I'm 15 and a sophmor. I give good advice and like others i can use advice too. I love to read and write poems. my poems are normally deep. I think constantly and sometimes it isnt a good thing lol. But other wise i'm just a normal 15 year old teenager.
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So I like a freshman and I'm a sophomore, and I'm a girl. He has a girlfriend [also a freshman] and I'm not too disappointed but I was considering hooking up with him if at all possible, I'm not sure if he's interested, right now I basically just have a small crush on him and we have a class together, that's it. What should I do? (link)
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ok i'm like in your shoes right now.. except my crush doesnt have a gf. I think maybe you should just try hanging out with him more.. do some things he likes to do. Thats what I'm doing right now... and see if he'll do something you'd like to do once in awhile.
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is it okay for a 14 year old girl to go out with a 17 year old guy? (link)
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i would say not.. but be careful.. almost every guy around that age just want sex. and if you do and someone finds out you two are basically screwed because once he's 18 he can be charged for rape because you arent legall. Hope i helped
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Theres this guy that i like alot and i think i love him, and he is 19, im 15 and i dont understand wut is wrong wit the age if my mother says its alright, and he asked her if he could ask me out and she said yes but than he never asked me out, and last night i went 2 the roller rink and he wuz all ova this otha girl and makin out wit her, my friend went up 2 him and asked him wut wuz wrong wit him, he said he had a problem wit the age diffrence between us, than y would he let it get that serious i mean me were practually like goin out but he just never asked me, he would come pick me up every night, he would give me a kiss good-bye and everything. Please some1 help me
Tell me wut 2 do
Tell me wut went wrong.
PLEASE I NEED SOMEONES HELP.. (link)
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wow umm ok.. all i can say is that maybe he thought that the age was wrong. dont get me wrong or anything but maybe some guys change their mind because they met someone his age. And if he was leading you on... that wasnt fair to you. Maybe he was just nervous about asking you out.. did you ever think that maybe you could ask him out? I cant really tell you what to do but to except what had happened. Its hard to but you basically have to. Especially if hes with her now. I guess this isnt the advice you were looking for but i hope i helped a little with your problem.
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Hi I am a 17 year old boy and my girlfriend wants to have unprotected sex
with me, but i'm not sure i want to have unprotected sex.
We have had protected sex before. Please Help me?. (link)
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if i were i wouldnt do it. unless you're ready for the conceqeunces.
like:
having a child
getting a disease
basically hurting the one you love
maybe you guys should just cool is down and talk try not to talk about unprotected sex. Say that you dont think its the right time(unless you think it is) and you want to wait. Just remember the concegeunces
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i have serious problems saying no to people. i dont know whats wrong with me.. please no smart comments.. its harder than it sounds
i practice saying no and stuff but when it comes to the time i just.. cant
i think its because ive had some bad history with my boyfriends hitting me when i wouldnt let them so as far as they would like
any adive ? (link)
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saying no can be hard.. i know. but you cant do things you dont want to do and they shouldnt be able to make you. If they try anything sexual with you you should say no if thats what you feel. Other wise that can lead to some serious things. Like Rape. And if you're bf hits you its time to dump him. you dont need him. And I think you should talk to your parents/friend/councelor or someone you trust about this because it isnt far if you cant stop it. I hope i helped you alot.
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hi,this is amber, um this is about hayley again..see um, she has a friend named deborah and they've been friends since like kindergarden, and well one day she told hayley: " im not your bff, amber is. you can change this or you can never talk to me again".. thats what she told her, and so i think that affected our friendship in some kind of way, i dont know (link)
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well if hayley was your friend then she wouldnt pick you over her or her over you. What Deborah doesnt know.. is that you can have more than one bff. And it seems like deborah is just jealous because maybe she just wants Hayley to herself. Try talking to Deborah about this.. or even hayley.. let them know ... hayley can have more than one bff.
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okkkk im a freshman (high school) and theres this guy whos a junior (in high school)..ive hung out wit him before and talk to him a lot online..but now all of a sudden my parents are like "you cant talk to him, you cant see him...etc" ughh i REALLY like him..and my parents dont no him like i do..and they dont want to no him and said they wudnt want to meet him..!! AHHH so ive been sneakin around..just to see him and its getting harder and frustrating!!! oh my god i really like him and we want to be gf/bf..but i dont no cuz im not suppose to see him!!! AHH
HELLPPP!!!!!!! PLLLLZZZ!!!!
ps...homecoming is coming up and he wants to take me but my moms like no you cant go wit him..but its either i go wit him or i meet him there! but they wont listen! ahhh HELP!
I RATE HIGH!
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all i can say is sit down and try talking to them reasonably. And that might not always work. So set up a time when he can come over and make sure your parents are home. Then have them sit on the couch or wherever and get them to know him. Tell them how you two feel for each other. And then bring up homecoming and say either way.. i'm going with him. but try and make them see that hes the person you see him as. And that you really like him and want to be his gf. Just reason with them. Make a deal with them. like.. mom & dad.. you know mike(say thats his name) and we want to hang out. We'll hang out around the house or wherever so you know where we are. but thats your part of the deal. mine is.. I want to beable to see him without you guys around. You can still be in the house and check up on us..(not MUCH) but then just leave and let us talk or whatever. Just try making deals and reasoning with them. It might work. I hope i helped.. good luck ;)
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I'm 17, and so is my girlfriend, though most of the time she's a lot more mature than me because she's gone through a lot more. I've messed up a lot in my relationship.. nothing extreme, theres just a lot about me that bothers my girlfriend, and she's gone through times when she puts serious thought into breaking up with me, and truthfully i dont see why she hasnt. but what bothers her is basically just a lot about me that i can't help much, like things that i do without thinking about it, and the fact that i use to be a big flirt and sometimes have trouble stopping that.
she's always been more than faithful to me, and has never strayed away.she's debating giving up trying with me and i love her more than anything, she's perfect for what i want to be and am trying to be. but i need to know whether or not i should just let her go and live without my complications or not. please respond quickly. (link)
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The reason she hasnt broke up with you is because she cares about you a lot. She wants to be with you so thats why she puts up with what you do. If she hasnt broke up with you, then thats a sign that even though you flirt she still cares. Just sit down with her and talk to her about it. Tell her that you're trying to change not for her.. but for you too. I dont think you should let her go. I think sitting down and talking to her is the best advice for this. Other wise if you let her go.. you could be loosing the most perfect/important person in your mind/heart. I hope things go well and i hope that my advice helped you out. Good luck!!
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Hey, I’m usually the one giving advice. I don’t need advice. I just have a question and I want to know your opinion. This question is for deep thinkers. Long answers are encouraged as well as comical ones.
I’ve seen quite a lot of “love” questions, asked by adolescences. What would you call "true love"? Many people have been saying “I have a boyfriend and I REALY love him” and “she said that he loves me” or things like that. I’ve seen these questions being asked by 13 year olds! Teens DO have deep affections for people, but I really don’t think that they are capable of TRUE love. How can there be love if teen relationships only last 2 months or even 2 years! 2 years is quite long for a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship, but shouldn’t love last a LIFETIME? I agree that teens think that they are in love (I’ve been there) but I wouldn’t call that love. I would call it more like, “deep affection”. After all, if love between teens is really “love” then they shouldn’t break up, right? I think that teens are too young and “unexposed” to have TRUE LOVE. Even adults. They mistakenly call their relationships “love”. If it was actually love, then shouldn’t there be less or no divorces?
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i agree with you completely. Teens really dont know what "love" is. I think they just think they are in love because they feel wanted. I've been there before too. And it sucks sometimes. But you are totally right. If they were in "love" they wouldnt break up or fight. Fighting isnt something "love" brings. "love" is a special gift and its something you want to cherish. ok not cherish but be careful with. Teenagers these days feel like saying "I love you" isnt really that big of a deal. Not until he/she that they say it to believes them and the other person just said it because its what he/she wanted to hear. But you are right again. If they are actually in love there shouldnt be any divorces. I mean if you say you're in love.. you should never loose that feeling. And if you do.. then you were never in love with that person from the start.
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Ok. Heres my problem. I like this guy but he doesnt no i like him and right now he likes my best friend and stuff and me and him always talk on line and we go to the same school and stuff. Well I think now I have feelings for him and my best friend doesnt like him anymore she said but i dont think he likes me as a g/f. What should I do?? (link)
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tell him... let him know. he might like you, you just dont see it. And when you do tell him... you'll feel better knowing that its off your chest and that he knows. Not saying he will like you back... but he might and if you dont tell him how you feel.. then you might never know if he likes you too...
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There's this kid , and he's in my junior high class. He hangs out with all the biaches in my class, and his "girlfriend", but all they really do is make-out at parties and stuff. But anyways, in other words, he hangs out with the popular crowd. He never talks to me, and now he's acting wierd. Opening doors for me, just stuff like that. i'm getting really suspicious. Can anyone tell me what he might be up to? (link)
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he might not be up to anything. He might really like you or just want to be your friend. And just because he hangs with the snobs doesnt mean hes like them. He might just like you and hes showing you by opening doors. if you really want to know why he's doing that... then the best advice i can give is just to go up and ask him why when the snobs arent there. Maybe then he'll explain but if they are around.. then i doubt he will tell the truth.
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thers this kid lets call him will,i am fixated with him,i like know things about him and when i see him my heart skips.but we r in different social circles plus i think he likes his friend micaela.do i like him and what should i do about it. (link)
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in away i believe you do like this kid. I mean if your heart skips when you see him then you must have some feelings for him. Even tho he likes his friend Micaela I think you should still tell him how you feel about him. Because you never know.. he might feel the same way about you.
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