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i need advice
i am friends with some of his friends that are girls he was helping one with the wireing in her house i satyed there for about 2 hours than i left came back over to her house knocked on the door when she opened it slow music was playing. it was just them alone i didnt say anything until i seen they way he was looking at her he was like pretty much spaced out stareing at her i just dont know what to do
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Then you have right to put your foot down. Do you think he looks at you the same way? Because if he doesnt, then theres the problem.
He should understand if you get mad at him for cheating, because no youve seen plenty of signs. And if you confront him, he wil have to admit to them. If he doesnt, then hes a liar and probably has been denying cheating too. If he opens up and admits the slow music was a bit overboard, then your getting somewhere.
But really, does he look at you the same way? Cause if he doesnt, that means hes fallen for that other girl more.
If you want, before consulting him, ask the girl about her relationship with him. Maybe she will admit something to you.
It tough to tell when people lie, i know. But for now I would just say, trust what people are telling you. Make sure they know your relationship is good and has trust. Then just hang out with them more, and don't leave until he has. Dont give him the chance to be with her alone again.
If you want, try to get him to go with you on a road trip, or vacation. Anything that can rebuild what you think has weakened.
If has cheated, and still loves you, he'll regret cheating. And then won't do it again.
If he is cheating and doesnt regret it, i'd say get rid of him. Or atleast try, because breaking up definatly isnt easy!
Goodluck!
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