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HELLO EVERYONE, MY SCREEN NAME IS JORDAN.I AM A SENIOR AND IM 17 YEARS OLD.I KNOW THAT I HAVENT EXPERIENCED EVERYTHING IN LIFE BUT I HAVE MY EXPERIENCES JUST LIKE EVERYONE ELSE.I LOVE HELPING OTHERS AND SEEING PEOPLE SMILE; I LOVE SMILING!!I HOPE THAT PEOPLE CAN TRUST ME ENOUGH TO LET ME HELP THEM IN THEIR PROBLEMS, CONCERNS, OR JUST THEIR NATURAL CURIOSITY.NO ONE IS PERFECT AND I HOPE U GUYS UNDERSTAND THAT ITS OKAY TO NOT HAVE A PERFECT LIFE WHERE EVERYTHING IS ALL LOVE DOVEY AND "PERFECT."

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Okay, so I really like this guy Chris. He doesnt know that I like him but on the otherhand I don't know if he likes me. His girlfriend just recently broke up with him,but Im actually kind of happy.
i dont just wanna go up to him and be like "i like you", that would be kinda weird.Also, a lot of girls like him too. what should i do???

Hi, okay i so know what you're going through.The same thing happened to me.I would say definetly don't go to him and just blurt out that you like him.I have to first start small talk here and there.After that maybe give him your number so you two can talk and tex personally.Don't be a hassle, maybe wait for him to text or call you first and if he doesn't then you say can iniate things first.Don't seem desperate and just take it slow...he did just get out of a relationship and you don't know whether or not he's ready for somethng serious again.

Good Luck
--jordan--
PS:let me know if you need more advice

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Alright, so I started falling for this guy in my second hour class pretty hard this year. We flirt all of the time, and sometimes I get the impression that he wants to ask me out, but the one thing holding up the relationship is that he has a girlfriend. Only I'm so confused because when he talks to me, he acts as if he doesn't have a girlfriend at all. & I know he wants me to flirt back with him. & I can tell that he likes me. & I think he knows that I like him too. We're not in the same grade; he's three years older than me, but I really don't see age as an issue. This situation has been driving me insane for months, and all I really need right now is some good advice on what I should do.

Should I flirt back? Just go for it, and not care? Or back off and be respectful towards their relationship?

I know I probably should be the better person and not flirt back, but you're only a teenager once and I'd rather be naughty now then naughty later.

Thanks. xx3

Wow...that is just like a typical guy.I don't think you should pursue him anymore, if he indeed does have a girlfriend.If he has a gf and he's flirting with you, not to be so blunt, but i'm sure he flirts with other...or I could be wrong and he could be into you whether he has a gf or not but some guys would like to have a gf and someone else...and maybe to him, you're that someone else.Also, though age is just a number, he could think you're a naive girl and try to take advantage of you. You have to be strong and make the right decisions. I can't tell you what to do because if he does have a gf, you have to have self integrity.I mean yes you're in high school, so am I, but do you just want to be that other someone or do you want him to yourself and not have to share him with his girlfriend.If he does with you, what makes you think that he won't do the same thing he's doing with his gf to you.
If you get one thing from this..remember to have self-integrity and respect...don't settle for that someone on the side b/c everyone deserves better than that.
if you ever need to talk, just send me a message.
--good luck--
I hope you make the right decision ;)
--Jordan--

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15/f
Well i am sorta talking to this guy. He supposedly like me a whole lot so i am getting to know him better to see if i like him and see if we would ever date. He texts me everyday and we talk a lot. Today is the first day he hasn't texted me or called. We never had a fight or anything, so i don't know what's up. We said goodnight last night and the said he would talk to me today. He ususally texts me in the morning but today he didn't. Now i am wondering why he hasn't texted me. Any suggestions or reasons why?? thanks!

hi...well first off you should try to think positive.you never know what could be happening in his lifr.also, if you two end up dating, being unsure and paranoid is probably not a good way to start off a healthy relationship...im really quite sure that its nothing and before you know it, you two will be texting again in no time.

--good luck--
Jordan

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