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my friends suck
i use to be friends with this girl who i went to school with. ever sicne school ended we havnt hung out not because were not friends but because we havnt seen each other and she has a serious boyfriend.
we are going on the same year long program next year and i hurd she is talkign sh*t about me.
she is really coniving and munipulative and im scared shell ruin my year.
she really wants to break away from her school friends and on the orrentation she already showed how shes going to act towards me on the program.
she really scares me and knocks down my confidence and as much as everyone will say dont let her ruin your year and theyll b other people im still worried for her.
im not going to speak to her because im not even soppose to know the sh*t she spoke about me,\.
wut do i do?
is it weird ot change programs?
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I've had plenty of friend problems in my life, so I know how you feel. Unfortunately, if a friend has talked trash about you before, they probably will continue to do so. However, there will be plenty of other amazing people who you can meet and become friends with at your program. Be friendly to this girl, and no problems should result. If you don't really say anything to her, there's nothing she can blab about, right? Also, once you make other friends there, they will stick by your side if anything happens with your ex friend. Just don't stoop to her level and talk trash back, otherwise you're just as bad at her. Have fun, make friends, and don't let a dumb girl ruin your entire year.
Hope I helped,
xx D
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don't change programs, because then your so called "friends" will only be more satisfied that your gone.
Shes no friend if shes talking shit, so you need to just shake her off your shoulder because you deserve better.
I know i know, its hard. You still care and have hope that maybe she will still treate u like a best friend and pay attention to you. But does she really deserve your time? Does she deserve your attention?
Maybe you should try confronting her, talking it out. I suggest doing that in front of a crowd too, in a large group of people. That way, if she tries to lie out of it then everyone will know shes a lier. And if she is just mean back to you, then everyone will realize shes just a bitch.
If she wants to break away from her school friends, then let her. Without school friends though she will have no one to sit with at lunch, no one to walk with in the halls, and no one at social events.
So if shes being a bad friend to you, and doesnt even put in effort to hang with you, then let her dig her own grave. Just remember not to let her pull u down into it too(which is what shes doing by lower your confidence).
Once her and her bf break up, she will have no one. And then what.....she'll come running back to you...? we will see...
Anyways, good luck! i really hope this works out for you, because i have friend problems really similar to this, and i know how difficult and stressful and loney it makes you feel :(
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