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Last Update: August 18, 2010
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i've heard that there are "silly bandz" with the names demi, selena, jonas, miley, etc like all the teen stars. its not the brand "silly bandz" but its the same concept. anyone know where i can buy these? someone told me they have them at a kiosk at their local shopping mall but we dont live in the same state or anything....

my mom got some at the dollar store for me haha they werent the offical brand but theres not really a difference in them ...try there ahaha
hope i helped =]

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15/m

This is my freshman year at my high school, how can i make more friends? i have a few close friends then about 20 other friends how can i make more?

Make sure you are outgoing. i was a freshman last year and i regret not being more outgoing. But now that it's summer i have decided to let go of caring what people think and just make new friends talk to random people. And this Worked i have made so many new friends just from going up to people and talking to them. It's as easy as going up to someone and saying "i like your shoes, where did u get them?" Just make small talk and then something in common with you two will pop up

hope i helped =]

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i don't know why he won't let me tell. he let me tell my best friend but now he wants to break up with me cause he afraid it will get out that were dating!!!

He does not deserve you! if a guy doesn't want to tell anybody who he's dating then hes a douche! When a guy really likes u they will want to tell everyone about you so that they no YOU are taken. He should want you all to hiself (except for ur friends) but honeslty break it off! you can do better!
good luck=]

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i am on my period and i am going swimming with my camp tommorow do i wear a pad or what.

Definatley a tampon. However, make sure to never keep it in for more than 6 hours, as this increases the chance of Toxic Shock Syndrome and vaginal infections. you can use less absorbent tampon if you are less experienced.

Hope i helped =]

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jamglue.com used to be a site you can go on and download music for free. but something happened to it. does anyone know any other sites like that were i dont have to download a software like limewire. i can just go on the site and get the music like on jamglue? someone please help me! =]

4shared.com

it doesnt have SOME songs but it has alot.

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Where can i buy the Luscious Lips Deluxe Kit(the red pump thingy), but not online, im talking in a store.
Preferrably a target, walmart, sephora, ect ect...
And does anyone know if it works?

im not sure where u can get it but heres a video see for yourself
http://www.cynthiarowland.com/overview_ll.php

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Hey, do oyu have any others? i nhave that one and its awesome!!! but i need more. like and how do youacctually download clothes? like, i have them in the zip folder, i put them in sims 2 downloads but they are not in my game. ????? -_-

i think (i hvaent played it in a year or so ) so i think when you download it should say save file to and you can pick ...try the sims 2 if it gives you the option but i do have a mac if that might make a differnce but when i used to play i had a dell so its kinda confusing but im sorry i have no idea accually i think i lost all my memory on it. and i cant find the packet of my sims 2 cheats when i do i will defianetly message u... sorry for the inconvience (:

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Does anyone know any awesome cheats for sims 2???? (not boolprop testingcheatsenabled true or motherlode or kaching or boolprop controlpets on) And how do you download those clothes you get off the internet? PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE ANSWER THISSSSS!!

HA i love this ...i used to Obsessed! i have all the sims 2 and sims cheats... this is the only one i still have idk if you know it but theres this thing called the L and D tombstone it does so many things (boolprop testingcheatsenabled true) but then click on your character and click "spawn" you should see alot of new options choose "L and D tombstone" and then a tombstone will show up where they are standding ...it has so many options...and as for th eclothes make an account online and then you can download them ...hope i helped ...i will try to find my packet of all my codes if you need anymore just ask (:

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Sorry to post one of these questions, but I really really can't find this song anywhere.. I must be remembering it wrong? Right in the middle of the song it goes "we go round we go round we go round, we go round; we go round we go round, we go round"

It's a country song, if that helps any, and a fairly popular on considering it was on the radio.

i think it might be " Next go round" by nickleback hope thats it ..if i find another i will teel you

hope i helped

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How do you download your music? I've always bought everything on iTunes, but honestly I'm not a huge fan of spending hundreds on music. What sites do you recommend for downloading free music? I don't mind spam email, but I don't want to have to respond to offers in order to get the music.

you can go to 4shared.com but they dont have every song but they have a majority of songs and if they dont come up it help to type in the artist name! and its Toatlly free....most of my music is from there! hope i helped!

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I'm a senior in high school, would it be weird for me to date a guy whos only a freshman?

Btw, im a 17 year old female, he's 15. I will be turning 18 in June and he will be turning 16 in August.

No its not weird both of my best friends are going out with seniors and we are freshman just beware people might talk but if you like him enough you wont care

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13/f i have this major problem and i don't kno what to do..............i have to do this stupid dear before i turn 14(with i will be next month)i hav to have sex with a with a 18 yr old guy and im scared to.he is so cute were not in a relationship he likes me and i like him,im prety shore he would like to have sex with me.i see him a lot we hang out a lot were like friends in a way.I DONT KNOW IF I SHOULD please tell me what to do.thank you

three words :
r u stupid???


Your only 13 u have plenty of time to have sex. The dare is stupid .. 99% sure if you dared the person who dared you the Same thing .... They wouldn't do it.... Plus there are very high risks of getting pregnant and diseases ..... Also think about your family... If they knew what would they say?

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okay my mom has cancer and im scared that i might lose her any day . I love my mother alot i dont want to be alone . All that will be left is my sister and me but my sisters going with her dad and im all alone because i dont have NO contact with my real father . I dont want to leave alone im only 15 and im only 1 month pregno . My ex boyfriend said i can leave with him . But he has a girlfriend I dont want it to be weird because what if a boy wants to come over with me ? Im super confused because i wanted to have this big family but it just gets smaller and smaller each day. What should i do ?.

I'm very sorry about your mother. I would try talking this out with your sister and tell her how your feeling I'm sure she'd be happy to have you with her. Unless her father does not like you. In that case I would talk to your mother and ask her what to do. Who know if she might accusly past. Always think of the positive and just have the best days with her. Be sure to be there when your mom needs you the most and always cheer get on! If u need help just ask me I'd be happy to help

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well, iwant a new screen name.
im torii, im preppy i loooveee
ripped jeans r&b and shiiit.
and i curse all the time lmfao
kwell, leave some ideas for me ;]

toriiigirl, luvtorixxx, itstoriiii, have fun with it , go wild

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Heyy, im in desperate need of a new screen name but all of the ones i try, they're all taken! so, i need some help. my names alexandra but people call me alex and thats what i want in my screen name
i tried like xo alexandraa and stuff like that but its all taken, any ideas?! pleasee:) i want xo or x3 plus my name in it:) thank you!!

alex

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i remember it was a really big song one or two years ago.
ughh! i can't remember the lyrics or the song title.
i know it was like rap.
and at the beginning it had like beeps
it was like buhbuhbuh beep beep beep
kinda like the beginning of miley cyrus's song old blue jeans.
and it was something about 'hot'
haha
if you can think of any songs like that i'd like to know them.
thanks
&& hurry!

is it this is why I'm hot? Hope I helped

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my parents dont listen to what i have to say. If it is important they say " Whatever it is, the answer is no" or " I DONT CARE WHAT IT IS!" i hate it! how do i talk to my parents without them interrupting me all the timeor end up arguing?

I feel the same way it is veryyyy annoying I just try to say well if you had something important to tell me and I just kept saying I don't care or I would jus cut you off how would you feel. I'm not quite sure what else there is to do I'm in the exact same position as you I hope you helped byye

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16/f

i want cowboy boots. but like cute ones. doesn't really matter what color. i want them to have some sort of design on them

anyone know where i can find them?

bootbarn he a wide selection hope I helped byer

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im having trouble deciding what to get for shoes
but i really want high tops of reeboks/pumas/babyphats/adidas or something like that

http://www.shopadidas.com/product/index.jsp?productId=3172585&shopGroup=R&cp=2039765.2019615&colorId=

http://www.osirisstore.com/girls/shoes/girls/south-bronx/2177502/

http://www.journeys.com/catalog_detail.aspx?c=vendors&s=girls%2fOsiris&id=94046

http://www.journeys.com/catalog_detail.aspx?c=vendors&s=girls%2fOsiris&id=90220

http://www.journeys.com/catalog_detail.aspx?c=vendors&s=girls%2fOsiris&id=90210

http://www.reebok.com/US/#/product?modelId=30034181&articleId=R709983

http://www.robertwayne.com/products2.cfm?id=19668


things like those pretty much
if anyone has pictures of people wearing something similar, especially with like skinny jeans thatd be awesome
thanks (:

I really like the ones from journeys that u had up they are like the green and pink ones I would definstley go with those

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14/f

So about 3 and a half weeks ago, there was this new girl to my class... lets call her L. I thought she was kind of nice at first, cause, you know, she was like a new opportunity as a friend. It turned out one of my best friends (E) has been friends with her for awhile, so L sits at our lunch table now... but after the first day, I started to have my doubts about her, and same thing with the rest of the table (except for E). Here are some things about her that we don't like at all:

-She has so much acne her face is completely red

-She constantly talks about how she talks to ghosts... also how there used to be a mean ghost in her old house, and thats why the moved...

-She smells A LOT like smoke...

-Her hair is greasy and disgusting.. lots of dandruff

-She makes no effort to talk to anyone but E, even though she's hung out with us for about a month

-Also after a month, she still doesn't know my name. Or anyone else's for that matter.

-She's kind of a brat-she gets really upset if she doesn't get what she wants

-I think she's emo or something... I often see her in some class I'm in with her with her head down and her hair over her face, or just her hands over her eyes... it's kind of creepy.

-She is extremly clingy

-She's a total bitch to some of my friends

-No one likes her (except for the freak-girl clique...) and she's completely oblivious to it

-Every single day she has worn the same shoes-these obnoxious, calf-high, brown wedges that make an awful clacking noise when she walks

-SHE WON'T LEAVE US ALONE!!

And I could keep going but I think I'll stop now. And please, don't tell me to 'give her a chance because she's the new girl'. A-she's not exactally new anymore, and B- I think I listed at least 10 reasons why she's a creep. I really don't feel bad for her anymore.

So, I really need help on how to tell E that we really don't like L... without hurting anyone's feelings...? I don't know, I just really need some advice on what to do.

I'm sorry everyone is being real mean heads . To tell u the truth you r being a bit harsh give her a chance if you don't give some effort she won't. But that dosent mean the other columnist should call you a bi*** . Their supposed to help you not critisize you.

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