okkkk im a freshman (high school) and theres this guy whos a junior (in high school)..ive hung out wit him before and talk to him a lot online..but now all of a sudden my parents are like "you cant talk to him, you cant see him...etc" ughh i REALLY like him..and my parents dont no him like i do..and they dont want to no him and said they wudnt want to meet him..!! AHHH so ive been sneakin around..just to see him and its getting harder and frustrating!!! oh my god i really like him and we want to be gf/bf..but i dont no cuz im not suppose to see him!!! AHH
HELLPPP!!!!!!! PLLLLZZZ!!!!
ps...homecoming is coming up and he wants to take me but my moms like no you cant go wit him..but its either i go wit him or i meet him there! but they wont listen! ahhh HELP!
Additional info, added Saturday September 3 2005, 12:28 am: by the wayyy...my rents dont think i shud be dating till im 16..there strict on that..and so far the only reason they dont like him is cuz hes older. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? mooch789 answered Saturday September 3 2005, 2:18 pm: Sit down and try talking to them reasonably and try and find an explination. Or just take him home one day and force it on them that you like him and you want to go to homecoming together. Good luck! Hope I helped! [ mooch789's advice column | Ask mooch789 A Question ]
FireFairy141 answered Saturday September 3 2005, 10:34 am: *sigh* Sorry to tell you this, but alot of parents are like that. Maybe you could make a surprise meeting. Come home with him one day when your parents are home and just pretty much force them to talk. You may never know, he could make a really good impression.
xXxithoughtwehadsomething answered Friday September 2 2005, 11:59 pm: all i can say is sit down and try talking to them reasonably. And that might not always work. So set up a time when he can come over and make sure your parents are home. Then have them sit on the couch or wherever and get them to know him. Tell them how you two feel for each other. And then bring up homecoming and say either way.. i'm going with him. <--- well dont say that it might get you into trouble--> but try and make them see that hes the person you see him as. And that you really like him and want to be his gf. Just reason with them. Make a deal with them. like.. mom & dad.. you know mike(say thats his name) and we want to hang out. We'll hang out around the house or wherever so you know where we are. but thats your part of the deal. mine is.. I want to beable to see him without you guys around. You can still be in the house and check up on us..(not MUCH) but then just leave and let us talk or whatever. Just try making deals and reasoning with them. It might work. I hope i helped.. good luck ;) [ xXxithoughtwehadsomething's advice column | Ask xXxithoughtwehadsomething A Question ]
HowYouDooin answered Friday September 2 2005, 11:55 pm: well there should be a reason or somehting for them not to like him, why dont you just ask them what they got agains him and try to sort out their facts.
explain to your parents that there arent any intimate things going on (unless there are) so they wouldnt wory.
but thats just my opion and might not work for you.
hope i helped :)
oo ya. the same happened to me and my gf lol
her parents didnt even wona see me couze i look like im way older then i really am. She arrenged an interview with me and the parents to see what was wrong. Aperantly they thought that i was smokin weed (which i dont) and they didnt want me hangin with their doughter, now that everything is straightened out and they know me they kool with me. [ HowYouDooin's advice column | Ask HowYouDooin A Question ]
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