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did i just ruin my chance.
Okay well I am a seventeen year old female. Recently I moved back to my hometown and started hanging out with this guy I've liked since sixth grade. I found out that he was really diggin me to. Well I've been here two weeks and I've seen him just about every day. Last night I went over to his house and stayed. We had our first kiss and all that junk and cuddled and stuff. One thing lead to another and we ended up having sex. One thing you need to know about this guy is he is actually one of the good ones. I've never seen him cheat or disrespect any women.I really like this guy but I feel that maybe that happened a lil to soon, and we not together that I kno of. I've only slept with one other person besides him so I'm worried about coming across as a whore. I don't wanna ruin my chances with this guy. I mean after words he didn't act as if I did anything wrong we jus cuddled and talked and he told me that he had been waiting a long time for this. Meaning me and him. This morning when he took me home he gave me a kiss good bye and said see ya later. Do you think I messed up my chances my doing that to soon?
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Not at all, you didnt mess up anything. If anything, you probably got him more interested.
What i would advise next time is that you dont have sex...make it more valuable in your relationship and make sure thats not all hes looking for.
If he really is the good guy you say, he will completly understand that you want more in the relationship than just sex, i mean, you guys did talk alot and cuddle alot. So as far as i can see, hes a keeper.
So no worries, you have him right where you want him :)
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You probably didn't mess up your chances, but men have more respect for you in the long run when you wait. Just tell him the next time you are with him that you don't think you were ready for that, and that you would prefer that it didn't happen again until the right time. As for the rest, you just have to wait and see how he acts around you. Genuinely good guys do have their respect lowered for you when you sleep with them right away, but obviously he didn't have a problem doing it. Good Luck
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I don't think you messed up your chances, if he was happy about if afterwards, then i dont think you messed up you chances, if you are really worried about it, then talk to him and say, im sorry about the other night, i think things may have happened too fast, im not sure if you feel the same way, but i just want to make sure that things are ok between us, and that having sex didnt mess anything up, because you enjoy his company, and being around him, and you dont want to lose him.
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