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my bestfriend lives under the influence.
Hello, im 14/f. My bestfriend of like 9 years now smokes ciggarettes, pot, spice, and probably other things. She also drinks alcohol. She does it all with one of our friends, and some guys in like college. they do it in her neighborhood. She always peer pressures me to try a ciggarette or weed, but I always say no. until the other day I tried this rosemary spice stuff that they were smoking. i took a little puff and decided i wouldn't do it again. i am not going to smoke. im really worried about her & i know that shes only doing this to seem cool and impress people. i always help her hide it from her parents and stuff & i don't want to tell on her because she would get in so much trouble. i dont want to tell my parents either because they would instantly tell her parents. i dont like her like this :( what do i do? thanks.
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Her health is in a great danger and her safety you can do a lot of stupid stuff while being under the influence. You should talk to her one on one go out to lunch and ask her why she smokes find out for yourself what she is really thinking in her head. Now remember word carefully because even if their not smoking at the time of the convo they have an attitude. if this does not work talk to her parents about it but explain to them jumping on her wont help the situation watching her a little closer and catching little details will help
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I know you don't want to get her in trouble but I honestly wish I had done different when my friends did the same..or at least talked to them about it. I'm sure you want the best for your friend and I think first you should talk to her and about how these things are very serious in the long run. She may just want to be popular but there are definatley other ways to be. She has become more of a drugee than popular and she will get a name for that. If all talking to her and telling your worried about her doesn't work I would try telling an adult. It will all be better for her if she stops doing all this bad stuff because before you know it these drugs can become different ones and stronger ones. Your a good friend for caring! don't let her screw her life up!! if you have any other questions feel free to ask <3
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