Well im 13F and im going into the eigth grade in 2 weeks exactly. And well theres this boy Jeff-14 and ive been in love with him for almost 3 years now adn we are not dating but we were back in march and january and febuary and he used to live in the trailer park my Mom lived in and well he lovesss my little sisters that are 2 and 4 and i was the one who showed them to him and then he started to date my cousin brttany (this was in 6th grade) and so i got a little jealous about it and me and him babysat my sisters alot when my Mom would go to summerville and when we would hand eachother the littlest baby Alyssa we would always get really close together and sometime touch eachother. He went with us trick-or-treating one year and when we got home he threw a highlighter at me and so i threw it back and then we chased eachother around and then we got in trouble for it (lol) and had to look for my Moms highlighter and we always hung out then one day in 7th grade my Mom was going to pick me up from school and instead of riding the bus he walked to the trailer park (wasnt too far) and well he was on the road when me and my Mom passed him and so we picked him up and he had to sqeeze in the back seat with me (my sis was in the front) and well he touched my leg with his hand then got really stiff and cleared his throat then started conversation. And then my friend Jenni tolded me to ask him out. I had never been so scared in my life! ive never been like that with a boy. and so i put a note in his locker and he said yes. Well he would always put his arms around me and call me baby and grab my butt and stuff like that. Then one day 3 months later he broke up with me and i was devastated. I cried for days. Ive been fighting for him back since march and well i think hes falling back in love with me. Me adn him got the same team this year for school so im really nervous. Is there anything i can do to chill and relax and shwo him i still love him without being a tramp. Like getting him to notice me and want to go out with me? Thanks and i really love this websites advice it really helps me.Thanks!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? blondiebluesky answered Tuesday August 10 2010, 9:52 am: Play it cool. Don't let him worry you so much. If you try to hard it'll look desperate to him, and then he will just walk away.
Make him talk to you first for awhile. Give him a hint that your getting bored trying to catch him because he isn't trying much back. It will drive him crazy that the attention your giving him is lower, and you will be on his mind all the time because of it.
Over time he will realize how much he likes you, and work hard for you. Once he does this then go back to the way you used to be, that is, once hes back where you want him to be.
Never ever ask him out again with a note. Consult everything to his face, and just relax. Guys like confident girls.What you need to do is realize you and him aare equal, and theres no need for you to not be relaxed, especially with him since he knows you well.
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