about

hay ya'll

Well, im an only child, but I have lots of cousins ( 40 of em ) and I am a freshmen in high school, OH BOY! ( sarcasim, the international langue of the world ) I am a devoted christen and I am in chorus and FCA and I love to read.

Love Everybody,

*~Alexia~*

advice

my friend says that when you finger someone, the person being fingered can being wearing pants but i dont think that is true ...is it true or no ..if its not true how can i tell her?

This is not true. To be fingered, a guy or gilr has to be able to stick his/her finger up ur vargina. Which means, its not only a no pants zone, its a no underwear zone eitehr. Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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when a guy asks you to a dance..how do you nicely turn him down?

Say, " I'm so sorry, but I don't feel all that well right now. Maybe later. " or something like that. Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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i got this shirt and it says "better forget it cause you'll never get it" ..is that a bad shirt, would people think im wierd?

It means that guys looking at you, i mean EYEBALLING YOU ALL OVER, they will read that shirt and know they ain't getting none of you today. People woukld think your a girl with a kick butt t-shirt. Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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what does libido mean?

its ur sex drive, like if someone has a slow libido, their sex life is slow. Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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plain and simple.. I'm obese, and i feel like dieing. what should i do?


Don't give something as easy as DIET or whatever. Maybe something you or someone you know has done to lose wright? i'm 70 lbs over weight and i hate myself for it...

I would try to do what I'm doing, eat as much as you want. The only difference is I gave up soda and gave up snacks. I only eat Breakfest Lunch and Dinner, sometimes I don't eat Breakfest and Lunch, but other times I do. I've lost 10 pounds in about 2 weeks already. Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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tomorrow is 'decade day' at school and i need some ideas. so far i have a..black and white polka dot tank top and a longist black poofy skirt. i have alot of black high/low top converse..so would this make some sort of style from the 60's, or 80's?? i dont want to do the 70's because i dont want to be like a hippie. I also have a lot of jewelry of alot of types like beads or stars or black with stars..etc. same thing with bracelets i have alot fo those. So i just need to know if this is okay..and i need alot of suggestions because i wanna look cool!! Thank you guys!
-con*e

I would shoot for 80s clothing, b/c in that decade, nothing matched. It's teh easiest period to do and the makeup didn't match and big hair was in. Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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what's cum...and what is a cherry and wat does it mean when it's popped?

Cumming is the height of sexual excitment.
Cherry is the tissue in your pussy ( vargina ) that creates like a barrier inside it.
and Popping a cherry means a guy has fingered you and broke the tissue.
Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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How do you naturally just "ask" someone out ot to hmcming?

btw, 13/f

Say " hey _________ do you wanna go to hmcming with me? " Hopw this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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Hello. My name is Ali and I am running for President of my Freshmen class. I am having a lot of trouble with making the speech. I dont know what to say and it has to be 2 minutes long. Can someone help me?

Just state what you plan to do if elected and why they need to be done. Hope this helped, but if you need to know how to write it, I'll tell you. Just IM or E-mail me.

*~Alexia~*

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What exactly am I supposed to do? My girlfriend would like one... But I'm not experienced in kissing so. Generally you just suck the skin? I don't know... I've looked at websites and they give me the same information that doesn't help me. Someone suggested light kisses at first then sucking... would that work?

I would say you would do it gently and then really go at it. Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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Okay here is the story. I have a job but I can only work a couple of hours because of my age. I need some money and I need it fast I don't want to sell my body or drugs, neone know what I can do?

You can:

babysit
walk dogs
have a yard sale
get another job
ask ur parents
take out a bank loan

Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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whats a nimf? easy 5

its someone whos addicted to sex. Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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what songs should i put on my ipod...? hate rock n country

Any songs you like, cause frankly I don't know what you like and what musivc you haven't heard of. Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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I have problems remembering things. Here are some examples:
*for World history we had to make folder covers and had to label it "world history" but i forgot that it was world history so i put "world geography."
*i was talking to my grandma one time and i told her "ill never forget that time when..." and then literally 2 minutes later I forgot about it and I couldn't think of it.
*if I'm writing down a sentence from a book I have to look at the book every 2 words because i forget.
*In math or history I forget what happens or how to do a problem so when it comes to test time I don't do so well(i do good in math but HORRIBLE in history.)

those were just SOME things. What's wrong with me and is there any way to fix this??

You just have a bad memory, like me. The only way I can conquere it is by keeping a planner for my daily life, go over wat I'm saying in my head repeatably, and I write stuff on my hand. Hope this helped.

uhhhhh wats my name again? oh yea *~Alexia~* (( jp jp lolz ))

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so yeah when ..i make out with my boyfriend...i'm not realy experienced .. i just want to have some ideas given to me..on -where my hands should go?- like..around his neck? or touching his hair?

i don't know..

i feel kinda weird just having my hands to myself.

I would suggest these things:

around his waist
around his neck
touching his hair
on his butt
on his legs
on his chest

What I'm trying to say is, anywhere where you feel comterable toching. Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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Well iv been with this girl 4 2 years and she says she wants to wait till she gets married to have sex,but i cant wait that long i think i waited long enough what the fuck do i do

Tell her. Be open and honest with her. But if you truly love her, you'll wait till you and her are married. I know you probably REALLY close to fucking a fire hydrent by now, but wait, cause us girls go through it too and it ain't easy for us either. Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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ok so im going out with this kid and and i have braces and so does he if like we make out or kiss will we get stuck together im jyss nervous lol ill rate 5's for none fagg answers

That's total crap made up by doctors who don't want to treat you for hickeys and stuff like that. I would kiss him and stuff, and if I'm wrong about this, then at least you too will be kissing for the longest time ever. Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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i know everyone has a different variation, but can you send you version of the bases? ex. first base-making out, 2nd base-up the shirt, etc.

Heres mine:

first base - kissing ( any kind )

second base - fingering and stuff ( oral )

thrid base - regular sex

and if theres a fourth base

fourth base - marriage or other

Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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What is an approiate age to have sex? I'm 15/F but I want to wait until I'm married. Is that the best time?

Whatever age you think is apporitate is the best age for you. Since we are all different, the age for sex varies, so I can't tell you what age to have it. Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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Are condoms 100% safe?

no, sometimes the condoms break. I would stick with the pill, its safer, 98% effective. Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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