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torn between two cheer teams!!


Question Posted Monday August 9 2010, 11:03 pm

ok so my name is Maeghan and im 14 years old. i started doing an all star team when i was 12. this fall i am going to be a freshmen and i tryed for the school team and made varsity. my problem is im not sure if i should continue with my all star team or not. i love the girls and it's sooo much fun but it is also alot of money (about $3,000 a year!)we are kinda tight on money but my mom said i could do it if i wanted.i really need help because im losing sleep over this and i need to make a decision soon. i dont want either team mad at me. what do you think i should do?thanks in advance!

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mattimaticus answered Tuesday August 10 2010, 5:27 pm:
Hi Maeghan. Well, congrats on making the varsity team! In my opinion, since you mentioned that money is pretty tight with your family, I think that the best thing to do is take a break from the all-star team. You'll still have them as friends but, most importantly, you'll also still be cheerleading with the varsity team which is great!

I realize you're only 14, but this kind of decision making is really important for your future. It's taking the consideration of others (your family) before yourself especially when it comes to money. If you didn't make varsity, that would be a different story but the fact is that you did.

My advice to you would be take a year off from all-star and tell your parents you'd like them to save the money instead. They will really appreciate this kind of maturity and it will make you feel good knowing you've contributed to your family in this awesome way.

Best of luck!

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