I'm Skylar! Im good with all the teen advice things like friends, and fashion, and everything around there.
I didnt go to harvard. I didnt paint the monalisa(i didnt even spell that right...). I wont be a valedictorian and I've never saved a life. But i understand things... I see how they work. I'm a deep thinker, ill ponder things alot. Mostly people, and life and all the phillisophical types of things...
But im more than just that. I'm a teenage girl. A student. A friend. A lover. An athlete. A writer. A party girl and someones who wants to give advice and help others.
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About a week ago, my boyfriend Scott and I (we’re both 18) were hanging out and we saw this guy jogging, and Scott said to me, “his boobs are bigger than yours!” For some reason – perhaps I’m just being neurotic and silly – my feelings were really hurt by the comment. Since then I’ve just been feeling really ugly and self conscious. He called me this afternoon and he was all like, “hey, I noticed that you’ve been really quiet lately. Is everything okay? You can always talk to me if you need anything.”
Am I justified in feeling this way? I know that this is a completely ridiculous thing to ask for help about but... I’m kind of at a loss of what to do. I don’t want to talk to him about it because it’s so embarrassing, and I don’t want him to think I’m an insecure, hypersensitive wuss.
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I know exactly how you feel. And it's totaly ok that you react this way because its not at all your fault.
It's a good thing he noticed that you quiet, because that just shows that he's a good boyfriend and really cares. And since he's offering to talk, talk to him. Because he wants to know and help you. I'm sure he'll make you feel like 1,000,000 bucks if you talk to him the right way about it.
Instead of coming out straight away about that comment he made, ask him something broader. Like : "Do you think I'm ugly?", but in an innocent way so that he understands that you've been feeling put down about the way you look.
I almost garuntee he will make you feel so much better after that and you won't even need to bring up his silly comment again. But if you're unsatisfied with how much feedback he give you, start throwing out whats been making you feel ugly. Add his comment in as one of them, but don't make it seem like a big deal, just evidence.
I'm sure after you talk to him about it, he will make you feel so good about yourself, after all he is your boyfriend. and you should be comfortable enough around each other to tell each other anything.
Good luck! Feel Better!
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So, a few times a year my boyfriend goes paintballing with a bunch of friends, but i've always been too scared to go. I guess I'm not a big risk taker. But I really want to prove to him (and myself, more importantly) that I'm not such a wuss. I just see some of the welts he comes back with and they look painful. The reason I'm afraid is because I don't want to get hurt when I get shot at. He says it stings a bit for a few seconds and then you're fine. I would like any advice I could get on the subject to make me feel more confident going into it. Thanks! (link)
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Take advantage of that fact that he's your boyfriend. Let him know that you'r concerned of getting hurt, but want to go play with them and have a good time. I'm sure that'll he will suggest some-type of teamwork between you two. I mean, if he really cares about you he will definatly take a paintball to the chest for you :) so if you talk to him about it, I'm sure he'll make sure you stay unharmmed.
And besides, how many guys actually feel comfortable shooting and hurting girls, even if it is for fun? My guess is that the girls who play probably barley even get hit. So I'd say give it a try, and maybe even turn your BF into a sheild ;)
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ok well my boyfriend and I have been going out for a while now but i'm scared to kiss him. I have nooooo idea what to do and I'm really scared of stuffing up. He understands I'm not readdy yet but I don't want to tell him the reall reason y. I really want to kiss him but I don't know what to do?!?? (link)
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Thats alright, its natural to be nervous. But its also natural to kiss - it really does come naturally.
If he leans in to kiss you, just go for it. Lean back into his lips, DONT pucker your lips, and softly touch his. Usually guys like to take the reins from there, and basically just follow his lead.
If he moves his lips one way, you'll probably automatically move yours the opposite way withouth even noticing.
Once you get through the first few kisses your all set with any others you go through. Plus itll boost your confidence way up there.
Good luck!
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I am not anorexic. I eat whenever I'm hungry and I eat until I feel full. I even eat snacks in between meals. I think my parents mostly have issues with my portion sizes and my choice to eat tofu meals. I eat small portions because eating too much makes me feel uncomfortable.
I want to be vegan when I move out (I've done my research) so I've been trying to cook my own meals with tofu lately. My parents make me eat fish and chicken whenever they make it because for some reason they have this idea that I can't possibly survive on a vegan diet. But I'm fine with that; I'll just wait until I graduate.
But my mom constantly, constantly, CONSTANTLY reminds me to eat. Actually it's more of a nagging voice. I'm really defensive about it too, which is why I called her out on it this morning. Needless to say she accused me of anorexia.
I don't know how to convince these people that I'm not anorexic. My mother's entire family is on the larger side (but she takes care of her figure) but my father and brother are super thin. I also have tiny little breasts and wear a tube bra because padded bras feel fake and I obviously don't need the support. Ever since I started wearing this tube bra it seems like my breasts look smaller which only heightens my "anorexic" appearance. I've actually gotten comments and stares from my relatives. Meh, it's not my fault my breasts won't grow and quite frankly I like them this way. It seems like everyone else is way more concerned about my breast size than I am.
PS: I'm 5'4, 110-115 lbs, and my bra size is 34A-quite different than my mom's size D.
Any advice?
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Dont blame your parents for being concerned, they are just worried that you arn't eating enough in general.
Yes, you can say that you are full and only eat when your hungry, but usually only eating until your full isnt enough. It doesnt give you enough protein or energy for your body to run on.
This is one reason that your breasts are small. Your body probably doesnt have enough fat to grow larger breasts, thus giving you an anorexic apperance. But good for you, for not being picky about breast size and wearing push up bra's like the rest of the world.
As for being a vegan, thats fine. Its your choice, and you obviously make those choices due to your personal preferance. Make sure you let your parents know that its your body and you get to choose what types of food to put into it.
You are a normal weight for your age, so there really is no reason for your mother to nag you about eating habits.
But maybe, to satisfy your parents a little bit, eat things that give your body the nutritions it needs to grow and stay stable in health. Thats the part that is worrying your parents now. They think your not allowing yourself to be open to vitamins(because i know tofu doesnt have much to it...)
So I'd talk to your parents about your healthy weight, reason for wanting to be vegan, ad reason for having small breasts. They are just worried because they dont know whats going on, but once you tell them, they will eventually come around.
good luck!
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Eighteen. Female.
So it was my first time being fingered a few weeks ago, it was amazing haha.
But I didn't really know what to do. We were making out while doing it and then I was on top of him and he was still doing it and he was breathing really heavily, I was thinking this was normal ..thinking he was turned on. Am I wrong? But I didn't know what I was really suppose to do. When we weren't making out, and he was on top of me I would like rub my hands through his hair. He asked if it felt good ..I said yes.
I feel like he was doing everything to me though and I felt kinda bad about it. He was kissing me all over: the neck ..the stomach. He took my bra off and then licked/kissed me all the way down from my neck to my inner thigh. It was just too dang good ;) but what can I do in return with him? Besides the obvious ..handjob/blowjob.
I didn't just want to do the same thing he did to me, the kissing and stuff. Is there anything I could do next time that would make him feel as good as he made me feel?? :) It'd be nice to surprise him, without having to ask what he likes.
SO any suggestions on what you guys like, or girls..anything you can share that you know your boyfriend likes!! Thanks! (link)
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Well, theres always the obvious, Handjob and blowjob. You could try being ontop of him and grinding down onto his dick, i know boys love that. also, when hes ontop of you, wrap your legs around him, pulling his waist closer to yours.
Its tough, not very much you can do to a guy. I feel selfish alot, because guys have it so easy,theres so much more to do for girls!anyways hope i helped a little
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Well im 13F and im going into the eigth grade in 2 weeks exactly. And well theres this boy Jeff-14 and ive been in love with him for almost 3 years now adn we are not dating but we were back in march and january and febuary and he used to live in the trailer park my Mom lived in and well he lovesss my little sisters that are 2 and 4 and i was the one who showed them to him and then he started to date my cousin brttany (this was in 6th grade) and so i got a little jealous about it and me and him babysat my sisters alot when my Mom would go to summerville and when we would hand eachother the littlest baby Alyssa we would always get really close together and sometime touch eachother. He went with us trick-or-treating one year and when we got home he threw a highlighter at me and so i threw it back and then we chased eachother around and then we got in trouble for it (lol) and had to look for my Moms highlighter and we always hung out then one day in 7th grade my Mom was going to pick me up from school and instead of riding the bus he walked to the trailer park (wasnt too far) and well he was on the road when me and my Mom passed him and so we picked him up and he had to sqeeze in the back seat with me (my sis was in the front) and well he touched my leg with his hand then got really stiff and cleared his throat then started conversation. And then my friend Jenni tolded me to ask him out. I had never been so scared in my life! ive never been like that with a boy. and so i put a note in his locker and he said yes. Well he would always put his arms around me and call me baby and grab my butt and stuff like that. Then one day 3 months later he broke up with me and i was devastated. I cried for days. Ive been fighting for him back since march and well i think hes falling back in love with me. Me adn him got the same team this year for school so im really nervous. Is there anything i can do to chill and relax and shwo him i still love him without being a tramp. Like getting him to notice me and want to go out with me? Thanks and i really love this websites advice it really helps me.Thanks! (link)
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Play it cool. Don't let him worry you so much. If you try to hard it'll look desperate to him, and then he will just walk away.
Make him talk to you first for awhile. Give him a hint that your getting bored trying to catch him because he isn't trying much back. It will drive him crazy that the attention your giving him is lower, and you will be on his mind all the time because of it.
Over time he will realize how much he likes you, and work hard for you. Once he does this then go back to the way you used to be, that is, once hes back where you want him to be.
Never ever ask him out again with a note. Consult everything to his face, and just relax. Guys like confident girls.What you need to do is realize you and him aare equal, and theres no need for you to not be relaxed, especially with him since he knows you well.
Well, i hope i helped!
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I want to work out and become healthy and everything, but I just am not motivated. I also have no access to a gym or personal trainor. Any suggestions? (link)
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Well, you say you WANT to work out and be healthy. But if you dont have any motivaion then you must not WANT it as much as you think.
I'd look in the mirror, look at my body, and find what i want to change. That might get you to motivate yourself by finding unhappy flaws and wanting to fix them.
Any way would be to look up healthy foods and what they do for your body. Youd be amazed at how much one food can impact your body in ways like cleaning up skin, brightening eyes, whitens teeth, restores fingure nail cuticles, and so much more!
So before you workout and become healthy, do a little research and know what your aiming for. Step on a scale, look at your weight, and either aim to loose one pound or ten by a certain time period.
The hardest part is just starting. Getting yourself out there and working. So push yourself to do that. Once youve started the whole process will flow, and then you'll forget about the whole 'motivation' issue, because you'll already be in the routine.
Hope i helped!
goodluckk
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im going into 8th grade and i want to make a good impression..like cute but appropriate...and im a tomboy that likes to look good :D...umm does anyone know what would look good on me?? i have longish dark brown hair medium skin tone i guess and dark brown eyes....help?? (link)
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Definatly go for a high waisted skirt, the flowy kind though, not skin tight. Any shade or print is fine.
Here is one example...
http://www.victoriassecret.com/ss/Satellite?ProductID=1265273372122&c=Page&cid=1265275337490&collAssetType=LBIProductSet&pagename=vsdWrapper
This outfit is adorable. And casual, yet dressy. Make sure that the you match a tight tank top or shirt to put underneath the skirt. Finish off the look with some ballet flats.
Here are some more high waisted skirts, aybe you'll like one of them:
http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_QsEboZXWNNY/S8IUH17YQ0I/AAAAAAAABgs/zJQxmF3dWHY/s400/high+waisted+skirt.jpg
http://www.abercrombie.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10051_10901_675022_-1_13058_12203
http://www.forever21.com/category.asp?catalog_name=FOREVER21&category_name=whatsnew_app_bottoms&Page=1
Hope you Look good!
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i am friends with some of his friends that are girls he was helping one with the wireing in her house i satyed there for about 2 hours than i left came back over to her house knocked on the door when she opened it slow music was playing. it was just them alone i didnt say anything until i seen they way he was looking at her he was like pretty much spaced out stareing at her i just dont know what to do (link)
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Then you have right to put your foot down. Do you think he looks at you the same way? Because if he doesnt, then theres the problem.
He should understand if you get mad at him for cheating, because no youve seen plenty of signs. And if you confront him, he wil have to admit to them. If he doesnt, then hes a liar and probably has been denying cheating too. If he opens up and admits the slow music was a bit overboard, then your getting somewhere.
But really, does he look at you the same way? Cause if he doesnt, that means hes fallen for that other girl more.
If you want, before consulting him, ask the girl about her relationship with him. Maybe she will admit something to you.
It tough to tell when people lie, i know. But for now I would just say, trust what people are telling you. Make sure they know your relationship is good and has trust. Then just hang out with them more, and don't leave until he has. Dont give him the chance to be with her alone again.
If you want, try to get him to go with you on a road trip, or vacation. Anything that can rebuild what you think has weakened.
If has cheated, and still loves you, he'll regret cheating. And then won't do it again.
If he is cheating and doesnt regret it, i'd say get rid of him. Or atleast try, because breaking up definatly isnt easy!
Goodluck!
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i don't know why he won't let me tell. he let me tell my best friend but now he wants to break up with me cause he afraid it will get out that were dating!!! (link)
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Honey, theres only two reasons why he wouldnt want people to know.
ONE= hes embarrassed. embarrassed that he let a girl get him, or that he didnt get Miss popular. I know its harsh, but remember, there are other possibilities...
TWO= he doesnt want other girls to stop paying attention to him. Maybe he has alot of girlfriends, or hes just a flirt. Either way, he doesnt want ladies to leave all because he found someone he actually likes more than them.
If people can't know about your relationship, then is isnt so much of a relationship. Its more of a hookup/ friends with benefits thing. And no girl should be forced to hide something they are proud of.
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i don't know if I'm not ready for relationship but i tend to like so many guys at once but if one of them start liking me I ose interest just like that, and i always think about guys I'm gonna be missing out so I've been single for a while. Also, I think that if I go out with someone, I won't be able to flirt with other guys anymore and focus on one guy,but sometimes I wish I had someone but only for temporary, Why do I feel this way? I dont get myself. It seems like all i do is flirt and lead guys on and run away and comes back to them again. I know im horrible for doing this, but i dont know why i do that. (link)
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I know exactly how you feel. Word for word.
How i satisfy myself is by finding a hookup buddy. A guy who isnt looking for a relationship, but does like who i am and is friends with me and will be, as people call it, friends with benefits.
Its only natural to want what we cant have. But eventually, we need to find something we want, and settle with it once we've got it.
The reason you've been loosing interest is probably because you just havnt found the right guys yet. The guy you are looking for is someone you wont loose interest in once youve got him.
This will probably be best if he comes to you first. And once you start liking the attention he gives you, you won't need to be constanly looking for better. Just go with that.
Hope it works out :)
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me and the guy i like are playing truth questions and we have been playing for like a week straight so i have run out. what are some good questions? none immature, we play the dirty version (link)
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I'm just gunna shoot:
Top or bottom? Whats your favorite position? Would you want a hicky on your dick? How long does it take you to cum? How long is you penis? How do you like you bjs done? Would you ever hook up with me if i blindfolded you? Do you like butts or boobs better? What do you wish you could do to me right now? What do girls do to you that you like best?
Just some suggestions haha
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i hate seeing these types of questions on here but i really want to know.
i'm 18/f and i know it's normal to have some of that like.... stuff in your underwear lol. but how much is normal? i feel like i have too much like it's always wet or something. and i can sort of smell it at times :/ does this happen to everyone? idk (link)
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Yess, this happens to me too :) so dont worry, your not alone.
I kinda figured out that it means i get turned on alot, and that im just wet because of it. I figured out that the more i forget about it, and the more relax i am, the less it happens. Not to mention, the longer its been since i menstraited and since I've done anything sexually with a boy, the discharge lessen until its eventually gone.
That is until that stuff strts back up again.
Hope youre glad to know that your not alone!
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Basically I feel like my boyfriend is becoming bored with our relationship. I know he won't leave me or cheat, but I feel bad because I want him to be happy and have a good time around me when I see him. Any ideas on things to do that will help give our relationship a boost? weird, random, crazy ideas are welcome as well as normal ones :)
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I'm just gunna list a bunch of random ideas :)
-start telling him everything, even the randomest things -flirt(never be comfortable with how much he loves you, make him want you more), -give him a strip tease, -write him a poem, -read it to him, -go to the beach and take a super long walk, -always hold his hands, -kiss him less, talk more, -tickle him, -be more sarcastice so he laughs and smiles more(and you guys can make more jokes together), -go to a theme park, just the two of you, -hang out less(so each minute becomes more valuable), -take him shopping with you, -take him shopping(for him hah!), -read a book and tell him all about it, -go to the park and picnic, -run a marathon together, -go on a road trip together, -invite him over to make smoothies..then turn it into a food fight
anything, try anything new haha
hope i helped!
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Okay I'm 17, I've never had a boyfriend, I don't party that much, i get really good grades, my GPA is a 3.8, I rarely ever get in trouble with my parents, I've never really done anything wild and crazy...i do hang out with my friends usually on weekends.... Ive never had sex with my boyfriend.
I don't know I just feel like I'm extremely...boring. I want to party, have fun, and stuff like that. I feel like other people see me as boring and I feel boring. I don't wanna do drugs, have sex and fail in school, most people at school do that but I don't want people to see me as a boring goody two shoes. I just feel like I'm going to have an extremely boring life, I'm scared it will be the same way when I go to college.Some people tell me I should get with the program or be like them. Some people don't talk to me because Idon'tt act like them and they might think Im a loser. If I get mad and curse at someone no one believes it, but I only do it when I get really mad. How can I get people not to see me as boring?
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You really dont need to change at all. To me you dont sound boring. To me, you sound like someone with an extremely bright future. I see someone like you getting into a great college because they didnt waist their time on trashy people in high school.
Sometimes i feel like im boring too. Like...what sets me apart from everyone else? What makes me different?
Well, to answer your question:
How do i stop being a goodie two shoes?
Take off those goodie two shoes and put on some new ones. I'm talking give your self some new confidence. You sound like you have a great life. You have a boyfriend, perfect grades, and friends. What you want is that spark that draws other people to you. So I just think you need confidence.
You can try anything new. A new bolder haircut. Louder and unique wardrobe, will to speak your mind and talk to anyone. The more people your friends with, the more confidence you get. Walk around like your gunna hit up a party later, make sure everyone notices. Be happy, try to make other people happy. Hell maybe even have sex with you boyfriend, or dont(i dont think its nessisary that you do, i recomend not). Try ANYTHING.
step outside your comfort zone, but keep the life you have, because its not boring. its perfect. You just want to have more fun, so go out and do it. Bring people to concerts. Invite random friends in school to go eat with you at panera bread after school. mingle. get satisfied with your social life.
Goodluck :)
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Im a 19 year old female and im with a 26 year old man.I just got out of a real bad relationship not to long a go now i have this new man thats 26 hes experienced alot more than i have. my problem is that we fight all the time but its mainly me i have trust issues and jealousy problems and i cant stand to see him with another girl. i know that the girls he hangs out with are his friends but i still get mad a i start accuseing him of cheating on me and we get in to a big fight.does anybody out there know how i can control my jealousy and trust issues and especially my anger towards him when i accuse him of doing thing that he says that not doing and he probably isnt (link)
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Just relax. Remember hes with you, not them. If they are his friends then so be it, sometimes thats just how the dice rolls.
The reason your probably jealous is because your uncomfortable having him with other girls. And you try to protect yourself from getting hurt by making it seem like he did something wrong.
You should try to hang out with him and his friends. GGet a feel of how they all act together. Maybe even become friends with them. That will blow some steam off you head.
Next time you start to think of accusing him, just tell yourself that hes trustworthy. Say it 100 times in your head if you have to. And if you are about to accuse him out loud, bite your tongue.
But really try to hang with with him and his friends. I bet you'll feel alot better!
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Okay well I am a seventeen year old female. Recently I moved back to my hometown and started hanging out with this guy I've liked since sixth grade. I found out that he was really diggin me to. Well I've been here two weeks and I've seen him just about every day. Last night I went over to his house and stayed. We had our first kiss and all that junk and cuddled and stuff. One thing lead to another and we ended up having sex. One thing you need to know about this guy is he is actually one of the good ones. I've never seen him cheat or disrespect any women.I really like this guy but I feel that maybe that happened a lil to soon, and we not together that I kno of. I've only slept with one other person besides him so I'm worried about coming across as a whore. I don't wanna ruin my chances with this guy. I mean after words he didn't act as if I did anything wrong we jus cuddled and talked and he told me that he had been waiting a long time for this. Meaning me and him. This morning when he took me home he gave me a kiss good bye and said see ya later. Do you think I messed up my chances my doing that to soon? (link)
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Not at all, you didnt mess up anything. If anything, you probably got him more interested.
What i would advise next time is that you dont have sex...make it more valuable in your relationship and make sure thats not all hes looking for.
If he really is the good guy you say, he will completly understand that you want more in the relationship than just sex, i mean, you guys did talk alot and cuddle alot. So as far as i can see, hes a keeper.
So no worries, you have him right where you want him :)
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Uhmmm. Okay. So my boyfriend used to date this girl. Then they broke up and he started dating me. Well WE broke up and now he's kind of sort of going back to her? But whatever, I don't really care, I think theyre good for eachother. She cheated on him, he cheated on me, they deserve eachother. Anyway. She's never really done anything to me... She goes to a rival school and my basketball team has always just kind of hated her. Cause she's a really really bad sport. But now hse wants to hang out with me and my friend... cause she was "getting bad vibes" anddd now I guess we're hanging out. I don't know what to do! I dont' know if she hates me or not and it's all really awkward right now... I don't know, I don'tknow her that well but I don't really like her all that much. She's kind of a ho... haha I'm being serious. I don't know if I really wanna be freinds with her just cause we come from such different worlds and ughhh I know my ex is gonna try to get involved and like push us to be friends but I don't know what to do!!! (link)
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Well, if you both go to different schools, then you must live in different towns. So itd be easy for you to avoid hanging out with her, therefore you dont HAVE to be friends with her, especially if you dont like her.
As long as your ex doesnt know then you won't have to explain the whole thing to him.
She shuldnt want to hang with you all cause shes getting "bad vibes", she should wanna hang with you because she wants to be friends. She is probably just trying to make sure you dont hate her for taking the guy back. Or so you dont get the idea that he went out with you to try and get over her but couldnt...
I'm not sure, i dont know the situation well. If i were you I'd stay away from her. But not in a mean way, make sure you both stay friends and are friendly with each other.
Better friends then enemies right? :)
Hope you figure it all out!
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20 ..female.
I'm beginning to be quite confused about most guys being turned on about a girl being a virgin.
In my mind, a guy would be turned off because you're not experienced. And everyone says, a guy would looove to take a virginity from a girl but I would see it the exact opposite. Wouldn't a guy be afraid to take a girls virginity because he would think the girl would then become attached, and maybe even annoying/obsessive? That is, if he's not you're boyfriend.
I don't know maybe I look at it wrong. But everytime I tell a guy i'm a virgin i'm always thinking they're like .. "this girl can't get any?" or she's not experienced ..definitely doesn't know what shes doing. And i'm a pretty girl, comfortable with my body so yes i've had so many opportunities to do it, just not going to. Just things like that and feeling like it ruins everything. But people tell me most of the time its a turn on for guys.
Can someone please help explain this to me!? (link)
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Its a turn on because guys like sex when the girl is "tighter". And that exactly what a virgin is. Not stretched out. So the turn on here is that the guy gets in hopes that if you do have sex, he will be in great pleasure.
Sometimes the boy gets confused as to why girls are virginas though. Only because they think of why the girl hasnt had sex. The first thing that goes through there mind is..."is this girl a prude? is she scared of action? Is she waiting for marriage?...so guys are a little timid to throw themselves out there after hearing that because they dont want to be turned down.
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i use to be friends with this girl who i went to school with. ever sicne school ended we havnt hung out not because were not friends but because we havnt seen each other and she has a serious boyfriend.
we are going on the same year long program next year and i hurd she is talkign sh*t about me.
she is really coniving and munipulative and im scared shell ruin my year.
she really wants to break away from her school friends and on the orrentation she already showed how shes going to act towards me on the program.
she really scares me and knocks down my confidence and as much as everyone will say dont let her ruin your year and theyll b other people im still worried for her.
im not going to speak to her because im not even soppose to know the sh*t she spoke about me,\.
wut do i do?
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don't change programs, because then your so called "friends" will only be more satisfied that your gone.
Shes no friend if shes talking shit, so you need to just shake her off your shoulder because you deserve better.
I know i know, its hard. You still care and have hope that maybe she will still treate u like a best friend and pay attention to you. But does she really deserve your time? Does she deserve your attention?
Maybe you should try confronting her, talking it out. I suggest doing that in front of a crowd too, in a large group of people. That way, if she tries to lie out of it then everyone will know shes a lier. And if she is just mean back to you, then everyone will realize shes just a bitch.
If she wants to break away from her school friends, then let her. Without school friends though she will have no one to sit with at lunch, no one to walk with in the halls, and no one at social events.
So if shes being a bad friend to you, and doesnt even put in effort to hang with you, then let her dig her own grave. Just remember not to let her pull u down into it too(which is what shes doing by lower your confidence).
Once her and her bf break up, she will have no one. And then what.....she'll come running back to you...? we will see...
Anyways, good luck! i really hope this works out for you, because i have friend problems really similar to this, and i know how difficult and stressful and loney it makes you feel :(
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