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why doesn't my boyfriend want me to tell anyone
i don't know why he won't let me tell. he let me tell my best friend but now he wants to break up with me cause he afraid it will get out that were dating!!!
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He could be embarrased of you!!
he could be cheating!!
he might be embarrased!!
TALK TO HIM!
ask him!
hope i helped! [=
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Honey, theres only two reasons why he wouldnt want people to know.
ONE= hes embarrassed. embarrassed that he let a girl get him, or that he didnt get Miss popular. I know its harsh, but remember, there are other possibilities...
TWO= he doesnt want other girls to stop paying attention to him. Maybe he has alot of girlfriends, or hes just a flirt. Either way, he doesnt want ladies to leave all because he found someone he actually likes more than them.
If people can't know about your relationship, then is isnt so much of a relationship. Its more of a hookup/ friends with benefits thing. And no girl should be forced to hide something they are proud of.
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I do agree with the previous advice that was posted; it's great stuff to think about.
I want to approach this from a different angle though because this is also about empowering yourself. You are an individual with your own thoughts and free will. If you want to tell people, then tell people. Never let anyone have this type of control or power over you.
If anything, a relationship is something to be proud of because it takes work. If he's unwilling to recognize this, then you should probably move on to someone who will want to shout it from the rooftop; or 5th period.
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WHOA !
red flag.
if a guy doesn't want people to know he's with you, then that could mean he's embarrassed about it. in any case, that's not acceptable. don't be afraid to stand up for yourself; tell him "hey, i'm not okay with keeping this a secret."
because it shouldn't HAVE to be a secret.
life is way too short to waste time on guys who aren't proud to be with you.
you have the rest of your life to find someone who's actually worth it. listen to your gut. if you're on here asking this, then obviously you know something's not quite right about it. act on it.
you're too special to let a guy treat you this unfairly.
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that tells you that he likes you, but hes embarrassed to be dating you, or he has another girlfriend that he is telling to do the same, this way he can have as many girlfriends as he wants, but if he doesnt want you to tell anybody, hes probably emmbarassed, and affraid that dating you with hurt hie reputation (im not saying that there is anything wrong with you) but you deserve way better than that, you deserve a guy that will love you for you, no matter what your wearing, who you tell, how you look of anything, he will love you for everything about you, including your imperfections, you should confront him and ask him if hes embarassed to be dating you, if he says yes, break up with him right then, if he says not, then tell him the only way that he can prove that it by telling ppl, and not trying to hide it!
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He does not deserve you! if a guy doesn't want to tell anybody who he's dating then hes a douche! When a guy really likes u they will want to tell everyone about you so that they no YOU are taken. He should want you all to hiself (except for ur friends) but honeslty break it off! you can do better!
good luck=]
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This means he didn't truly like you. He is one ashamed of you or two dosnt want other girls to find out about you to keep his options open. Sorry to tell you but this guy is not worth it. Someone who can't even acknowledge the fact that you are his girlfriend is never going to treat you right. If you go along with this it's just like saying to him that he can do whatever he wants with you. Dot let that happen. I hope i helped you out. Good luck :)
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It means he's a douchebag, or more precisely, wants to keep his options open. Just tell him the best way to have no one find out is to not be dating, and break up with him.
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Walk away. He doesn't want people to know you were dating him - which I can only understand as he being embarassed by that or ashamed of you. Why would you want to be with someone like that?
This is a guy to wash out of your hair and move on.
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