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I'm Kailyn and i Love Giving Advice to people and making them happy. I love playing softball, basketball, soccer, and volleyball. My favortite things to do in my spare time is hanging out with my friends, swimming, drawing, and go on the computer and talk to my friends. I love making new friends so I-M ME anytime :)

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hey my name is Maria and im 14 years old I made out with my ex-boyfriend i dont know how it happend, but it just did!! Now, when I see him in school ill say hey or sumthin.He never answers back. I feel sordof embarrest, but i still really like him.And he must like me right??? I mean he did make out with me!! So plz help!!!

Well obviously if u made put with him... he has to at least have some liking to u :)... wat i think you need to do...is talk to him...stop him in the halls and just talk to him

H0PE I HELPED

kailyn ♥

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how can u tell if a girl likes you. i had a gf but i asked her out so i really would not know how girls flirt. so will someone please help me.



i rate 5's

Well you can tell whens shes flirting when shes

1. smiling at you
2. laughs at things u say
3. stares at you
4. and when shes around u alot

Those are some things that girls do when they flirt

I SAY IF SHES DOING THAT ASK HER OUT!!

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Ok so here's the scoop.
i like (love) this boy alot.... were "so called friends" but we know we liove each other. the only problem is he wint believe ANYTHING i say

Awww hun...i think you needa tell him how you feel. You need to unleash ur feelings tell him you love him! Ask him if he feels the same...and if so ASK HIM OUT!!

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I have a best friend and he is so cute! weve always been -just- friends.Now, for some reason I kindof like him and I really would like him as more than just a friend.I dont know what to do because is I ask him out and he says yes.Then we will go out, but when we break up......will we stil be friends???? So what should i do?!?! ( I really like him).
signed,
?!?!

Dear ?!?!
I think you should ask him out :)..if you're such good friends now...im super sure you will still be friends after wards

Hope I Helped

Kailyn ♥

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I'm starting school monday and so far have NO friends in my class... i have a lot of enimies but No frends.... i hate every1... what shuld i do?

Well maybe you should get over the enemy thing and try making friends..if that fails maybe try meeting someone new

Hope i Helped and Good Luck!!

Kailyn ♥

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well, to start from the beginning.There was this guy and I guess he liked me so he asked me out.I said no.Then I saw him at school like once that summer was over when he lked me.Near the middle of the year after we talked a little bit and everything, he asked me out.I said yes that time.That really did not last long at all.But we agreed to just be frebds.Near the end of the year we became even better frends and in our profiles we would like say Bff to each other and stuff.So then he said that he would hang out with me at this place that we were both going to at the same time.He came later than me and I found some os my friends before that that I could hang out with before he showed up.It was alot of fun.Then he showed up and I decided to walk by him to see if he would say anything(because he was with his other ~cooler~ friends)and he say "hey" and I said hey back,but then like he started talking to his friends again.So I was stuck hanging out with the same people I was hanging out with since the beginning.So he was all not paying attention to me and walking around with his much ~cooler~ friends.When they all left, He came up to me and said hey and started hanging out with me.I felt kindof stupid because he hangs out with his cooler friends and once they leave im like just a replacement for him to hang out with.So, he was hanging out with me and stuff. Then I had to go and he went over and hung out with these other girls that seem much ~cooler~ than me too.So, what im saying is.....that he doesnt have time for me when hes around his other frends that are obviusly much cooler than me.Should I be at him even though I talked to him after that like I was fine?? Or what?? 0o0o0o and to top it all off,he also ONLY told me that he has a crush on my BFF! He did not tell his other friends.I even asked him, why cant you tell your other friends I mean you trust them too right I mean thats what friends are for.He said yea,but you know how they are,theyll tell the whole school.(I was about to ay what the heck is wrong with you because he needs to trust his friends if theyre true).I promised not to tell anyone about this crush.Which upset me because if he can diss his real friends for his friends that he cant even trust!! Thats just not right.So now im all stressed out on if I should be his friend or if I should like act like everything and is fine and have him diss me and all that stuff!!?!?!? So I really really need help on what I should do!!!! Can you help me?
Signed,
Should I be friends with him?

Dear Should I Be Friends With Him,
I think he thinks of you as someone he can turn to. He thinks that no matter what he does you will always be there. You need to pull him away from his other friends and talk to him. Tell him that you dont like how he rejects you but then suddenly starts telling you his secrets. Tell him your feelings. You need to get through to him that if he wants to be your friend he needs to pay more attention to you. And if he cant tell his ~*COOLER*~ friends who he likes than personally hes not really even there friends

Well,

Hope i Helped and Good Luck

Kailyn ♥

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this boy named austin ricci asked me out i said no, then hes like ok...... and im like ok ill be ur gf, then later i said well i dont like u we arent reeeeaally bf and gf, but i dont think he saw that i wrote that, and tehn he said i wont tell anyone we r bf and gf ok? and i never answered him,a dn he sigend off!!! wut should i do now?

Well you needa tell him next time you see or i-m him that FIRST OF ALL YOUR NOT HIS GF, you dont wanna be, and he got you all wrong. Tell him its all right to be friends but nothing more unless u like him..ok

Hope i Helped

Kailyn ♥

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I suspect my dad has bipolar disorder. Being around him, when he's going through his manic stages, is like being in a cult. He will tell people crazy things, apparantly from God. He told three different people that their child is not there's. He even told my brother that his uncle was his real father, yet my uncle denies it. My dad said he would not believe a paternity test. He tells me he knows the truth about all things and that one day he'll tell me. It's very scary sometimes.

I know he does drugs, because people have seen him do it. He will take speed while reading the bible, and go days without sleeping or eating. He smokes pot a lot because I can smell it. He's doing these drugs right in front of my mother, who has MS and is an involent. She can't speak or eat or move or even keep eye contact. My dad constantly takes care of her because he refuses to put her in a nursing home or let anyone else watch her. I think this is one of the reasons he's getting worse and worse. He's lost pretty much all contact with the outside world.

He will be fine one minute, then the next be completely irrational and snap at me and my 14 year old brother. My brother is becoming depressed because of how my dad treats him. He does not want to go to school or hang out with friends. All he wants to do is sleep or get out of the house. My dad sucked my brother into believing that if they prayed hard enough, it would cure my mother. I can only imagine how this made my brother feel when nothing happened.

I am worried about my dad, but I am also worried about my confused, messed up brother. My family constantly bad-mouths my dad, who bad-mouths them back. My brother feels like he has no one to turn to, and he doesn't know who to believe. I can tell my brother has been heavily brain-washed by my dad because when I try to talk some sense into him, he just spews out something my dad has said to him.

My dad thinks he's right about everything, and will not listen to anyone who tries to help him. Once he asked my cousin if the family is going to let him be crazy, so I think sometimes he does know that he has a problem. But he won't let anyone help him! I also think my brother needs to be moved to a better environment, but he isn't as strong as me as says he wouldn't leave dad.

I am 19 years old and searching for a full time job so I can get my own apartment. One of the reasons I did not go to college was because I didn't want to leave my brother with my dad. I don't know what I can do for my brother since he does not want to move, and I'm too afraid that if I take legal action or speak up, my mom will be moved to a nursing home. My dad treats mom so well, it's just himself and everyone else that he needs to work on! I know how bad nursing homes are because my mother was in one for a few years and some of her things got stolen and she would get sick a lot because they didn't understand how to take care of her like my dad does.

I'm so torn and confused, I feel like there's no answer that wouldn't leave us in shambles, but if you have any advice, I would appreciate it!

i am soo sorry! i have a friend who has bipolar disorder and she can get very nasty at times. My advice is to bring your dad to a docter and get him checked out. If his condition is serious im sure they will take care of that. Make sure he takes his medicine and is keeping it up. All i can say to keep your head up... Is try and make the best of things... Help him in his hour of need.. and love unconditionally!

Hope I Helped!

Kailyn ♥♥

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im SUCH a girly girl! so wut should i wear the first day of school (september 6th)? i know you dont know whats in my closet so i wont give u like a 3- if i dont have it!! but what are you wearing, what would be cute/in. im going to straighten my hair. and im pretty sure i want to wear a skirt. thanks

Where a nice shirt (black, or anyother nice color)
then a nice top like a pink one or blue one and maybe you could straighten you hair then put ir in pigtails or braids...cause since its straigtened the ends would look hottness and so would ur hair!

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Ok, so I like this kid.He is so0o0o hot.I am really nervous to ask him out though because I just am.I really feel like I need somebody who he is,but im also nervous that they would be like ewWwWwW you like him or sumthin like that yanno?Were pretty good frends too/I even laugh at all his really gay jokes and stuff!So what should I do?? Should I ask him out? Tell somebody Cause I really like this boy!
signed,
help

I say you should go for it... i was really scared to ask my ex-bf out but he said yea...that really suprised me...anyways...you never know..get your bff to go with you if your that, that scared. And if he says no than thats just to bad for him.. You just look for someone else

HOPE i HELPED :)

Kailyn ♥

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Ok, i really like this guy...but the problem is that
i cant really like him because he is sort of like family to me..hes my moms best friend's son..but i really REALLY like him...i dont know what to do...i think he likes me too but i cant be sure..do you think it would be ok to like him and maybe go out with him?

thanks so much..xoxo

Well i personally think its ok to go out with him...as long as he isn't FAMILY..ur moms prolly would be ok with it cause that would be cute to them...

I SAY GO FOR IT GIRL

Hope That Helped

Kailyn ♥

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see i really like this boy. I used to go out with him but he dumped me and i still really like him. Yesterday was the 1st day of school and i wanted it to be PERFECT but my friend goes and tells him i like him. Now he wont talk to me or anything..we used to be good friends until we went out though. I still wanna be friends with him but i dont want him to know i like him. please help!! i want him to be at LEAST friends with me if he wont go out with me. Thanx

signed - Lovin hiM

Its good to have a crush...just tell your friend you didn't like how she went and told without your permission... You can explain to ur ex about how your sorry that she confronted you and ask him if you can be friends.

Its as simple as that :)

.::Kailyn ::.

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y iz it that wen people say your fat or think your fat you automaticlly think you r?? well lets just say that this has happend 2 me and now my frend wut should i do??


Ur frend
Meg

Well first of all...u prolly are a little self concious.or however u spell it...and u just wanna look good...maybe your friend thinks so too...

Hope I HElPED

.:: KAiLYN ::.

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Ok, yesterday, I was really stressing out. I had a ton of homework, I discovered one of my friends are a cutter, and I have like 3 major tests that I bombed. I spent an hour crying in the principles office.once i got home, I got really short on breath. My chest constricted. I got really nausious and i couldn't breath. i got really dizzy and i passed out. I have no clue what happened. Can anybody help me?? Is it serious?! does it like actually have a name, or is it just me short circiting.
ppplllzzz help.
i give 5s for reasonable answers!!

signed,
anxious and twitchy

I dont know the name exactly but i think i know what may be happening. You're building up stress and worry and its too much for you to handle right now. You may feel sick to your stomach because you failed those tests or because your friend cuts. Its ok to cry dont worry about that. And may be you passing out was because your emotions and body cant take it. I have a friend who got sooo angry he fainted...so may be ask your school nurse...or look it up on the internet...or just simply talk to your parents.

HOPE I HELPED!

..:: Kailyn ::..

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my boyfriends birthday is coming up sooon and i dont know what to get him iased him what he wanted and his response was me all he wants is me, but i wont feel right if i dont get him anything does anyone have ideas on what i should get him? i cant think of anything creative please help
15/f

Yea...first find out what hes really into...or just get him a box of chocolates, some XOXO (hugs or kisses)(optional) and a card!



Hope I Helped

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I have thick hair, and I dont liek it down cuz its ugly and too curly!!! IS there any other styles with my hair up somehow, but not including hte style ponytails. I'd like the styles to be easy!! i need help!!!! Everyone says i have my hair up too much!!! so please help me!!!!!!

Well...if u say its to curly wat you could do is buy a strightner..i found one at walmart for $8 i think...but if u like it curly...u can do a really simple style...do a side part, like where you dont do a middle part you bring it to the side a little...i have a friend who has so so so curly hair...and what she does is take the front two pieces of her hair and pulls them back with bobby pins...i think its cute.


well hope it helps!

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I am 13 years old, and my five year old brother has just started kindgergarten. I am afraid there is something terribly wrong. In just a week and a half, he's gotten a dozen reports from his teacher saying he was being bad. my brother is not a bad kid, and the allegations are (in my opinion) completely bogus. Just yesterday, my family and I recieved a call that my brother had been fighting on the playgroung. So we went over, and found out that it was just a few hits--nothing serious, but his teacher got together with the assistant principal, and they want to suspend him for "fighting" Is this teacher stepping over the line? I had bad experiences with teachers when I was at this school, and I'm afraid that because we have the same last name (and darker skin tone), he is being discriminated against.

I think your teacher is being a little OVER protective. She needs to stop being so cautious.. your brother sounds like a good kid. i dont think its because of ur skin color. I just think shes just worried and every little thing she sees thats "bad" she wants to keep from happening again...

i have your back, those are to little things to try to SUSPEND him

Hope it helps!

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I straighten my hair, but I always still have these little hairs that stick up around the top of my head. But there's A LOT of them. Does any one know any hair products that could get rid of this?

Simply all u have to do is use a LITTLE gel, Hairspray it down (but dont go crazy with it),or just simply use water and lotion (this may sound weird/gross but i saw it in a program on t.v)


Hope it helps!

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alright i was dating this guy who is a grade ahead of me and when i was dating he was perfect the best boyfriend and i was actully happy with him. well one day i was at work ( i work at a community center) i told my best friend that i had cancer and he gave me a hug because i was crying about it well this chick told my boyfriend i was cheating on him and he flipped out on me.i had told him to shut up and listen to me and that i wasnt cheating on him and he dumps me thats his mistake well he broke up with me and called me the next day and told me he was sorry and he loved me i wouldnt date him again and last night he called me and told me he loved me and cant stop thinking about me and everytime he sees me he likes me more and everytime he talks to me he does well im dating him again but my parents dont like him because he broke up with me for stupied reasons and stuff. and my boss hates him and they tell me i cant date him they dont no that i am yet What Should I Do.. SORRY SOO LONG

well if your boyfriend broke up with you because he heard a rumor that you are cheating on him..i think that its ur choice but if he cant trust you than that can be a real complication.
you may love him and it probably feels hard to let him go... but you have to make ur decision and find out whether your gonna give it another shot... or go find another fish in the sea... there is alot of um

hope i helped and good luck

p.s- i am sooo sorry about you finding out you have cancer. that must be terible..i no theres not a cure yet..but i hope real soon they will find one just for you :)

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i have really thick hair, and i can never put it down, its always in a ponytail or braids, and i never really have the time to straigten my hair , and im sporty anways, so i dont straighten my hair unless i go to a salon. and i dont wear make up either. any tips for different hairstyles for thick hair? or if you have thick hair too, any suggestions? thank you!

What you could do is go to a salon and get it thinned out....but if u dont wanna do that...heres some styles that my friends with REALLY thick hair do: one of my friends just puts half of her hair up, like the front, in wat people call a half pony tail..i have another friend who takes her hair and puts it in a ponytail then puts it in a bun..or sometimes she braids it then puts it in a bun

Hope That Helps!

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