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Am i not ready for a relationship?
i don't know if I'm not ready for relationship but i tend to like so many guys at once but if one of them start liking me I ose interest just like that, and i always think about guys I'm gonna be missing out so I've been single for a while. Also, I think that if I go out with someone, I won't be able to flirt with other guys anymore and focus on one guy,but sometimes I wish I had someone but only for temporary, Why do I feel this way? I dont get myself. It seems like all i do is flirt and lead guys on and run away and comes back to them again. I know im horrible for doing this, but i dont know why i do that.
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I know exactly how you feel. Word for word.
How i satisfy myself is by finding a hookup buddy. A guy who isnt looking for a relationship, but does like who i am and is friends with me and will be, as people call it, friends with benefits.
Its only natural to want what we cant have. But eventually, we need to find something we want, and settle with it once we've got it.
The reason you've been loosing interest is probably because you just havnt found the right guys yet. The guy you are looking for is someone you wont loose interest in once youve got him.
This will probably be best if he comes to you first. And once you start liking the attention he gives you, you won't need to be constanly looking for better. Just go with that.
Hope it works out :)
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don't rush into a relationship if you like more than one guy. because if you do, many will be crushed and not want to give you a chance in the future. if you enjoy flirting with several guys, then being single is the way to go for you.
but if not? then try to find someone that will not make you want to flirt with other guys because he treats you great and right.
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Sounds like you dont want anything too serious, which is just fine. But you also want to have closeness at times as well, which is where things get a little complicated. I think what youre wanting is an open relationship. Its like having a boyfriend without having to be tied down to one person. You can date other people and flirt all you want and still have someone to go back to when you want.
Problem is that you need to find someone who is cool with this idea.
Hope this helped :)
-bpta
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