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Hi I am a 17 year old boy and my girlfriend wants to have unprotected sex
with me, but i'm not sure i want to have unprotected sex.
We have had protected sex before. Please Help me?.
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unprotected sex well i would say no bacause she could get pregant is better if she take the morning after pill and your use somthing you should tell her how u feel about that
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If your uncomfortable having unprotected sex then don't. It really isn't the best idea to begin with. There are too many risks such as STD's or pregnancy. Well good luck with whatever you chose.
-Natalie-
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tell her no
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trust me..its not a good idea..you dont want to end up doing something you'll regret,unprotected sex is immature and irresponsible. you dont want to end up being a father at as young as this age..you need to tell her that you dont think it is very wise to have unprotected sex and that you rather use protection
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if i were i wouldnt do it. unless you're ready for the conceqeunces.
like:
having a child
getting a disease
basically hurting the one you love
maybe you guys should just cool is down and talk try not to talk about unprotected sex. Say that you dont think its the right time(unless you think it is) and you want to wait. Just remember the concegeunces
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dont do it dude
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I would just sit down and seriously discuss with her about this. Discuss all the consequences that can happen if you two have unprotected sex. If you are having doubts about having unprotected sex, then you shouldn't do it with her because that obviously means a part of you never wanted to and you shouldn't do anything you don't want to do. If she loved you, then she would understand your point of view. I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
p.s. for both of your safeties, I would suggest just keep using a condom
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NEVER EVER HAVE UNPROTECTED SEX EVER! well unless you're married. Trust me i know from experience. I asked my bf that also and we ended up having a baby! and if you want a baby then get married first. We even said that we wouldn't have a baby but then we did. It was the biggest mistake i ever made. Well don't get me wrong, i mean when we found out my bf and i got married and had a baby (who is the love of my life) and, well you just can't change the past. I was 17 also when we concieved my baby girl. So i didn't have the kind of experiences that i should have. I ended up marrying my first boyfriend and i never got to date ne one else, and theres just so many things that you have to miss out on because of a baby. I'm not going to college this year either...Ne ways, this is not about me, its about u. Don't have unprotected sex unless you're married and sure that neither of you have an std or aids or something. Just tell your girlfriend no, and she might get mad but that just means that its her loss.
good luck and keep me posted
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well, you are smart in asking on what to do
realise that by having unprotected sex, you can catch STDs, HIV, & AIDs, & you could even get her pregnet, even if you don't finish inside of her, it can still happen, so it is not safe at all, even sex with protection is not completly safe, so just tell her the risks, & that you really don't want to end up being a a father right now or have any STDs or anything, its to big of a risk
so, no, it is not safe or smart to do this
but it is very smart that you asked for adivise
hope I helped
-Cameron
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..No you are way to young to have unprotected sex..Are you old enough to be a father? No, and theere is a very high chance of her getting pregnant..So dont take a chance your to young and you have the rest of your life to have children..Not when your 17`Hope i helped`
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I would tell her that you don't wanna have unprotected sex and tell her of the risks, like STDs, pregnancy, and HIV AIDS. If she respects you, she will not pressure you, but if she does, tell her no and if u pressure me, I'll leave u ( or something along that ) Hope this helped.
*~Alexia~*
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in a way you already answered it..your questioning yourself whether you want to or not and it seems to me that your really not ready for the consequences...you have to make your own decion..
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hi..
You are sensible for asking which is good!
Have you talked to your girlfriend about this?
Don't feel forced into it, it's about what you want!
Are you aware of the risks and dangers of unprotected sex??
It puts you at risk of catching several infections and also puts your girlfriend at a risk of becoming pregnant..
If you feel that would like to know more about this, here's a useful site [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
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Not to come off offensively, but at 17 you must know that unprotected sex is not a good idea. Being sexually active is a BIG BIG decision, and it must be gone about properly and responsibly. It's NOT all fun and games! Unprotected sex is a serious matter with major consquences, some possibly fatal!! You will risk PREGNANCY, you will risk STD's, you will risk AIDS. Now tell me, do ANY of those sound FUN to you?? No. If you feel that you simply can not handle a baby at this point in your life, then you really should use protection. Just think about this, and use your head, please! [:
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Well, if you have done it before unprotected, why not now ? Its not safe, yes, but if you both love and trust each other and know that neither of you is sleeping around then your not at risk for any STD's & if she's on the pill, then I'd say go for it.
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Go for it, dude.
No teenage boy has really ever had that offer before.
I sure haven't. Well, if she's not on the pill, slap her upside the head (seriously) and tell her to grow up, because you don't make immature brash decisions that affect the rest of your life so hastily.
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why would she want to do that? get pregnant? well if i were you i wouldn't because there is the chance that she might get pregnant. but its up to you. hope you take my advice!
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Sweetie if she wants to have unprotected sex - shes just pushing to trap you. If shes on birth control, go for it once or twice. Dont do it all the time because youre just asking to be one of the .1 percent that gets pregnant. But if shes not on birth control - she really wants to try to trap you into the relationship. Girls do things like that when they feel the relationship isnt really going too well. If you dont want kids - wrap it up or get her put on something.
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well, just think. would you want to be the biological father of a most likey adopted child? and then, if you ever break up with your girlfriend, you will ALWAYS have a huge connection between e/o. you can choose what you want to do, but if you dont want to be a father, use protection!! plz rate and good luck! :D
~*jaimee*~
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Hey
She can get pregnant from unprotected sex even if you pull out. Guys have
precum (their natural lubricant.. but it contains sperm).
Look in the phone book and find a planned parenthood center. They will
usually give out free birth control if she goes in for an STD check and an
annual pap smear. Give her the information and if she's really serious
about having unprotected sex she'll give them a call and set up an
appointment.
♥ maria ♥
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Why would she want to have unprotected sex? I realize you have feelings for your girlfriend but I don't advise it. Many a young lady has trapped many a young man by getting pregnant. First and foremost...follow your instincts. It isn't a good idea for many reasons. :)
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