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Confused
Hi, i broke up with my boyfriend a year ago. he sheeted on me when he left to the Dominican republic. when he came back i asked him who was that girl and he told me that was his cousin. it was all a lie. when he went back ovethere he got a different girl. now he's with her. now he is back to his town and he was telling e how much he misses me. 2 days ago he came walking to my house and it was very cold out. he came because he wanted to see me. he told me he has changed. i asked him why is he doing this when he has a girl in Dominican republic. he said he is just waiting for her to do something a guy so he can break up with her. he told me that he is going to come to my house tomorrow. i am confused because if he comes he knows he is going to see my mother. he always asks for her..which is good..but am confused with him. he tells me he loves me and that he cant stop thinking about me but i dot know if this is true. please help me out. am 18 years old. If you were in this position what will you do?
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If you want him to date you and only you, then say so. And if you think he's lying then dump him - again - and don't take him back.
Easier said than done, I know, but he sounds like he's being a confusing, untrustworthy person right now. So either dump him now, or give him an ultimatum, and see if he can stick to it. Either way, I have a feeling you'll be looking for someone else before too long. But that's okay! You're young, and life is long. Date, laugh and have fun. Be honest with people and demand they be honest with you.
Best of luck!
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if I were in your position, I'd tell him to fuck off. this dude is playing you like a fiddle. and don't think for a moment that if you got back with him, that he'd stay and change his ways. you're his "backup-piece-of-ass". as soon as he finds something better, he's gone until the next dry spell. don't waste your time.
good luck
-Gunner
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