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friendship
well, to start from the beginning.There was this guy and I guess he liked me so he asked me out.I said no.Then I saw him at school like once that summer was over when he lked me.Near the middle of the year after we talked a little bit and everything, he asked me out.I said yes that time.That really did not last long at all.But we agreed to just be frebds.Near the end of the year we became even better frends and in our profiles we would like say Bff to each other and stuff.So then he said that he would hang out with me at this place that we were both going to at the same time.He came later than me and I found some os my friends before that that I could hang out with before he showed up.It was alot of fun.Then he showed up and I decided to walk by him to see if he would say anything(because he was with his other ~cooler~ friends)and he say "hey" and I said hey back,but then like he started talking to his friends again.So I was stuck hanging out with the same people I was hanging out with since the beginning.So he was all not paying attention to me and walking around with his much ~cooler~ friends.When they all left, He came up to me and said hey and started hanging out with me.I felt kindof stupid because he hangs out with his cooler friends and once they leave im like just a replacement for him to hang out with.So, he was hanging out with me and stuff. Then I had to go and he went over and hung out with these other girls that seem much ~cooler~ than me too.So, what im saying is.....that he doesnt have time for me when hes around his other frends that are obviusly much cooler than me.Should I be at him even though I talked to him after that like I was fine?? Or what?? 0o0o0o and to top it all off,he also ONLY told me that he has a crush on my BFF! He did not tell his other friends.I even asked him, why cant you tell your other friends I mean you trust them too right I mean thats what friends are for.He said yea,but you know how they are,theyll tell the whole school.(I was about to ay what the heck is wrong with you because he needs to trust his friends if theyre true).I promised not to tell anyone about this crush.Which upset me because if he can diss his real friends for his friends that he cant even trust!! Thats just not right.So now im all stressed out on if I should be his friend or if I should like act like everything and is fine and have him diss me and all that stuff!!?!?!? So I really really need help on what I should do!!!! Can you help me?
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Should I be friends with him?
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Dear Should I Be Friends With Him,
I think he thinks of you as someone he can turn to. He thinks that no matter what he does you will always be there. You need to pull him away from his other friends and talk to him. Tell him that you dont like how he rejects you but then suddenly starts telling you his secrets. Tell him your feelings. You need to get through to him that if he wants to be your friend he needs to pay more attention to you. And if he cant tell his ~*COOLER*~ friends who he likes than personally hes not really even there friends
Well,
Hope i Helped and Good Luck
Kailyn ♥
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