and even depression. If you feel you can't tell your parents, research planned parenthood and I believe you can get it for free without your parents finding out. Anyway back on topic, for the most part I think you should be fine. Like I said, if you freak yourself out - your body will think you're pregnant. Not only that but there are only certain days out of the month where a girl can get pregnant and those are the days she is ovulating. Google 'ovulation calculator' to find out which days you are the most fertile, and you'll know that those are the days you need to be the most careful. However if you are late, I advise you to take a test about a week after your missed period. I'm sure you're fine. Good Luck!
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I would say there is a very slim chance that precum or cum could have made it's way out of that hole.
There is still that chance though, especially if you are ovulating right now.
(2wks before your period).
If you are really worried, then go and get the morning after pill. That will at least ease your mind - you have to take it no later then 72hrs after intercourse.
Thanks for asking me, feel free to ask me anything again in the future..
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Hi,
i know you are probably very scared, but don't jump to conclusions just yet. It is good that the two of you used a condom and he pulled out before he came.
It's nerve racking when you find a hole, however it is not likely that you got pregnant under these circumstances. Sometimes these things happen. It is possible for the sperm to get out no matter how far up it was, but again, I think the chances of you being pregnant are low.
There's also a chance that the two of you could have put the hole there by squeezing it the way you did.
Keep track of your period and if you are late by at least two weeks, then you can decide what to do next. For now, try not to worry about it.
If you are the impatient type, they now how pregnancy tests that you can use even if you are a few days late.
I really hope that everything works out for you and that it turns out the way you want.
Good luck with everything,
Ediemarie
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